There is no perfect thing in this world, love is like this, marriage is the same, it is really there, and there is no absolute perfection. If you have to use the word "improvised", then it can only be said that all marriages that still exist at present actually have such an element, but if you think about it from another angle, except for the part of "improvisation", which marriage has not ended without nostalgia?

This is normal, people are social animals, and no one is higher than anyone else at the level of human evolution, because they belong to the same ancestor, and perhaps the different perspectives of each person when facing problems are fundamental.

Needless to say, if you only see the parts of the marriage that make you happy, on the other hand, if you look at the parts of the marriage that can satisfy you or be nostalgic, you will have more happiness.

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There are two forms of marriage for a woman: either to marry love or to marry age. When no one complained about marriage before, these two forms of marriage have always coexisted. However, nowadays, more and more people tend to "marry love" and don't want to "marry age", because they are aware that "marrying age" has a forced and helpless component, and they don't want to get married for the sake of getting married because they are old, and many people who marry age finally divorce, which is a wake-up call for those women.

"If you want to marry love, don't marry age", this sentence seems to be no problem, and many people agree with it. However, some people have a misunderstanding of this sentence. First of all, marrying love, there is nothing to say, it is easy to understand, it is to fall in love first and then get married. Regarding the age of marriage, this needs to be treated on a case-by-case basis:

First of all, the world believes that when you reach the age of "marriage", you must get married, regardless of whether there is emotional foreshadowing, get married first. Of course, this kind of marriage with a forced nature of "marrying age" is not advisable, because there is no emotional foreshadowing, and it is directly because you get married immediately when you reach the age, then there will definitely be problems after marriage, because you get married for the sake of marriage, and you get married for the sake of age, so there will be a lot of unwillingness and instability, and if it is serious, you will get divorced.

However, if the parents remind them of the age of "it is time to get married", but they are not forced to get married immediately, but are allowed to pave the way for marriage, fall in love first and then get married, there is actually nothing wrong with this form of "marrying age", but there is an extra layer of age reminder on the basis of "marrying love".

Therefore, when you understand this sentence, don't blindly deny the "age of marriage", because when you are older, your parents and people around you will inevitably remind you. As long as you are not forced to "marry age", you can still "marry love". That is to say, no matter what age it is, no matter whether the parents remind you to be older, as long as you pay attention to the issues that should be paid attention to when dealing with marriage, such as whether the two people are suitable, such as the foreshadowing of love, such as the run-in of tolerance and trust, etc., if you do these well, you are still married to love. The key is how you treat your marriage, which is the most important thing. If you blindly compromise your marriage before marriage, ignore it, let it go freely, and live your married life according to your own imagination, then it will not end well in the end, not because of the "age of marriage", but because of your own fault.

In fact, when it comes to love and marriage, men are also troublesome.

When they are young, if they don't have a good family foundation, most of the boys are still struggling for their careers, looking forward to continuously improving their economic foundation, career foundation, it can't be said that girls ask for more, but some requirements are indeed very basic, just like a house, if there is no house, the couple will feel like a floating Ping, even if they can work together, but after all, it is a big burden, which may seriously affect their most basic life, helpless! However, if a boy devotes himself to his own struggle, it is easy to miss the age at which he should fall in love, and directly reach the age when he should get married, because a certain economic foundation and career foundation are not so easy to obtain! Most men who are less than 30 cannot achieve it at all.

If you are lucky, the boy finally achieves his goal in his thirties, and suddenly looks back and finds that most of the girls he was familiar with are already married! And if many boys in their thirties struggle to achieve something, then of course they expect love more, and the more they give, the more they expect; if they achieve nothing, those girls will not look down on them, because the boy in his thirties may achieve nothing for life!

"If there is affection, nothing is a problem!"

This is the slogan shouted by many men and women who have passed their thirties, and it is also the voice of their hearts. Because they know what is the most difficult thing at this time! And they themselves are not so easily moved or attracted! But they may believe in love more and more! Especially after solving the basic life!

Looking at the activity plan proposed by the employee mutual aid organization department within the group company, Zhao Hong also felt good about their proposal. In the new century, as domestic housing prices began to rise, the house has become an obstacle for many people to get married. Although the salary level of Zhao Song Group in various regions is not low, there are still many people who are stopped from marriage by the "tiger" of the house. Therefore, the Mutual Aid Organization Department proposes to provide employees with help to buy a house and get married!

Because the benefits of Zhao Song Group have been very good in recent years, and there are more and more internal mutual aid funds for fixed withdrawals, how to improve the circulation efficiency of the community chest, they put forward their own opinions, that is, down payment loans, but only limited to small houses. The reason is that there are too many people who are worried about applying! Some people just have the habit of eating more and taking more money! They can also use the preferential investment in various localities to help employees strive to buy houses at preferential prices in various places! They can even negotiate with commercial banks for loans! Because in this era, people's ideological concepts are still relatively conservative, and they will never borrow money if they can buy by themselves, and they will never take out loans if they can borrow money, and they will try to avoid taking out more loans if they can borrow less. Although some people have doubts, the non-profit organization department still insists!

Looking at Guo Yi's signature and opinions above, he couldn't help but be amused.

"It's better to have a daughter, it's difficult to buy a house when you're happy to have a child, there are tens of millions of mansions, and crazy men and women get married early!"

I couldn't help but think about it on a whim, and then wrote below.

It is suggested that the department, in line with the principle of inviting in and going out, strengthen the liaison with brother units, keep pace with the times, creatively solve the personal problems of employees, live in peace and be happy, and have no worries to devote themselves to work!

Enforcement is hereby granted.

Summer 2001!

Zhao Hong"