These little girls are not so much here for dinner as for a party, sometimes whispering, sometimes smiling, and you know that they are living a relaxed life.

Compared with them, Xiao Wang and Xiao Li, who are also post-80s, are a little less lively, and the two of them are also students who have just graduated, and they are also post-80s, but the difference in family background makes them sensible early. They are already working, not only thinking about living independently, but also handing over the little surplus to their families.

It is said that parents are their children's first teachers, and they have a strong and far-reaching influence on their children's lives. The father is the sky, the mother is the earth, the sky is high and the earth is free, the father is dear, the mother is dear, the heavy years, the lingering no regrets.

Xiao Li once described her father like this.

"My father is a mountain in the family, majestic and steady, supporting the burden of the family. My mother is a river in the family, with clear water and gentle water, which regulates the atmosphere of the family and determines the atmosphere and temperature of the family. ”

But her father is too old to proudly say, "It's okay, everything has me!"

However, years of hard work have made them lose the best time of their lives, their waists are bent, their backs are stumbling, and even their most precious confidence is gone, the world has changed too much, and many times they have been at a loss.

She is eager to grow up quickly and become the new pillar and backbone of her small family, as long as she is there, the family will not fall apart or fall.

Xiao Wang answered the company's mandatory questions during the interview, but this question may have touched a soft place somewhere in her heart, and there was something shiny in her eyes, which was very beautiful!

"If the car wants to run fast, it all depends on the headband."

This is Xiao Li's description of his father's status in the family.

"My former father was the locomotive of our little family. For as long as I can remember, my father has been the center of the family. To this day, I still remember that my father was paying a lot of money for my high school tuition, and many of those money still had wet sweat stains on it, and how much and how long did it take to soak it with sweat of hard work?"

The traditional concept says that "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented", but only her father supported her idea of going to high school and college, although the family has become a family wall because of the two older brothers' studies, but he still smiled and said to his mother.

"We must have a long-term vision and a firmer will! Even if she doesn't study, isn't her family still poor? If she wants to study, let her read! Who said that her daughter is a member of another family, and she can't say that we will rely on her daughter in the future! I have to read even if I smash the pot and sell iron!"

No matter how difficult life is, as long as the father is there, the family can always calmly face the hardships and ups and downs of life.

In her eyes, her father is omnipotent, as if no matter how big the matter, she can survive with her father by her side.

To have a better future, as the father of the front of the car, he has a keen vision and direction, leads the family members to take the right path, and can plan the future and direction for the family.

"The virtue of the father, the inheritance of the son (daughter)", the virtue of the father is the best gift to the child.

During the interview, such questions are a bit strange and unusual for many people, and some people even ask them directly.

"I'm here to work, so why do I ask these questions about my family?

In fact, some people ask such questions, which has already illustrated one of the situations of these people, that is, there is indeed something wrong with their mentality.

Fathers represent discipline and restraint in family life, and the famous educator Amonashvili of the former Soviet Union once said that "a father should be an authoritative person at home, and the higher his authority, the stricter the child's requirements for himself."

Children can grow up better when they are accompanied by their fathers, and they can only grow up better under the influence of their fathers. Unlike the mother's protective education, the father will encourage and lead the child to take risks in educating the child, so that the child has a positive and enterprising spirit from an early age.

Only when the father plays a good role in the growth of the child can the child have a healthy psychology, the child can be more outstanding in the future, and the family can be happier.

Lin Zexu's father was a private school teacher, and someone asked him to teach in the library, but he refused. Lin Zexu's father hopes to personally teach his son the virtues and aspirations of the ancients. Someone once gave expensive gifts to Lin Zexu's father to help him fake, but Lin Zexu's father also verbally refused.

It is the character of the father that determines the future of the family. Fathers must not lose their fighting spirit at any time, they must keep the family in their hearts and set a good example for their children.

Because there will always be times of loss or frustration when fighting for yourself, only by fighting for your family can you get the greatest motivation, because the source of motivation is called **!

"Lao Zhao, why do you eat so much and don't come more?"

Don't look at Lao Tian who eats a lot, but he eats it quickly! I didn't pay much attention to it, he had already wiped out most of it, this really made Zhao Hong a little jealous, why didn't he have such a good appetite?

"Huh...... It's not that I don't want to eat more, I really can't digest and absorb it! People who don't want to be slim can't get fat. ”

Zhao Hong answered this question with a wry smile helplessly, he ate a little less during this time than he had some time ago, but there was no way! Becoming a "fat man" was not only his ideal, all the people in their family were so "capable", who had any way?

"Lao Zhao, there are too many people at today's job fair, and any one of them is a college student, how can this be?

Lao Tian asked a little curiously.

I don't know if so many college students will have so many jobs for them to settle in the future, and the fees of the university are getting more and more, but can the job after graduating from college really be solved? Anyway, I'm not optimistic! You see that the person who runs errands in the movies of country M is often a graduate of a famous school, I didn't understand it before, but now I know why!"

Zhao Hong continued to explain to his friend.

Years later, people will find that 04 was a turning point, not only that the wages of wage earners almost no longer rose relative to prices, but also that the wages of fixed jobs exceeded the income of wage earners.

Originally, before leaving the fixed job to work hard, it was considered to be a game for the brave, before this time the workers were all relatively well-paid, but since this year, many people sitting in the office have earned more than those who are working hard, and the talents in the society have begun to flow back to the non-productive field, and I don't know if this is good or bad for the society!

All regular jobs are starting to be very popular again, and the most typical is that the civil service examination has begun to enter the early stage of intense competition!

Zhao Hong finished eating early, so he sat here, drank water, leisurely admired the beauties in the restaurant, and scored them in obscurity.

"This should be able to score 80 points, the figure is okay, the skin will be good, and the height is a little low!"

"This looks good, but it's too tasteless to dress up!"

"This looks good from the back and smells!"

……

Suddenly, the lady in the distance turned her head to look at her, with a slightly disgusted expression on her face, but she looked at it for a while, and greeted her with some doubts.

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