ELSA is 1.7CM tall, looks very beautiful, and gives people a very capable OL image. At present, she has been engaged in financial work in the headquarters of a foreign company in Shanghai for many years, but because there are too many excellent people in the department, she is very average in the department.

"I've been in Shanghai for eight years, but my career hasn't improved at all. Although the salary has gradually exceeded 10,000 yuan every month, there is still a lot of pressure in Haishi, a city where money is needed everywhere, and I am getting older and older.

As a two-girl family, my parents also persuaded me to go back if I couldn't do it! I was struggling in my heart, but I was still a little hesitant about how to choose, but I also knew that time was really running out. ”

ELSA is honest, but Zhao Hong understands that a girl like her should be very demanding. But after all, Haishi is where excellent girls from all over the country are concentrated, and there are many excellent men, but there are so many excellent girls!

Especially if you don't have a high EQ to match, even girls with good conditions are not easy to marry!

"It's good to go back to T City, and you can reunite with your parents and relatives often, but it may be harder to find a partner! Because there are fewer boys with good conditions in T City! Although my parents don't ask for a good son-in-law. However, the ability conditions are so bad that even I can't explain it myself!"

Hu Ge complained a little sadly.

Yes, they are used to living and working in Haishi, and once they return to their hometown, they will find that everything there is inferior to Haishi.

The position should be high, but the company is too small, there is no opportunity to play their talents, and they are forced by their parents to go on a blind date, but they find that none of them are what they can see, and they are very depressed.

Maybe I'll always think about it when the time comes.

If you had stayed in Haishi at the beginning.

What does the future hold?

Will it be complaining and complaining again?

It can be seen that a metropolis like Haishi is actually not the only choice for college students to dream of starting after graduation, and second- and third-tier cities are not bad, but I have to admit that Haishi has become the dream of many people!

Haishi is not as bad as everyone says, but it may be thought of too well, and it is inevitable that there will be a certain sense of loss.

It is often said that making more money in Haishi is more than in their hometown, but many people deliberately do not say how much necessary expenses are required to work there, and rent, food, and transportation are expensive!

I just heard that it is a 9-to-5 working time in the morning in Haishi, but many people do not warn about how crowded the road to and from work is because the city is big, even if they go to work at 9 o'clock in the morning, many people need to go to work around 7 o'clock, just like going out to ride, squeeze the subway and then squeeze the bus. And surely no one will tell that leaving work at 5 p.m. is just a legendary myth, and how many companies can carry it out to the letter?

There is no need to emphasize the difference between the eating habits of the North and the South for the time being. Even the difference in many life concepts is also very huge!

Just like in Haishi, many northern women often see that many men in other people's families are "model husbands", while those in their own families are "masters". However, most of them did not notice that the women were more capable, and they did not look for men who were much better than themselves, and even many of them were married.

And the girls in the north, especially the girls in the northwest, no matter how capable they are, still habitually have to find a man who is stronger than themselves!

It's happy to find it, but if not?

There is a popular saying about women's marriage in the north, which is beautifully called: "Marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat!"

If they are powerful, how can those men be "particularly gentle"?

It's best to choose a place where you live and work.

In fact, although there are many people who have worked hard to become Xinhai people, many more people are just barely living here!

The group of people who are still sticking to the city are the solid force of urban development, and they are also the most active part of the city and the most dreamy people!

With a small income, he not only has to support his parents, but also raises children who represent the future.

"Rent money, transportation expenses, insurance premiums ......", more and more burdens, more and more needs, who doesn't know how many people can really stick to it all the time, busy in the city!

From youth and frivolity to the fact that they are too tired to walk, or have nowhere to go, nowhere to run!

The city thinks he is old and has no job income, and the countryside thinks that he is full of injuries and diseases, and he has no land to plant!

"Reality kisses me with pain, and I return with a song!"

Lao Tai of Ah Sanguo has indeed had a very classic summary of many experiences in life! In fact, this is just a reason to comfort himself when the pain is too hard to speak!

Some people eventually chose to flee from a metropolis like Haishi!

"If you are wrong, you will change it, and if you are beaten, you must stand upright!"

Face is earned by yourself, not given by others, and having a good life is what you need.

You are still holding on to your dreams and working hard for those you want to work for!

Just like Zhao Hong's former chess friend Lao Qin, a most ordinary Sichuan person, the first Chinese, general worker.

After playing chess with Lao Qin for the first time, he chatted with Zhao Hong and said a sentence, but it still impresses him today!

"I came out as a teenager to work, worked part-time, worked for more than ten years, but I was still empty-handed, full of pain and sadness!"

This sentence seems to be a joke, but it is the truest portrayal of his heart. "Before graduating from junior high school, I went out to work with my brothers and friends, and when I was not old enough, I went to work in some black factories, and was squeezed by the boss every day. Later, when I was old enough, I went to work wherever the salary was high! I have been to Shenzhen, Guancheng, Ningshi, and Haishi, Foxconn, Gree, BYD, all these big factories, but I have not found a place for myself. originally thought that he would come to the big city to earn money to go back to his hometown to build a house and marry a daughter-in-law, but now he is in his 30s, but he still hasn't found a girlfriend. Excellent girls have high eyes and don't look down on us. The girl forces in the factory, who just want to marry a rich man, look down on us, have been out for so many years, and they don't even have a close friend, and they still live in the dormitory in the factory. After thinking about it for a long time, I will go back to my hometown next month to develop, and at present, my hometown is also developing well, and the work is not much worse, and I can also accompany my relatives. ”

When he spent the best years of his life, he seemed to understand a little bit where he belonged!

Zhao Hong didn't take the initiative to help him, but just gave him a contact number for the cooperation project of Zhao Song Group Company near his hometown, and asked him to go back and contact again.

Back in his hometown, he called back shortly afterwards with a thank you call.

"I'm already working, although the income is not very high, but I can already play friends, a woman with a baby has taken a fancy to me, and she may get married soon!"

"Are you willing to help someone else raise a child?

Zhao Hong once asked with some concern, after all, this was his first marriage.

"Whoever raised the child and who kissed him! Besides, I can have another one in the future! If it weren't for this baby, why would people fancy me?"

"Hehe......"

It's hard to take it, but it's good to be able to see it and have a happy life!

Zhao Hong blessed him deeply!

Just like the classmates in front of you, no matter where you stay in Haishi or where you go, as long as you are happy!

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