Chapter 45 Account Number
Han Sen has not contacted his ex-girlfriend, and his ex-girlfriend has not contacted Han Sen. Ning Xian'er was an exception, she was more like a member of Han Sen's family.
Because the two have never met again, they are more like netizens, and all the communication exists online. As long as you take a look at the WeChat circle of friends, you can basically understand each other's recent situation.
Han Sen compared Ning Xian'er to a game account, a highest-level game account.
A game account that has been archived, and the other accounts have been deleted and are no longer in contact with each other, except Ning Xian'er's account has been saved.
Without the idea of reciprocity, it is difficult for two people to maintain a friendly and pure communication for a long time after separation.
Li Shan'er directly blocked Han Sen, Lu Qin'er deleted Han Sen, and Zhang Min'er turned a blind eye to Han Sen. So Han Sen couldn't connect with them.
Han Sen and Ning Xian'er broke up naturally, neither of them had any debts and regrets, and there was a lot of consensus on getting along for a long time, the longer the friendship between the two became more open and solid.
Ning Xian'er herself is not perfect, she also loves to be noisy and noisy, but this does not affect her status in Han Sen's mind.
This is thanks to Lin Rouer's pressing step by step. Every time Lin Rou'er made a fuss, Han Sen would evolve once, and if there was too much trouble, Han Sen would start to think in reverse.
In the past, Han Sen refused to quarrel and confront, but now Han Sen accepts all of this.
He was able to face it all with more maturity. There is also one more thing from these insights, that is, the feelings for Ning Xian'er do not need to be hidden, and they should not be avoided.
Honesty about the past does not mean the denial of the present, on the contrary, only by having the courage to face the past can the present be better.
Han Sen is absolutely committed to every relationship. So every time when the relationship is confirmed, if he receives Ning Xian'er's message again, he will kindly remind him, so that there will be no bloody plots.
Han Sen believes that as long as there is nothing wrong, he is not afraid of any investigation at all. But Lin Rouer doesn't think so, she likes to doubt very much, and it can even be said that she can't wait for some twists and turns and bizarre plot waiting for her, a big detective, to explore and discover.
At the beginning of the relationship, Han Sen was based on the principle of mutual trust, and his mobile phones were unguarded, but it turned out that Han Sen was too tender and completely ignored Lin Rou'er's madness.
Lin Rouer took Han Sen's mobile phone and could be said to have rummaged through every corner, looking between the lines for possible clues, and every time she found a suspicious point, she would make a fuss and cry.
For Lin Rou'er's happiness, Han Sen changed the password of his mobile phone, so that the world would be clean.
Although Lin Rou'er was even more unhappy, but this time Han Sen would not make the same mistake again, he firmly implemented the blockade order, as the so-called out of sight and out of mind, after a long time, he will slowly accept this reality.
Han Sen often goes to the kindergarten to pick up Han Yuqing, and there will always be a lot of fresh insights with children.
Han Yuqing is very naughty and always makes Han Sen angry, in order to establish his majesty in front of Han Yuqing, he always communicates more with Han Yuqing in the way he treats adults.
At first, Han Yuqing was very resistant, she wanted to play, she wanted to play as she wanted, she didn't want to be restrained, she wanted to eat, she wanted to take whatever she liked, even if it was a stranger's thing.
Han Sen would tell her very seriously, not to eat strangers' things, not to play with strangers casually, to tell her family, and to get the consent of your family before taking the next step.
Although Han Sen also knew that this would suppress some of the child's innocence, it could also better regulate her behavior, so that she would not become a spoiled child.
Han Yuqing has a very high understanding, and in the repeated confrontation, reconciliation, confrontation, and reconciliation with Han Sen, Han Yuqing learned to be obedient.
Even if she doesn't agree with what the adults say, she will try to find a compromise solution.
This kind of Qingqi's cute attitude towards the world is very enlightening to Han Sen, and Han Sen feels that he can actually treat adults as children, just as children can be treated as adults. In this way, many problems can be easily solved.
As a simple example, if adults are arguing for face, if you switch to child mode and imagine each other as children, how will they fight?
It must be cute, not good, all kinds of cute golden sentences are frequent, and when you quarrel, you forget why you quarreled, and you want to eat something, or reconcile without warning, and then continue to play together.
When you encounter a particularly angry incident that is difficult to calm down, try to imagine yourself or the other party as a 3-year-old child, and look at this ridiculous event and ridiculous person from God's perspective, so that you should feel better.
Han Sen treated Lin Rouer in this way, using the cartoon version to simulate all Lin Rouer's anger, which made the plot cute and funny.
Once you find the right way, you will not be afraid of the problem, but will take it lightly.