When Zhao Hong returned home, it was already eleven o'clock, thanks to the summer, the weather was very hot, there were still many people in the yard to enjoy the shade, and Zhao Hong's family had not rested.

When Zhao Hong entered the house, he heard a loud cry, Zhao Hong's nephew had been born for four months, and Zhao Hong was a little anxious to see the child. After a while, the sister-in-law came out with the little one who was well fed and drunk.

Zhao Hong breathed a sigh of relief, he was still the healthy nephew, but he didn't seem to have a big head, he was very cute, white and chubby, the family liked him very much, and his arrival also brought new hope and future to the family.

The child went to sleep again after a while, quietly put him back, and the family gathered in the living room to chat, a big cup of tea, some snacks, anyway, I can't sleep, tomorrow only my brother goes to work, and my sister-in-law's maternity leave is still not over, this is six months of late marriage and late childbirth leave!

Zhao Hong talked about the interesting things about the school, and picked out some good things. It makes my parents very happy. Parents also told Zhao Hong about the situation at home, his parents' small shop continued to open, the benefits were good, his brother had been promoted to the deputy department level, and so was his sister-in-law, but his brother was a production unit, and his sister-in-law was a scientific research unit.

My sister has been married for two months, is pregnant, and currently lives in the bungalow that Zhao Hong gave to her sister. The house is big enough and the decoration is good.

My sister-in-law was also very happy to talk about the help and busyness of her parents after the birth of her son.

Zhao Hong and his parents, brother and sister-in-law wanted to make some explanations, so they thought about it seriously and said, "I also want to talk about some things in advance when I come back this time, I have already had some of my own industries in Haishi in recent years, including two shareholding companies, and some real estate, which I have earned in the past few years, and there may be more in the future." The last time I came back on May Day, I brought Xiao Wanting back, she and you all saw her, I think it's very good, there will be no accidents in the future, we will live together, the affairs and industries of Haishi will let her participate, I won't want all the houses and others in T City, but you had better not interfere in my own property in Haishi, because Xiao Wanting already has my child to go to country M to give birth. Most of my earnings go there to support her and her children. I hope you understand. ”

The parents were a little dumbfounded and speechless. My brother and sister-in-law said together,

"No, your parents' things also have your share, we have developed well so far, let's talk about it later. As for your girlfriend having your child and being willing to give birth, it's not easy, if you have the ability, you should do more for her. After all, she's done a lot for you. ”

The parents only slowly recovered at this time, but they didn't know what to say, of course they hoped to have one more grandchild, but they hadn't married someone else's girl and got a certificate, this thing seemed to be something wrong, Zhao Hong should be criticized, but it was indeed a very good thing. I don't know if I should be happy or happy?

is already like this, so she doesn't want to blame Zhao Hong anymore, her mother can only say, "You owe Xiao Wanting a lot of that girl, and it's not easy for her." You must work hard to be good to others, even if you really give her all your own things, it is okay, anyway, you will not be a child in the future? As for the family, you don't have to worry, your father and I are in good health, and our family is very harmonious, especially with your nephew. The whole family revolves around him. Happy and busy. ”

My mother suddenly whispered, "Our family is not someone else's. It's quieter at home these days. There is a family war going on across the door downstairs! Two sons and three daughters are making trouble together. The two sons wanted to divide the money and the house left by the old man's death. The three daughters are also here to fight. Originally, the family was still okay, but in the past few years, they have been laid off one after another, and the eldest son is divorced, and life is not good. They all want the old lady to help them. …… In short, each has its own reason, the sons are silent, the concubines are quarrelling, and the daughters are threatening to sue for distribution, demanding equality between men and women. It's messy, it's messy!"

My sister-in-law also gossiped a little and said, "It's all too lazy, the old man can do it for a lifetime." It would be nice to be able to arrange one job for each of them. and they all got married and started a family. But the more they managed, the more ignorant and lazy the children in this family became, they didn't do anything after they were laid off, the men played mahjong, the women went to dance, and the family was unstable. I don't know how they were educated? The family is still competing with laziness. Very selfish. It's not like you can't be a family. ”

My father was also a little emotional, "Why don't you do something when you have so much time?" At the very least, I can earn money to support my family. ”

"Yes, there are also some workers in our factory, the men drink and play mahjong every day, and the women often go outside to play and dance, and there have been many divorces in recent years. I don't know who's going to take care of their children? What's going on?"

My brother also said with some emotion.

Zhao Hong remembers that there were several stories in an article.

Story 1: Communication

A fierce war broke out between the lion and the tiger, and in the end, both sides were defeated. When the lion was about to die, he said to the tiger, "If you hadn't had to rob my territory, we wouldn't have been where we are." The tiger was surprised and said, "I never thought of robbing your territory, I always thought that you were going to invade me!"

Opinion: Communication is a key element in maintaining family happiness. Don't hold back what you have to say, communicate more with your family, and let your family know more about yourself, so that you can avoid many unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions.

Story 2: Trust

The two birds live together, and the male collects a full nest of nuts for the female to keep, but due to the dry weather, the nuts become dehydrated and smaller, and the nest of nuts looks like only half of the original. The male thought that the female had eaten it and pecked it to death. After a few days, after a few rains, the air was moist and the kernels were full again. At this time, the male bird regretted it and said, "I am wrong to blame the female!"

Opinion: Family members need to trust each other, and many happy families are ruined by suspicion and suspicion. Therefore, maintain trust in your family and don't let suspicion ruin your family's happiness.

Story 3: Transposition

The lamb invited the puppy to eat, and he prepared a table of tender grass, but the puppy barely ate two bites and could no longer eat it. After a few days, the puppy invited the lamb to dinner, and the puppy thought: I can't be as stingy as the lamb, I must entertain him with the most sumptuous feast. So the puppy prepared a table of good ribs, but the lamb couldn't eat a bite.

Opinion: Sometimes, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Don't impose your ideas on your family members in any way. When you encounter a problem, put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about it, so that you can better understand your family.

Story 4: Happiness

Piggy begins to learn to make cakes, but the cakes he makes are always not tasty. It asks the rooster master, and the rooster thinks about it and asks what the ingredients are for making the cake. The little pig said that for fear of waste, he used some eggs that were about to spoil in the cake, and the rooster said to the little pig: "Remember, you can only make a good cake with good ingredients." ”

Opinion: Yes, only with good ingredients can we make a good cake, and similarly, only with a happy mood can we build a happy family. So, before you enter the house, please leave all the worries outside behind and go home with a smile. If all the family members can do this, then the family will surely become the happiest family.

Therefore, Zhao Hong has always felt that happy families are the same, communication, trust, empathy, and happiness. Unhappy families have their own causes.