Chapter 21: Domineering
Lin Rouer wanted to continue her relationship with Han Sen, but Aunt Niu strongly objected. However, at this time, Lin Rouer still listened to Aunt Niu very much, so they discussed a compromise solution.
Let Lin Rouer go to Wenfoshan to live for a while, and think carefully about how to go in the future.
There is a wing room for temporary accommodation for lay people on Wenfo Mountain, and Lin Rouer said to Han Sen after living in Wenfo Mountain for 2 days, I am afraid at night, take me down the mountain.
"Aren't you going to live for more than a month? My car happened to be rear-ended, and the car was repaired in the 4S shop, so I couldn't drive to pick you up. How good it was for you to go down the mountain with me two days ago, I have to do such a show. Han Sen said in a slightly mocking tone.
"If you don't want to pick me up, forget it. I went down the mountain myself. β
"I'll pick you up by bus, too. It's just not that convenient. β
Because Wenfoshan is located in Yichang Dianjun Mountain, the traffic is inconvenient, the off-season up and down the mountain are private cars, there are no buses, only in the peak season there are a few buses up the mountain.
Lin Rouer went down the mountain without a car to send her down, and finally found a motorcycle to reluctantly get down. After going down the mountain, Han Sen helped with his luggage and took the bus home together. Life is often like this, from time to time an unfortunate one comes and makes you rise namelessly.
Lin Rou'er has a very big temper, and her temperament is elusive, and she always magnifies some insignificant little things infinitely.
When the two first started dating, there were always some serious arguments that broke out.
It is precisely because of Lin Rouer's character that Han Sen has been directly trained into a little expert with explosive ability to resist pressure.
In the constant outbreak of conflict, you will find some gaps, emotional gaps, you just wait for the other party to get angry, and then calm down as if it didn't happen, a hug and a smile can be done, don't complicate the situation.
Explanations and quarrels are useless, when the emotional exchange reaches a state, it relies on trust, absolute trust, knowing that the other party will be waiting for me to love in the same place, and I will also wait for the other party to slowly explain in the same place.
After Lin Rouer stayed in Yichang for 20 days, the conflict with Han Sen gradually became apparent, and it was at this time that Aunt Niu called Lin Rouer and asked her to return to Songzi.
After Lin Rouer packed her luggage, she took the train back to Songzi. Originally, Han Sen thought it was a regular distraction, but he didn't expect the consequences to be extremely serious.
Once Lin Rouer left Han Sen's side, she seemed to be a different person after returning to Aunt Niu's house. actually broke up with Han Sen directly the day after returning to Songzi.
"Did your godmother tell you something?" Han Sen asked angrily.
"Yes, she's right, you don't have a regular job right now, and you spend all day in your own store, so I don't see hope. And I'm in a bad physical condition right now, I can't work, I can't do housework, and you'll still hate me after a long time. I don't want to wait until I have a deeper relationship and be sad, I'd rather separate now, maybe it's better for me. β
"It's not right to be good for you, it's all heresy. Obviously, you were fine before, but when you return to your godmother, you feel like you're obsessed. β
"She's also for my good, you don't understand, you've only known me for three months, my godmother has known me for many years, I used to be depressed when I didn't speak for a long time, alone there in a daze. When it's serious, I want to commit suicide, only my godmother knows. She has always taken care of me and has been very good to me. I trust her judgment, you can find another girl who is suitable for your family, I really can't adapt to the current life. I don't know when it's going to erupt. β
The next day, Han Sen appeared in front of Lin Rou'er, and he wanted to talk to Lin Rou'er alone.
Han Sen's appearance surprised Lin Rou'er, at this time Aunt Niu was smoking moxibustion, and Han Sen took advantage of this gap to take Lin Rou'er out.
Han Sen asked Lin Rou'er not to say anything about breaking up with an unquestionable attitude, the two of them are getting better, if there are any difficulties, I will bear them with you, and you don't have to struggle alone in the dark anymore.
Lin Rou'er's heart softened, Han Sen's words entered her heart, she didn't need professional life guidance, she just needed a warm embrace. And her godmother can't give this to her.
As long as you take one more step, the other party has shortened the distance with you, women sometimes really have no opinions, sometimes even blindly retreat or escape, at this time men need to keep getting closer to maintain the relationship.
Later, Han Sen recalled being broken up and then the strong forces turned the tide and summed up a sentence, only sincerity can defeat hypocrisy.
The bad debts on the decoration funds highlight the ugliness of human nature, and the love between the two has been maliciously hindered many times, which shows that it is difficult to really feel the temperature of love with an empty shell heart.
In November 2017, Aunt Niu proposed to rent Lin Rouer's house to live, and Lin Rouer agreed. When Han Sen learned about it, he stopped it with a tough attitude.
Han Sen's reason is very simple, he didn't mention it when the house was just installed in June, but now that he has bought a full set of furniture and household appliances, he can be punished.
After reading Lin Rou'er's WeChat, Han Sen was even more convinced of his judgment, where is this renting a house, it is simply to arrange your house, figure out who is the master, you Lin Rouer is the master, not her.
"She's only staying for a while, and she's going to sell her current house and want to buy a new one. Because she has eczema, the house she lives in now is on the first floor, the humidity is heavy, and she has been smoking moxibustion treatment. Wait until you buy a new house and move out. β
"Only you will believe such words, and it is easy to ask God to send God. Why do you choose yours for so many houses in Songzi? β
"Now that I'm with you, I haven't been back to Songzi much. Just take it as a good deed, help her, and repay her for taking care of me before. β
"Living expenses, accommodation expenses you did not give her less, when the house was renovated, the funds were even more watery, we were together she was also in every way to obstruct, did so many things, now she is like nothing has happened, generously proposed to live in your house. Is it appropriate?"
"After all, she is kind to me!"
"One yard is one yard, if you kidnap others with morality, I think it's also an ugly act. Let me ask you, she didn't mention it, did you voluntarily let her live in your new house from the bottom of your heart?"
Lin Rouer was silent.
"Originally, this kind of thing is about love and duty, it is your love to let her live, and it is also your duty not to let her live, which is understandable. β
"And what do you want me to tell her? β
"You just said that Han Sen wants to wait until we get married before picking you up. If she listens, we will have to fulfill our promise in the future, and if she is emotional and accuses you, it means that my analysis is right, and there is no need to rent it to her. β
Lin Rou'er sent it over as Han Sen said.
It was nothing at first, ten minutes later Lin Rouer received a call from her godmother, after answering the phone, Lin Rouer cried, Aunt Niu was furious, bluntly said that Lin Rouer was ungrateful, and the two would never contact each other again, and deleted Lin Rouer's WeChat.
That night, Lin Rouer told Han Sen that I would let them rent my house, which was my own house and I had the right to deal with it.
Han Sen was angry, and said directly and fiercely, if you really do this, I will send you back tomorrow and let you live with her.
Lin Rouer was angry and cried. Now both sides are pushing her, and her heart is very tired.
"You mean to break up with me?"
"Yes, if my girlfriend is really that stupid, I'd rather not. β
"I didn't expect you to be such a person, it's cruel, isn't it just a house? It's not a big deal to rent it to her, why are you so persistent? Is it because she prevented us from dating before?"
"It's not the same thing as that. This is not simply renting, this is a matter of exercising sovereignty, and your house is not your house when you say it yourself. β
"I'm exercising my sovereignty now, I'll let her live. β
"I am ashamed to say that in the name of your fiancΓ©, even if I offend you, I have to help you keep your sovereignty. Lin Rou'er made up her mind after crying for a while, she listened to Han Sen.
Eight months later, Lin Rouer's father came back from Indonesia, because the old house had been uninhabited for a long time and was covered with thick dust, so he lived in Lin Rouer's new house, and this time he came back from Indonesia and did not go abroad again.
Later, Han Sen joked about this incident and said to Lin Rouer, this house is mine, I decided to let her rent it, why do you stop me. At that time, I really relied on you to rent the house to your godmother, and now your father is back and it is difficult to settle down.
"I know you're good to me. β
"This is my boyfriend's max moment. β