For Ma Xiaoyun, 04 is indeed a year that keeps pace with the times, and it is also a year of great achievements in all aspects of work, career and life!

The most important thing is to solve a global problem in this year!

After entering the stage of "fighting to defeat the Buddha", she finally found a man who was more in line with her heart, and she was ready to get married!

Ma Xiaoyun likes to be called Xiaoyun the most, and occasionally when someone calls her Lao Ma very ignorantly, she will pretend not to hear.

Anyway, in the eyes of others, she is already a character who is a little confused in learning.

Some people even say that the whole society can be divided into three kinds of people, men, women and female doctors, so what should a female postdoc like her be? It can't be a creature from an alien planet, right?

"The appearance is not enough, the knowledge will make up for it!"

The favorite mantra of the brothers. Because in the era when senior brothers and sisters were studying for a Ph.D., it was not popular that they had to read so many books, after all, in that era, college students were all assigned by packages!

And there are a lot of good options!

Even if many college students have a good family background, if they can graduate as soon as possible to earn money and reduce the burden on their parents and families, why not?

It is said that the people who went to graduate school back then were all relatively alternative people!

The men are ugly and low, and most of them have no interest, they have been in college for a few years, and most of them have never been in love in the most beautiful youth!

Who believes that there is nothing wrong with it?

And women are actually not much better, and reading more will increase the difficulty coefficient of finding a partner in the future, not to mention the rest, that is, it is a big trouble when you are older!

And she was admitted to the postdoctoral fellowship all the way in a daze, and she really didn't think that she would become like this!

In fact, her biggest dream was to be able to be with books, to have a place similar to a school or library to work, and to have a cup of tea and a light meal every day, leisurely and happy.

Isn't it nice to be less rushed, not so complicated, and to live and work simply?

However, sometimes the world really doesn't give you a choice.

After graduating from the bachelor's degree, the distribution is very unsatisfactory!

In the end, I simply went on to graduate school, thinking that I could have a better option in the future, but it didn't work.

When I graduated from graduate school, I was fooled by my teacher, and as soon as my brain was hot, I followed my supervisor to study for a doctorate, and then followed the project for a few years.

When she was about to graduate, she actually fell in love with a doctor of the same grade, and the most hateful thing was that her boyfriend successfully found an ideal job in Haishi, and she was very tactfully rejected.

The reason turned out to be gender!

Is a female doctor in engineering a character whose grandmother doesn't hurt and her uncle doesn't love?

A ruthless stamping of feet and gritted teeth, test!

If you can't go to work, you can go to Haishi after studying for a doctorate!

This problem was solved very easily!

Sometimes, you have to say your life!

Originally, I couldn't find a job if I wanted to, but with the expansion of university enrollment and the expansion of university enrollment, there is a shortage of qualified university teachers!

She has not graduated from her postdoctoral fellowship, and she was actually kept in school to become a university teacher!

The happiest thing is that according to Haishi's strategy of attracting talents, their husband and wife were also allocated a low-cost house!

And Ma Xiaoyun had already obtained the certificate shortly after confirming the relationship with her boyfriend, and after having a house, she hurriedly seized the time to solve the problem about the next generation!

As for any career, ideals, and pursuits, they are all false, and the real happiness for her is to have a home of her own!

And how can a home without children be called a home?

Well, she's pregnant!

Isn't this ready to take advantage of the fact that it is not too obvious, and hurry up to carry out the wedding!

Happiness is sometimes as simple as that!

"I've had a few relationships ......"

Her boyfriend used to tell her about his past very frankly, both sentimental and lonely.

He hopes to be able to confess the past to the other half of the future, let go of the past, and meet the future life wholeheartedly, because the older man is becoming more and more rational, and what he needs is not just an impulsive choice, but a lifelong choice, not to love to die and live, at least to accompany him to old age for a lifetime!

She listened with a smile, a little confused, a little confused, a little confused why he had so many "puberty commotions", and wasn't so much school busy enough?

She has never been in a relationship, only occasionally with some heartbeats and it ends quickly.

All of her love experiences come from night talks in the girls' dormitories around her.

Well, in fact, the university is not only talking about girls every night in the men's dormitory, choosing which girl is their goddess, which is their good wife and mother, and which is the little sister next door, although not particularly beautiful, at least very cute......

The college women's dormitory is also lively, especially for those who are not in love, and they are very fond of commenting on some boys, especially other people's boyfriends!

Before she understood what he was saying, he seemed to have been touched by her consistent smile!

"Thank you for being so generous and forgiving of my past...... I will definitely ......"

Oh, that's all he said?

She didn't say much except smiling, it was just because she really didn't understand that much, why would he thank her?

My sister can't be her sister!

In fact, she has always been like this, she generally doesn't say much about things she doesn't understand, and as for what others think, it's their own business, and those who think too much are generally smart and clever people, and simple people like her generally don't care.

Just smile quietly and watch!

Later, he proposed that because he had been studying for many years, although the family's economic conditions were okay, but because there was an older brother in the family who was not in good condition, they would start a family in the future, and the family could not help too much!

Seeing his very embarrassed expression, she still looked at him quietly with a smile, listening to his uneasy recount.

It wasn't until he finished speaking, waiting for her to say something, that she realized as if she should say something.

"We started a family, and our parents were able to help, and the icing on the cake was of course very good, but why didn't we buy a house by ourselves when we got married?

Why bother?

Is it very difficult to buy a house?"

And she just asked him a little ignorantly.

He looked at her innocent expression, and seemed to understand that she really didn't know much about the world outside of school, and didn't care about anything other than academics.

He was a little helpless, but it didn't take long for them to get married, and they were assigned a house because they were high-tech talents, and it was a low-cost house!

He was very happy, and of course she was very happy, but she still felt that this was normal.

Aren't all their parents like that?

It doesn't seem like anything unexpected, huh?

In short, she felt very lucky!

Like the baby in her belly right now. Others say that she is an older mother, and it is very likely that she will have such and such difficulties, but why?

She goes to class when she should go to class, and she goes to work when she needs to go to work. There is no such thing as anyone else's worries!

Just like she notified Zhao Hong to come to her wedding, he was just his classmate!

Anything else you need to care about?