On weekend nights, when the family gets together, Jack is busy using the computer to surf the Internet and watching his favorite websites, while Xiaoxi Dashan also uses a certain Teng's Internet to chat with his classmates, and the youngest child is lying in his parents' arms watching his cartoons.

"I'm waiting for you here, where are you?"

A beautiful actress is attracting everyone's attention with her charismatic signature moves, and then she speaks the real flicker in that gentle tone that can't be more gentle.

Zhao Hong looked at the advertisements for high-end houses on the TV station, and felt goosebumps all over his body, which was too exciting!

Guo Yi smiled and said to Zhao Hong, "My brother and sister-in-law want to buy another house, and hope I can borrow money to help!

"Why? Now they don't live well, why do they want to buy a house again? Besides, it's not a big deal for them to buy a house, you can help if you want!"

Zhao Hong replied a little disappreciatively, his eyes were still looking at the two children who were playing, for him, this was what he liked and cared about the most.

"After the results of the national college entrance examination were announced some time ago, the identities of the champions in various places were also reported by the media one after another. There is no surprise, the champion is still in a super middle school in a big city, and his family is well-off.

For example, the top students in arts and sciences in Guizhou Province are all students from the No. 1 High School in the provincial capital;

He loves basketball, and in his spare time, he serves as the host of the art festival and directs and acts in the stage play "The Orphan of Zhao".

This is very reminiscent of Xiong, the first place in liberal arts in the Beijing college entrance examination last year, and a passage that detonated the Internet:

Now many champions are powerful and capable people in the family. I am a child from a middle-class family, born in Beijing, and the educational resources that I can enjoy in a big city like Beijing determine that I can take many shortcuts when studying. ”

Zhao Hong nodded when he heard this, it is true that the differences between schools are really too great!

"The relationship between students' learning and family conditions is getting bigger and bigger, in fact, most of my high school classmates' family backgrounds are very affluent, why is this? One is that the unfair distribution of educational resources not only still exists, not to mention that urban students are more than rural students, but also the differences between various schools in the cities are also huge. It's like my first English teacher didn't learn English professionally. Tomatoes are heads, potatoes are splattering heads. ”

"There's no problem, isn't it just a little inaccurate? What school teacher in those days could have fluent English pronunciation?"

Guo Yi said a little disapprovingly.

"Where? She really used Chinese characters to mark the pronunciation of the words. Imagine how embarrassing and embarrassing it would be for a class of forty or fifty people to shout at each other, 'it, splash him on the head)!"

"Haha...... So your English isn't very good, that's where you come from? hehe...... So what did she do? How could she have such a teaching method? She was so talented!"

"She was a student who graduated from junior high school in that special period, and it is said that she was also a revolutionary teenager who loved propaganda activities very much!"

"That guy said his head, isn't it normal to splash his head at a professional level? hahaha......

"Jack, what the do you mean?"

"Mom, why do you swear?"

"Brook, what do you mean by splashing his head?"

"That's it, Mommy is back, let's go to her to complain!"

"What? That's how your dad used to speak, with tomatoes on his head and potatoes on his head!"

"What? haha......"

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In any case, everyone understands the truth of Meng's mother's three moves, of course, you must have a choice if you have conditions, and create conditions if you don't have conditions, if you can't choose at home, then go abroad!

Of course, the starting point of parents is also likely to determine the height of the child. The life circle of parents, the pattern and height of life and work also have a great impact on the future of children.

If parents don't work hard and are not motivated, it may bring about a lifetime of humility for their children.

How does the ability and pattern of parents affect the outcome of children?

A recent test at Jack's school.

A group of students stood on the playground with six lines drawn in front of them. The tester asked the child six questions in turn. If the answer is yes, take six steps forward. If not, stand still.

The six questions are:

Did both of your parents have a college education, and are your parents able to support you in learning your specialty and continuing to do so until now?

Did your parents hire a one-on-one tutor for you, and did you have any experience going abroad before the age of 18?

Have your parents promised you to go abroad, and have your parents always regarded you as proud and always boasted about you in front of relatives and friends?

However, in just a few minutes, the students who set off together began to stand in different positions, even far away.

Parents think that if they don't work hard, they just don't have a good life. But if you can't imagine that your own inadequacy, you will also lose your child at the starting line of life.

If parents do not work hard and make money, they will not be able to let their children receive a high-quality education; without a good academic qualification, they will not tell their children the importance of reading in advance; and if they do not understand that education is a process, they will never be able to cultivate children who adapt to society.

Parents who are motivated and those who are not motivated live really different lives.

The world is fighting for itself, but it is also fighting for the father, parents don't even have a good life, how can they expect their children to have the ability?

No matter how hard you try, for most people, you still have to do an ordinary job in an ordinary city. Or be a father, marry a wife, work hard, wash and cook.

So, what's the point of working hard?

The reason why most people have to live seriously and work hard is to become a person who is slightly different from others. I do my best to make my family live a better life, and to make myself a person who can make money, have vision, and think. More importantly, they can leave their literacy, knowledge and abilities to the next generation.

In this way, no matter how ordinary it is, there will be an accumulation of quantitative changes to qualitative changes after a few generations.

Those young people who can really outperform others have professionalism, determination and pattern. And these things are all from the words and deeds of parents.

Parents work harder, children will know the value of hard work, parents never stop learning, children will know that learning should be a kind of consciousness;

If the parents' three views are correct, the child will slowly become the same person as the parents and will shine in the crowd.

In this world, it will really punish parents who are not motivated, and the parents' lack of motivation is really likely to bring children a lifetime of humility.

If we say that this is an era of fighting for parents, the most important thing to do is to strive to be parents who stand out! The best school district room has become the study room of the family, and the best famous school has become the children's school.

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