A sensational incident occurred in the staff dormitory of Zhao Song Group Company.

A twenty-eight-year-old company employee broke up with his girlfriend on the eve of their upcoming wedding. The breakup was just a trivial matter, but he was made a big fuss by the girl and her family in the dormitory, and if it wasn't for the company's security guards to dissuade him, he might have been beaten! Because the impact of the matter was very bad, the company had no choice but to do a simple investigation, and with the consent of the parties, the details of the investigation were made public.

In fact, things are not that complicated, that is, this man found a girlfriend who had lived with others for several years, originally he had a certain amount of mental preparation, but in the end he found that he could not accept it in their cohabitation, especially because the girl had already had fertility difficulties in the last long-term cohabitation, and he was going to get married after thinking twice, but he decided to give up!

Zhao Song Group has added an article in the dormitory management, unmarried couples cannot apply for the company's apartment cohabitation, and the company opposes the premarital cohabitation of the company's employees, and encourages those who are in love to obtain a marriage certificate as soon as possible.

It is said that this regulation on the personal affairs of the company's employees has aroused many discussions among young unmarried young people, and there are many people who are in favor of it, but there are also many people who oppose it, and there are also many groups in the middle. But this regulation is still in favor of the majority of middle and high-level people to start to implement!

The three most self-comforting words of the opposition boys and girls: "Who has not gone over? Who can have a blank slate? Who was born to wait for you? In fact, these are all choices! You can choose to accept or not to accept! There is no right or wrong! But everyone is responsible for his choice! There is no right to interfere with other people's choices!"

"People used to live with their ex-boyfriends, what does it have to do with you, when they are with you, they are dedicated to you and are very serious about you, as if they have never lived with their ex! How can you not have a virgin? Tell me? The woman you married in the end is the girl you swore that you would be responsible for?

"Why doesn't anyone say that girls should ask for virginity, but men like to ask if their wives are virgins? Because of gender inequality, women can't judge the purity of their men, while men can, so that pride from gender makes them overemphasize their feelings!"

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The one in favor is the one who thinks.

"Girls who have lived together are actually worse than divorced, anyway, I definitely won't want to! It's not the reason why virgins are not virgins, look at the fact that many girls are sick and bad habits after living together, look at the infertility specialty, most of them are girls who have lived together, punish themselves for the mistakes of others, unless the man is really sick!"

"Forget it, everyone understands the truth, but if I want to take the bride price of the garage to marry a woman who has lived with someone, forget it, as my first wife, I need to take the bride price of the garage to live with her, and her ex does not use it, why am I worse than her predecessor?

"That is the same as requiring a man to have a car and a house, the girl who has lived together will definitely depreciate sharply, and if she lives together at will, she is likely to have a lot of problems after marriage! Which man is willing to take over? As for saying that there are many men and women who can easily accept it, it is true, that is because their love is indeed limited, and they have not pursued perfection again, and they do not attach enough importance to marriage, so where there are many people who have lived together before marriage, there are many divorces. ”

"My girlfriend is a virgin, my ex-girlfriend is not, and I can tolerate the current as much as I can, and I don't want to tolerate my ex-girlfriend at all. To put it bluntly, there is nothing bad about people, but if there is a conflict and I want to break up, I will not feel that I have failed her, someone has already failed her. Now I only have the current in my eyes, and my predecessor can't remember it at all, I just think she is pitiful and pathetic!"

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Most centrist people are more peaceful and more objective in their view.

"I don't mind that I know best, there are very few people who don't mind if they are really broad, once they have good conditions, they usually decide to divide decisively, and some of the poor conditions are just afraid that there will be no next store in this village, in fact, it is selfish and cowardly! This time, the young man of our company has a very high income, and he has his own house in the market, although it is not very big. But the conditions are good among his peers, why ask others to be a pick-up man for a girl older than him!"

"Men and women, as long as they have lived with someone. It's no different if she's been divorced once. can only be treated as a second marriage, but there are no children. If the men and women of the second marriage care about the conditions, not the feelings, as for whether they can accept it, it depends on the conditions of both parties!"

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This time the regulations are so fast, and many of them are promoted by Zhao Hong and his wife!

"Back then, how difficult it was for me to live alone with Jack, and how much I hate premarital cohabitation today! Young people are sometimes ignorant, and if they make mistakes, they still have to improve quickly! And I still left Jack back then, and if I went to a small clinic to solve problems like domestic girls, then I may have a lot of problems today! Ectopic pregnancy, that woman is also too bad!"

Guo Yi was a little glad of his choice back then, and he was also a little dissatisfied with that woman. (Not an employee of the company)

"This problem is a big problem! Fortunately, this male employee gave up, otherwise his life would be ruined! Older boyfriends and girlfriends have certain feelings, but at least the conditions should be comparable! Especially in this aspect. If you can't have children for many years, not only do you need to treat the disease for many years, but you also need to pay a lot of time and money, and you may not have your own children for the rest of your life. Why?"

Zhao Hong said a little unfairly for the male employees of his company, but he didn't see Guo Yi a little dissatisfied.

"Then why did you want me back then?

Guo Yi questioned Zhao Hong.

"No, how can I be so irresponsible? Don't look at my young age at the time, but I don't already have a house and a certain amount of income, if it weren't for your sudden departure and then loss of contact, we would have been together a long time ago!"

Zhao Hong hurriedly explained his thoughts.

"So you're not going to college?"

"It's very important to be able to go to college! But if I need to, I will definitely marry you as soon as possible if I don't go to college! Men still need to be brave and take responsibility!"

"Then why didn't you marry Xiao Wanting? Actually, I have always wanted to ask in my heart, but I didn't dare to ask, I wanted to know the answer, and I was afraid that you would tell me ......."

Guo Yi smiled with satisfaction, and the hands of the two of them were held together again, with a little sweetness, but she was still curious to ask later.

"What she likes is not only me, but more of my overall condition! I can't say that we don't have feelings, but at least it shows that this kind of love is not pure love!"

Zhao Hong explained again with some helplessness, and he also thought that with his advantage of being reborn in a lifetime, why couldn't he have a pure feeling?