Chapter 43: The first meeting with his girlfriend's mother
In the end, Li's father took the phone and agreed that Li Xiaofang would go to see it first, and Li's father accompanied Li Xiaofang's younger brother, who was about to start entering the second year of high school, to school. There is no other advantage, only more hard work to make up for it.
Zhao Hong felt a little excited, his mother in the previous life also sewed sweaters after work every day before his brother graduated from college, and contracted the hand-processing work, a set of children's small sweaters was only five cents, and it was sewn carefully in the dim light, and people who had never read a book in their lives had myopia.
After Zhao Hong went to college, after the policy allowed, he began to set up a stall for more than ten years, and there were days of wind and sun. On the side of the alley in front of her house, she struggled to calculate the profit of a few yuan and a few dimes a day for a porter all her life.
That's how she has been using her meager strength to study with Zhao Hong, and the marriage of her brother and sister. When Zhao Hong got married, he gave Zhao Hong another 20,000 yuan, although Zhao Hong's income had increased to a certain extent at that time, and it was enough to start a family, but he still couldn't refuse the selfless dedication of his parents.
Zhao Hong also burst into tears when he thought about it. Lying quietly on the bed, full of thoughts.
It wasn't until his family came that he got better, yes, let's live this life first! Since God has given him such an opportunity, don't leave any more regrets.
My brother and sister-in-law accompanied their parents to Hangzhou from Haishi with a small number of gifts. Everyone happily talked about the advanced and beautiful Haishi, but my brother was a little disappointed, and the opportunity to be sent to Jiaotong University was given up due to family economic reasons. However, I soon forgot that I discussed the journey in Hangzhou in the past few days, the West Lake must go, at least two days, and other scenery for one day, and I have to see the silk in Hangzhou. This time, it was led by Zhao Hong's brother, because he had already come here once for his college internship. There have been changes, but not much.
Four days later, the satisfied parents and the unsatisfied brother and sister-in-law embarked on the return journey back to T City.
Early the next morning, Zhao Hong picked up Li Xiaofang, who had arrived all the way from his hometown.
Li Xiaofang, who had just gotten off the train, looked depressed and depressed. As soon as he got out of the car and saw Zhao Hong, he threw himself into Zhao Hong's arms and cried bitterly, the people around him looked very strange, Zhao Hong hurriedly comforted his girlfriend. took his girlfriend and left to the hotel where Zhao Hong stayed for the first time.
Li Xiaofang went to eat with Zhao Hong first when she was a little better, or the small restaurant of the enthusiastic uncle, the flow of people was crowded, and Li Xiaofang, who had not eaten well in the car for a few days, ate the breakfast for two people fiercely, and her face had a little brilliance.
Then the two of them held hands in the light rain and returned to the hotel, and the two of them had not seen each other for a few days. Zhao Hong and Li Xiaofang were very affectionate, which slightly alleviated Zhao Hong's lovesickness. Seeing that Li Xiaofang's mood had improved a lot, Zhao Hong began to slowly tell about what he had observed and heard during this time, and as he spoke, Li Xiaofang cried again, comforting him for a long time, and Li Xiaofang was a little better.
Subsequently, Zhao Hong took out his own plan and told her about her views on her mother's current situation, and the ideas and methods to solve the problem. Then there is the next step.
Then he took Li Xiaofang to Fang Min's house, who had already inquired. Li Xiaofang stood in front of the door a little hesitant, Zhao Hong simply knocked on the door of the somewhat old two-story east house, and after a few "bangs", a boy of the same age as Zhao Hong opened the door.
Zhao Hong hurriedly said, "Let's find Ms. Fang Min." Is she there?"
"Come in, who is it?" a middle-aged woman's voice came, and Zhao Hong pulled Li Xiaofang in and went straight to the room where the voice came from. After entering the room, I saw a girl who was very similar to Li Xiaofang, "That's right." Zhao Hong pushed Li Xiaofang, who was hiding behind him, to the front.
"This is ......" Fang Min kept looking at Li Xiaofang and couldn't open her mouth, just crying silently, and Li Xiaofang's sister on the side also looked at her sister in surprise, her eyes had begun to redden, with a slightly trembling voice, "You are, you are Xiaofang?"
Li Xiaofang couldn't cry at this time, choked and nodded. Although I haven't sent photos for a few years, the nature of mother and daughter, the natural closeness of the sisters' blood relationship, so that they recognized each other at once after not seeing each other for more than ten years, Li Xiaofang went up and hugged her mother and cried happily after a little hesitation, the tall Li Xiaofang hugged her petite mother, Li Xiaofang just kept saying, "Mom, mom ......", and Fang Min also kept patting Li Xiaofang and said, "Good, good girl." Both of them were crying and crying, and they were crying and crying, and it took a long time to calm down.
Xiaofang's mother introduced Xiaofang, "This is your sister, you may have a clearer impression, you were already 5 years old when you were separated, you should have a memory, this is your cousin Xiaochao, this is your cousin Xiao'an, your grandfather is in another room, this is ......?"
Li Xiaofang said a little shyly, "This is my boyfriend, a college classmate." That's what accompanied me today. ”
Zhao Hong hurriedly said, "Hello, I am Zhao Hong, a native of T City, S Province, and a classmate of Xiaofang's college classmates. ”
Li Xiaofang's mother warmly asked Zhao Hong to sit down first, and Zhao Hong knew that the story of his girlfriend's mother was about to be staged.
Li Xiaofang was taken by her mother to visit her grandfather, Zhao Hong was left behind (still to be investigated), and Zhao Hong was asked by several sisters, brothers and sisters of the same age.
"Where is home?"
"How did you meet?"
"What do you like about Xiaofang?"
……
One by one, they all became curious babies, waiting for the big eyes to ask one question after another, and they exploded in an instant, and they didn't know what to say.
Zhao Hong rationalized his thinking, "Stop! Make a complete introduction again, I am a native of T City, S Province, I am 20 years old, 178 tall, my weight is confidential, I am a female hobby, and I am 92 in the Department of Chemistry of Haishi Normal University." The first day of school with Li Xiaofang was love at first sight, heart to heart, affectionate and silent, two loves, love and love, strong love and honey, love is stronger than gold, ready to fly with wings, stay together, stay together, stay together, wet each other, the sea is dry and rotten, and never separated. After answering, please advise. ”
They were stunned for a moment and all laughed, the younger sister was the most exaggerated, bent down with a smile, the elder brother patted Zhao Hong's shoulder with a little reserve, and the elder sister covered her mouth and smiled. Zhao Hong looked at his sisters and brothers, but the genes are good, they are all very good, the men are handsome and chic, the women are all big-eyed beauties, slim, but they are not tall, the men are just 170, the women are just 160, you can change them in the south, and they are worse in the north.
Subsequently, they also introduced themselves, my sister Li Xiaofen opened the fourth year of the law department of Zhejiang University, the male cousin is the same age as Zhao Hong, the third year of the Department of Economics of Zhejiang University, and the youngest sister entered the clinical medicine of Zhejiang Medical College, they are all high-IQ guys, there are no more than 20 years of experience in later generations, and you have to be careful when dealing with them.
also took the initiative to talk about the current situation at home, and only my sister fell in love among several people, but the result was unpredictable.
So my sister asked, "Do you have any plans for the future?"
Very tactful, Zhao Hong said, "I may want to be a teacher in the future." Fight to stay in Haishi. ”
"Then it will be a little difficult for you to start a family in the future, and there will be a lot of problems such as housing, do you have any plans?"
"My family has already bought a small house, which is near the university. Xiaofang has been there, and there are no plans for the rest for the time being. After all, there are still three years to graduate."
"That's good! I'm also worried about housing after graduation and work. ”
Zhao Hong said kindly, "If you can buy it, buy it quickly, the house price will be higher in the future." Prices are rising fast, and house prices are rising even faster. ”
"It's hard!"
Zhao Hong said in his heart that it is not difficult, housing prices will rise faster. This topic cannot be picked up again.
In this era, the distribution of college graduates continues, but the units are no longer good units, the general decline in the efficiency of enterprises, the large increase in laid-off workers, and the general hope of going to some units that guarantee income during droughts and floods. But it's not easy, and even if there is, it's in remote areas. And the civil service exam has not officially begun. Therefore, many of the students who graduated during this period went to work in foreign companies and private companies. The same was true of Zhao Hong's previous life. Very difficult choice. There is right and wrong. Everyone's situation cannot be generalized.
After a while, Li Xiaofang and her mother came back, their eyes were red, but their eyes were indeed full of happiness, no matter what, it was also their grandfather, and the blood and family relationship could not be fought endlessly.
Li Xiaofang's mother eased her emotions, sat down and took Li Xiaofang's hand, looked at Zhao Hong and asked,
"Xiaofang is only 18 years old this year, she is still very immature, but you have been talking for almost a year, how long can you last?
Zhao Hong hurriedly got serious and said very seriously and sincerely, "Actually, our acquaintance is also very accidental, to be honest, Xiaofang is very beautiful, but when I first started, because she was beautiful, I was even farther away, because I like smart girls." It was only later that I had the opportunity to have more contact with Xiaofang, and I found out that Xiaofang was a very smart and kind girl, and then we began to gradually come together. Then we got to know each other more and more, and we slowly fell in love with each other. Xiaofang has met my parents and family, everyone likes her very much, and of course I also believe in myself, and I can rely on my own efforts to win a happy future for myself and my lover. ”
Li Xiaofang's mother looked at Zhao Hong with some contemplation, "You are very mature, you have your own understanding of life and love, don't talk about right or wrong, it's just a personal choice." And Li Xiaofang is still very simple, can she be sure of what she likes, and there will be no changes in the future......?
Zhao Hong hurriedly interrupted, "No one can be sure that the reason for liking will never change. But if you can't be sure, you can't, and you can't fall in love, that's too absolute. Is there anyone around you who has been the same since you was a child?"
Li Xiaofang's mother shook her head happily and didn't say anything more.
Zhao Hong didn't say anything more. Some things are done, and no matter how good they are, they don't matter how well they are done. And the woman can't help herself, and some things can't be said.
What's more, the daughter is the only one for every mother, the most beautiful baby, isn't it normal to embarrass a few words?
Think about it, if someone wants to take away their precious daughter, how can they rest assured if they don't create a little difficulty and test for him?
That's my favorite baby girl!