Chapter 42 There is always so much helplessness in life
"That's Fang Min. The owner of the hotel pointed with his hand.
Zhao Hong looked at the past, it was a kind of spiritual shock. Zhao Hong thought of any way to meet his girlfriend's mother for the first time. But there is no such thing as this. Zhao Hong, a middle-aged uncle, instantly felt in his heart that the hardships he thought he had in the past were really nothing.
"Everything is just starting all over again" What a fluttering sentence, Zhao Hong really wanted to say, "Standing and talking doesn't hurt your back"
This is a college student in the early 80s, a real pride of the sky, but what is she doing in front of her? Is it really that easy to be laid off and re-employed?
What kind of hardships have those who have been laid off for the country experienced......
Zhao Hong hesitated whether to go now and whether his identity was suitable. Waving his hand gently, Zhao Hong needed to think.
However, the hawker car in front did not give Zhao Hong this opportunity to think, because the car was too heavy, and finally advanced more than 100 meters in his efforts, and was stuck by a small but deep wide gap when he was about to reach the reserved position. The owner of the hotel rushed out, and Zhao Hong couldn't help but rush out to help push the car, and soon a few more people came to smoothly push the car out of the deep seam.
"Sometimes if you don't understand it, don't think about it. Do things with your heart, even if you are wrong, you have no regrets," Zhao Hong told himself in his heart.
Zhao Hong looked at it for a while, Fang Min's stall began to open, at first they were all people from the surrounding area, and then more and more people came from afar, Fang Min and the girl became more and more busy, Zhao Hong also stepped forward to buy a five-yuan skewer, took it and left, eating while walking, and stayed in a private hotel across the road recommended by the hotel owner. chose the side of the road that was more chaotic, looked at Fang Min's mother and daughter who had been busy through the window glass, and just found that the girl looked very much like Li Xiaofang, although she was wearing a mask, she was still very beautiful.
The night market is gradually bustling, a lot of young people are shopping together, there are more and more vendors on the street, the whole nearby street is slowly crowded with people from all directions, snacks, gifts, trinkets, clothing, daily necessities, everything, each vendor has begun to light the lamps they brought, there are gas lights, emergency lights, external power lights, the street is crowded with people, shoulder to shoulder, the shouts of the hawker business come and go, the song of the Little Tigers, the song of the sailors "looking for and looking for can't be found." ......", the lively scene made Zhao Hong also feel the vitality of the times.
About 10 o'clock, Fang Min's stall came to two young people and sent a batch of skewers, by the way, they stayed together to help, a boy, a girl, like a butterfly wearing flowers, the boy cleaned up the used utensils, the girl neatly settled the accounts and collected money to find money, Fang Min and the girl with the mask immediately relaxed a lot, busy until more than 11 o'clock in the evening, the flow of people slowly began to decrease, the barbecue mask girl finally took off the mask, breathed a long sigh of relief, and gently rubbed the sweat on her forehead, from a distance it looks very similar to Li Xiaofang's temperament, but more gentle, it seems that there is more aura of a southern water townγ She is also a very beautiful girl. It's just not tall. It's not much different from Fang Min.
It wasn't until it was close to 1 o'clock in the middle of the night, when the snacks were completely sold out, they began to clean up, everyone sat on the stool tired to rest, Fang Min beat his sore waist by himself, and the boy who came later rubbed her shoulder, Fang Min looked happy. Bringing everything with them, the family staggered back to the neighborhood in the back. Zhao Hong glanced at the time, it was already 2:30, the wind in the night was already blowing a little cool, and it was time to rest.
Zhao Hong also returned to the bed in the hotel, enjoying his sleep in the quiet and cool, there is no bad situation, just an economic problem, and the family can work hard and work together, in fact, it is not only hard, but also a happy time for a family to unite and support each other. Especially when you're not old yet......
In my sleep, I went back to the days of doing hawker business with my brother and sister, shouting, blowing up balloons, collecting money, collecting money, and looking for money......
In the heat of the morning, Zhao Hong got up, it was almost 10 o'clock, sweaty, took a towel to take a shower, and came back a little better. Slowly regained my thinking, what should I do?
At present, Fang Min's problem is more complicated, she needs a certain income for her children to go to school, and she has time to take care of the elderly, at present, she is using the day to take care of the elderly, and the family will come out to earn money at night, in fact, there is no problem with what she is doing at present, it is quite profitable, but it is too hard, people who are already in their forties, can they always bear such hardship?
Thinking about it carefully, I don't have any ideas. Looking at yesterday's Hangzhou Evening News, Zhao Hong compared the current map and looked for opportunities. Thinking about the industry opportunities that will arise in my memory. It also compounds Fang Min's current life needs.
Zhao Hong had been in the hotel for a day, and he hardly went out except for eating. Giving money is the easiest, but it's the least realistic. Only by giving full play to her advantages and what she is good at can she make a lot of money and completely solve the current predicament, what should she do in 1993?
Due to her age, she has to eliminate a lot of manual labor, just like her current small business, there is no problem in earning money, and there is a lot of it, but she is too tired. If you continue to do it, after a long time, your body will not be able to bear it. Moreover, the elderly in the family still need to be taken care of, they cannot rest, they cannot get sick, and they cannot have any accidents? How can it be possible as a middle-aged woman? In a short period of time, it can be called perseverance, and after a long time, it is an overdraft of life. Even if there is no problem now, there will be endless problems in the future.
Zhao Hong analyzed Fang Min's advantages and strengths. Educated, literate and hyphenated, thoughtful, have certain experience and experience, have been to the mountains and to the countryside, have been admitted to universities, and have entered units.
Zhao Hong also analyzed the situation in 93 years now, at present, due to the lack of the Internet, the general information channels are television, radio, and newspapers, you can read the newspaper, but the magazine has innovation, that is a simple printing magazine, the promotion model based on free gifts is spreading in the north, it is "HC business". Under the guise of a magazine, he actually does the thing of advertising advertorials. Rely on hard and soft advertising to make a profit.
Soon, however, many newspapers began to do the same, and newspaper advertisements increased rapidly, and large-scale promotion activities began, and the thickness of newspapers also increased. But they didn't solve the problem of landing and mass use of information. And they are good at paying attention to production or enterprise needs, and basically do not pay attention to personal and family needs.
That's right. Including real estate agencies, marriage agencies, and wedding one-stop service companies, these are all blue oceans and have certain requirements, but the office and time requirements are not high. And from the perspective of future development, there is also a certain room for growth. There won't be a little problem for at least 20 years.
Zhao Hong thought of it and immediately wrote a market analysis and development plan overnight, didn't sleep all night, and drove out a plan of nearly 100,000 children, which was roughly no problem, and there were no words and statements that were too advanced. I went out for breakfast, and I went to the dormitory of the supply and marketing cooperatives opposite. Inquire about Fang Min's specific situation and address.
After the lunch break, Li Xiaofang's village department called again, and made an appointment to call again at 3 p.m. Then he called Haishi's home, asked his parents and sister-in-law about the game, when they would come to Hangzhou, and made an appointment, Zhao Hong went to the tourist attraction to find a suitable hotel for the family to stay.
It's really hard to find, it's the tourist season, and the better ones are full. In the end, I still found a corporate guest house, although it is a little far away from the scenic spot, but the transportation is convenient, the environment is good, and you can reach it by car. I asked for one first, and then booked two rooms.
According to the agreed time, in the hotel, Zhao Hong called Li Xiaofang's village again,
"Xiaofang?"
"Zhao Hong, my father and brother and I are here, what's the situation?"
"So far, so good, your mother is still single, and she is indeed still working in the supply and marketing cooperative. Your sister is also a college student, and she is a senior this year. It's a lot like you, but it's a little lower. β
"What else?" asked Li Xiaofang, who seemed a little unhappy.
"There is also a heavy burden on her at present, your grandfather is not in particularly good health, she takes care of them, and your brother-in-law's two children are also taken care of by her, and they have just gone to college. They all went to college in Hangzhou. β
"Then why didn't she contact us?" Li Xiaofang's tone of dissatisfaction was already very big.
"A few days ago, I actually found your mother, do you know what she is doing? She has been laid off and has not been paid for a long time, and when it is the hardest, I go with other colleagues to pick up vegetables and leaves to eat, and pick up rags to earn money!"
Zhao Hong heard the whimpering and crying sound from Li Xiaofang over there.
"At the beginning of this year, I started to set up my own stall to sell snacks and do things on my own, which is very hard. Every afternoon, a large number of skewers are prepared before the stall, all of which are hand-skewered and thousands of skewers, piled up on small shelves and four-wheeled vehicles like a hill. It is always very busy to come out at five o'clock and stay open until two o'clock at night, and it is always very busy, so it is a dime to earn money to support your sister and your uncle's two children to go to school, and at the same time take care of your grandparents, the old people who have been hit hard by the sudden and unexpected death of your uncle and aunt. She's really, really hard, it's not easy. β
Li Xiaofang had already begun to cry loudly, and the suppressed cries of Li's father and Li Xiaofang's younger brother came from the side.
Yes, the complaints that used to disappear completely, but at least I understand that although my mother lives in a big city, she lives very hard, she just tries to be a good daughter and takes care of her parents who have lost their son and daughter-in-law, is it wrong?
The two young nephews and nieces also need her to hold up the sky, shelter the two small seedlings from the wind and rain, let them grow up healthy and happy, and comfort their younger brothers and sisters-in-law, and comfort their elderly parents. Is it also wrong?
In order to take care of his parents, Li's father was reluctant to leave Qin Province, and it is understandable that he was afraid and ignorant of the outside world.
After all, two people are originally people from two worlds.
Everyone has their own things to undertake, and they always have to give up and persevere.
Therefore, there is always so much helplessness in life!