Tian Tian's sudden cry immediately stunned everyone.

Just like the weather in June, one second the sun is shining, and the next second there is a sudden thunderstorm.

It's really cloudy, and I can't figure it out at all.

The elder brother was also frightened, and hurriedly put the marbles back in front of Tian Tian and comforted: "Don't cry, I'll give you back the marbles......"

However, Tian Tian didn't care about it at all, and cried sadly by himself.

The moment the woman heard her cry, she panicked and stood up from the booth.

She walked quickly to the fence to take a look, and found that Tian Tian was sitting on the mat crying very sadly, and she couldn't help but change her face and came to Tian Tian's side angrily.

"Baby, what's wrong? Did they bully you? Don't cry, tell Mommy, Mommy is in charge of you......"

The woman hugged Tian Tian into her arms with a distressed face, and then kept comforting softly.

Seeing this, the brother immediately pleaded: "We didn't bully her!"

The younger brother also echoed when he heard this: "We were playing a game of marbles just now, we didn't bully her, it was she who suddenly cried!"

Although the brothers usually bump into each other, when they need to be on the same page, it is not ambiguous at all.

Tian Tian cried very sadly, and when she saw the woman coming, she immediately threw herself into the woman's arms.

The woman comforted her for a while, and seeing that Tian Tian couldn't stop crying, she glared at the brothers fiercely.

At this time, the little guy couldn't look at it, and quickly explained: "Auntie, we didn't bully Tian Tian! We are playing a game! She cried when she lost......

The woman's attitude also made the brothers feel very aggrieved.

After hearing Nian Nian's words, his brother immediately pouted and muttered, "That's it, she can't afford to lose!"

The younger brother probably felt that this matter had nothing to do with him, so he immediately grimaced at Tian Tian and laughed: "That's it, Tian Tian can't afford to lose......!

The younger brother's move was not malicious, on the contrary, it was still his good intentions.

Because when they used to play games, if someone couldn't afford to lose and cry, everyone would use this way to stop crying and stimulate the other party's competitiveness in turn.

This is a common method of agitation among children.

But in the eyes of the woman, this was a malicious provocation, so she was immediately angry.

"Who are your children? Do you have a tutor? Didn't your parents teach you how to get along with other children?"

The woman pointed at the brothers and reprimanded them.

The elder brother was so frightened that he didn't even dare to raise his head when he sat on the mat.

But the younger brother was not happy.

So he immediately stiffened his neck and shouted at the woman, "We didn't bully her! She can't afford to lose!

The expression on his younger brother's face was also extremely aggrieved.

At this moment, he is like the unyielding little eight-way who would rather die than give in, vowing to fight the evil force to the end.

No is no, the upright brother will never carry this kind of black pot.

Now, the woman was really angry with him.

Because she was squatting in front of the brothers, after hearing her brother's words, she immediately raised her right hand and slapped her brother directly in the face.

The younger brother didn't expect this woman to hit him.

But fortunately, this slap was stopped by Qin Ruoying in time.

Qin Ruoying had already come over just now, but she stood next to her and didn't speak.

Seeing that the woman was about to beat her brother, she naturally couldn't sit idly by anymore.

"They are still children, and it is normal for a little friction between children to occur, and your direct intervention as a parent will only lead to greater conflicts......"

After stopping the woman's slap, Qin Ruoying frowned and added, "This is not good." ”

It is inevitable that there will be friction and contradictions between children, which child has not fought when he was a child?

Therefore, when parents face this problem, it is best to follow the 'three no's principle': do not get angry, do not intervene, and are not afraid of losses.

This seemingly negative attitude is the most basic, simplest, and most effective way to cultivate healthy interpersonal relationships in children.

Children will be angry, but they will never hold grudges.

When there is a little friction between children, parents immediately intervene, this behavior is itself a destructive behavior.

Seemingly meticulous care can actually deprive children of real life experience, resulting in a lack of frustration in children, making them extremely poor in their ability to cope with stress and weakening their psychological capacity.

Just because Tian Tian cried, the woman directly judged that the brothers had bullied Tian Tian.

This simple and crude way of thinking will not help the child's growth, but will harm her.

The name is love, but in fact it is harmful.

As soon as the brothers saw Qin Ruoying coming, they immediately felt like they had found a backer.

The elder brother immediately deflated his mouth and cried.

Tian Tian will cry, and he will cry too.

However, the younger brother still had a manly spirit, and stared back at the angry woman without fear.

"We didn't bully Tian Tian!"

The younger brother always muttered such a sentence in his mouth, and this was where his courage came from.

My grandfather used to say that people should walk right and stand straight.

They didn't bully Tian Tian, that is, no!

The little guy also stood up at this moment, she pulled the corner of Qin Ruoying's clothes across the fence, and then pouted and muttered: "Ma Ma, we really didn't bully Tian Tian......"

"Well, good. ”

Qin Ruoying rubbed the little guy's head, and then said to the brothers, "You apologize to Tian Tian." ”

She didn't know what was going on, but looking at Tian Tian's aggrieved appearance, she guessed that the child should not cry for no reason, so it was obvious that these three little guys didn't know why they made her cry.

In that case, an apology should also be given.

When the little guy heard his mother say this, he thought for a while, and then said directly: "Tian Tian, I'm sorry, don't cry." ”

Subsequently, my brother also stopped crying under Qin Ruoying's comfort, and then said with a little grievance: "I'm sorry ......"

It's my brother's turn.

When Qin Ruoying motioned to her younger brother to apologize to Tian Tian, her younger brother was silent.

He sat on the mat, his head bowed, not knowing what he was thinking.

Qin Ruoying gently touched his head and motioned for him to dissipate his anger.

But at this time, as if suddenly stimulated, the younger brother stood up and shouted: "We didn't bully her! Why should we apologize! I am not wrong! I do not apologize!"

"I don't apologize!"

After saying that, the younger brother suddenly stood up from the mat and rushed out of the children's paradise.

Qin Ruoying wanted to stop him, but she didn't dare to push too hard, so he broke free at once.

As he ran, his brother's tears suddenly flowed.

Because he really felt wronged......

Tears blurred his eyes, but his younger brother still found the right direction by feeling, and wanted to rush out of the teahouse directly with his bare feet.

And at this time.

A figure suddenly appeared at the door of the teahouse, blocking his brother's way.

Immediately after, the younger brother felt that his body suddenly lightened, as if he was flying.

The younger brother hurriedly wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes, only to find that it was Chen Xi who picked him up.

"Let go of me!"

The younger brother swayed vigorously from side to side, wanting Chen Xi to put him down.

Looking at this stubborn little thing in front of him, Chen Xi couldn't help laughing.

Reaching out and pinching his brother's little face full of anger and grievances, Chen Xi carried him back to the children's paradise.

"Go, uncle will administer justice to you. ”