There are always some unexpected difficulties on the road of life, which come inexplicably and cannot be avoided, and the most incredible road has to be taken. In addition to being brave and strong, we must continue to live happily! Because at this time, the only one who can help you the most is yourself!

The two families chatted happily together, the parents chatted about the difficulties of the year, reminisced about the difficult years, especially the hungry years in the 60s, the brothers talked about the campus in the 80s, the youth and regrets they had in the past, the happiness and regrets, the sisters-in-law and sisters discussed the children's training experience, discussed the children's characteristics, advantages and disadvantages, and imagined the children's future. Only Xiao Wanting was busy taking care of the baby, and Zhao Hong was busy boiling water for everyone to renew tea.

Each has some of their own happy busy, five children rarely see a very happy play, especially with the same and a lot, after the initial adaptation began to be free, in the country rare to see the children's room, inside is the toy, and is very safe, are four or five years old children, no one has the habit of politeness, unhappy to argue a few words.

"This one is mine, that one is yours!"

"No, the princess is mine, and the prince is yours!"

"Tongtong, hold me, I'm going to take the delicious one above!"

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Xiaoxi and the sea also took out the toys they thought were the best, and then put out the best snacks, and Xiao Wanting's niece Xiao Yuxing was the lowest, but the shouting voice was the highest, Xiao Pepper's face had begun to be revealed, more brave than Xiaoxi, she didn't cry when she wrestled, she got up with a smoke, and continued to play with a smile on her face; Duoduo was a little quietly observing, and when she found good things, she also pulled Tongtong to get them, and sometimes she would like to play with the two girls; 。 Xiaoxi is also the most enthusiastic about taking care of her younger brother and sister, and there is a rather accomplished expression on her little face. Tongtong is also a happy big brother, who asks for help, he is happy to work, who gives delicious food, but also thank you at the same time, never shirk unceremonious acceptance, simple happiness.

The three mothers happily watched the happy exchange of their children, and Xiao Wanting also joined them in the exchange with her little baby. Other people are also holding the child, feeling the cuteness of the new life, the soft little guy, the cute little guy is so cute, already half a year old, always with a cute smile, as long as he is full of food and drink, he is a happy! This guy looks more like Zhao Hong, the little hands have begun to scratch from time to time, catch everything is sent to the mouth, bite a bite and taste, blow a bubble from time to time, the cute appearance is very cute......

In August, SF is the season of beautiful scenery, the whole city is a unique mixture of vigorous youth and old-world exquisite taste, F City has many famous attractions, including elegant and fresh cultural landscapes and spectacular scenery of beautiful cities, I believe it will not take too long, everyone will be intoxicated.

Zhao Hong's family is also like this, and the local Chinese guide invited to explain it very wonderfully, and even Zhao Hong's parents, who have never liked to go out, are a little nostalgic and forgetful. And Zhao Hong's brother and sister-in-law are even more so, and they are also full of envy for the people who can live here.

Brother Zhao Hong couldn't help but sigh a little, "This is life, and we are alive at most!" A clean and tidy environment, full of hope and vitality, beautiful natural scenery and harmonious humanistic architecture. ”

Sister Zhao Hong, who was outspoken, said with some disgust, "It's easy to say! What are you doing here? The prices here are really high! Without enough income, it is absolutely difficult to support life here." ”

Zhao Hong's sister-in-law also said with a smile, "A high-quality life still needs a high income to support." But I think it's possible that we can do it, and a lot of high-tech companies here actually need basic engineering students like me and your brother!"

Xiao Wanting said indifferently, "As long as you want, you can come and live and work." It's not too difficult, you can come and learn English while working, and by the way, study and get an MBA, and it's not particularly difficult. As for how to get there, there are many ways to do it. As for the rest of life, there is no need to worry. ”

Zhao Hong also explained, "At present, the company is still a multinational company, and domestic employees naturally have the opportunity to work in country M. After a certain number of years, it is natural to have permanent residency. As for the future, I will be free, and I can work and live wherever I want. And you don't have to worry about family planning!"

In fact, everyone is a little dissatisfied with this domestic policy, after all, the foreseeable future is too lonely!

It does not conform to the habits of people's lives, nor does it meet the needs of life. And this is also a promise of Zhao Hong to his brothers and sisters who are not very old at present. Because in the future, when they are old, the consequences of having only one child will be vividly revealed.

At the beginning, the government advertised that "only one is good, the government will provide for the elderly", and then a few years later it became "still a good, the government helps the elderly", as people are reluctant to have children because of economic pressure, and even when marriage is consciously postponed, the government tells you to "work hard for 40 years, and you have to rely on yourself to provide for the elderly", and then tell you that you have delayed retirement, because there are too many children and too many old people. The country has begun to change again, and when you can't and dare not have children, it tells you to have a second child as soon as possible!

The poor generation was treated as an experiment in this way, poor post-70s!

Zhao Hong added helplessly, "The sorrow of an only child is now deeply experienced by many children. From childhood to adulthood, without companions, one person occupies all the "resources", but at the same time bears all the pressure alone. The contradiction between growing up alone and being pampered by all parents creates a character that is either autistic or extremely vain, or presumptuous or intolerant. Self-centeredness is not a shame in today's open and traditional China. On the long road to study, no one shares the experience of studying for exams, and when you are an ignorant teenager, no one confides in your hazy and pure emotions, and although you have three or five friends, you can't whisper when you close the door at night. ”

Xiao Wanting also added, "Many of my Haishi classmates are the first only children, and when they finally enter the society, the whole family will intervene in her (his) work issues, and she no longer lives for herself, but for the family." This is especially true when you get married and have children. In the long run, being made by others or involved in their own decisions, they have never learned the ability to choose and decide, and they do not know how to pay the responsibility of choice. This is a great sorrow for the life of this generation. ”

Zhao Hong's brothers and sisters are still a little hesitant, and some are reluctant to give up everything in the country and start from scratch. And I am reluctant to give up my life and work, which I have seen so far, which is very stable.

Zhao Hong finally smiled and said, "You should make some contribution to the country! Haven't you been able to pay those fines now? Are you still afraid of losing your job? Is that poor job that may be laid off at any time?"

Xiao Wanting also made up for the knife and said, "It's better to rely on anyone than on yourself!"