Chapter 388: No One Knows Tomorrow (1)
Zhao Hong is not an overly greedy person, the moon is full, the water is overflowing, he still understands this ancient saying, but the investment department of Zhao Song Group in 2001, still for the first time produced a lot of losses, on the one hand, the continuous downward trend of the stock market has not changed, and the other is that the valuation of many projects has shrunk sharply....... With the first time that the investment department did not issue more bonuses and rewards, many people began to doubt and doubt, and even wavered, and the resignation of some personnel is constantly emerging!
In fact, this is not only the case for economic investment, but also for emotional marriage.
Because lovers who are emotionally together often separate because the relationship is gone, but if you know from the beginning that everyone is just because they are suitable to be together, as long as everyone's situation does not change much, the relationship has always been bland, because there are too many expectations at the beginning, so there will be more disappointment in the later blandness.
In the period before November, Xiao Wanting has always been by his side, has always been remotely directing the company, and indirectly handling the company's business, but there are many things that cannot be specifically negotiated. So before Halloween, she left Haishi and returned to Country M to prepare for the year-end summary and the next stage of arrangement!
In the following days, Zhao Hong took his service staff to exercise, and only on weekends, Guo Yi would accompany him from time to time, perhaps because he was young, his condition slowly eased, and his mood slowly returned to calm, without the irritability from time to time.
Zhao Hong really had the feeling of returning to the world again! Although he said that he still needed to continue taking medicine, according to the doctor's judgment, it would take more than half a year at most to get completely well, but he still reminded him that he must relax his mood, not be tired, and not be happy and sad.
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The media tends to report on the harm that divorce brings to children, so people subconsciously believe that divorce is irresponsible to children. If a family is divorced, then the child will not receive complete love.
As a result, many families on the verge of disintegration will struggle to maintain their children for the sake of their children.
But the child understands everything, he understands very well that his parents have become "enemies" and no longer love each other.
In fact, it is not the divorce that hurts the children the most, but the sleepless fighting, quarrelling, cold wars and mutual alienation of the parents all day long......
There was once a girl who recalled her parents' divorce when she was 13 years old, which was a kind of "relief" for her.
"They quarrel a lot, and I can't afford to take care of one or the other, or I'll be the one who suffers. Especially the Chinese New Year, it was literally the end of my world.
Someone asked me, don't I envy the family reunion for the New Year? I want to say that people who have never eaten chocolate will never know how delicious it is, and they will not think about it.
Divorce is discouraged, but when a marriage is broken, divorce is the best option for children. ”
There are also many people who go on blind dates in the park, divorced or widowed. Most of the younger ones have a nonchalant expression, and those middle-aged uncles or sisters are more or less embarrassed, curious, and apprehensive.
As the pace of life accelerates, everyone is busy with work as if it were clockwork. Home is like a hostel, there is a lack of communication.
Most of the reasons for divorce are not domestic violence and cheating as people think, but those seemingly inconspicuous little things. And "loneliness in marriage" is the last straw that crushes marriage.
However, traditional culture still makes people firmly believe that marriage must be happy, and put trust in feelings in the first place.
The best part of marriage is that when you want someone to be with you, you want to be there.
Guo Yi also rarely had time to accompany him, and even took the children to the park to play, and the rare clear sky in November in Haishi, the temperature was about 20 degrees, and he was just right to wear a simple coat.
"Why do you have time to accompany me today?
Zhao Hong couldn't help but ask with some curiosity.
Guo Yi said with a smile, "Beautiful you! Today I am here to take the children out to play, and I will accompany you by the way! The work cannot be done, especially if you deliberately pursue the ultimate perfection! Let others do it! Last year, for a period of time, Xiao Wanting and I have begun to hire the management team of many group companies through headhunting companies, and after more than a year of running-in, the two sides have basically adapted to the company's management model! She and I have begun to gradually let go. The only thing left is supervision. ”
The two walked in the park while chatting and holding hands, while the children were taken care of by the family staff.
"Daddy, here! There are people here to rest in the verandah!"
"Mom, look at the grandparents over there seem to be dancing! But it seems to be a swing dance!"
"Ah...... "......The two youngest children also practiced brisk walking and trot under the supervision of adults.
The family went to the verandah to sit down, the boys chased and played, and Xiaoxi observed the verandah in the traditional Chinese cultural style.
The beams and pillars of the verandah are artificially painted, with large flowers and green leaves, vermilion columns, and the sunlight penetrates the tall willow trees, leaving dappled light and shadow on the ground outside the verandah.
There are also many aunts and uncles who come to participate in the blind date activities outside the verandah. As always, with his usual advertising equipment, there are no goods, all some information. Some of them are hoping to make money from it, and there are more activities that are purely for the purpose of finding a sense of existence after retirement.
Just like Mr. Chen and his wife, who were the first to participate in it, the two old people are both local retired teachers in Haishi, with good incomes, and their children have grown up to study abroad and start a family. Originally, I thought it was a very perfect family life, but after I really retired, they found that they had more rest, maybe they were even more lost! to visit their children, but they were not particularly adapted to life abroad; without familiar streets, without familiar people, even more lonely!
I don't know when it started, they also participated in the work of volunteer matchmakers, because there are many students, so there are many target customers, and they also get along with young people for a long time, so that they can better understand the ideas and needs of young people.
Many people started asking for help, and they enjoyed it, according to Mr. Chen.
"I'm getting older, and I can help my children solve a major life event, of course I'm happier!"