Chapter 11 The spring breeze is proud, and the young man is unsympathetic?
Unconsciously busy, Zhao Hong officially started school, and his brother went back to college to enjoy his last semester of college life, and was ready to go to the girl he had always admired to formally pursue. My sister also started the second semester of college, complaining that the quality of male students in the normal university is low, and there is no wisdom and strength of men, except for those simple-minded and well-developed guys in the physical education department, most of the boys from small places are short and dirty. Zhao Hong understood that his sister's spring was coming.
The age of love, the season of love, is full of the taste of affection.
Zhao Hong handed over most of his income again this time, his parents had significantly less pressure on the economy, and the washing machine was also bought, although he still complained about rising prices and expensive things, he still significantly improved the consumption level of diet, and Zhao Hong did not have the feeling of being often hungry, and he studied late at night and had a snack supplement, and the days were comfortable and warm.
In the affairs of the family, parents sometimes listen to Zhao Hong's thoughts, and then still have a contemptuous attitude towards Zhao Hong that "children don't understand anything".
Mom is still nagging, constantly complaining and admonishing, Dad's mahjong entertainment participates from time to time, and there is moderation, and there is no return all night.
Zhao Hong was once again intoxicated by the warmth of the family, and he forgot that he was already an experienced uncle, and he also had the spirit of a 16-year-old middle school boy, and he broke out from time to time.
Zhao Hong's pursuit of happiness is actually very simple, as long as he eats his mother's plate of fried cabbage, drinks a bowl of porridge, eats steamed buns, listens to his father's mahjong entertainment, and his mother buys a bargain surprise......
Zhao Hong has always believed that 89 years is the happiest time in his family. Poor, but full of hope, my brother is about to graduate from college, and my sister has also become a college student, so there is not much burden yet.
My parents are healthy and have low incomes, but wherever I go, I will proudly talk about the reasons for poverty.
"The children are all studying! If you don't let them study, you can't do it! The eldest and the second are all in college, and the expenses are huge!"
In the sigh and compliment of others, continue to brag;
"It's easy to get into college, as long as the education is good, normal people can be admitted. ”
In the high school entrance examination, there is only less than 10% of the admission rate, and the college entrance examination is only about 3% of the admission rate.
Time is like flowing water, and the middle and early summer of hurried study have arrived. Boys don't want temperature for style, girls for beauty, skirts fluttering, and begin to learn from sisters to start wearing leggings. Thoughtful male and female students start a pre-graduation love mode, especially students who have no hope of going on to higher education. There is also a tendency for the classroom to sit freely, and couples in love have begun to sit in the back. During class, he was silent and full of affection, and there was no teacher during self-study, whispering hand in hand. From time to time, there was a coquettish laugh, a pretended cough.
The teacher didn't care anymore, but just concentrated the students who were studying in the first few rows, and warned the students in the back to consciously not affect the learning of others. You can also see a pair of young men and women who have just grown up on the playground, young men and women who are about to leave school life, the carefree days are coming to an end, and the school is also a lot more tolerant, and the children who are about to step into the society let them enjoy it more!
After graduating from junior high school, Zhao Hong also has many classmates who have not seen each other for 30 years, and even goodbye has been separated forever. Although he was already an uncle, Zhao Hong felt the reluctance of his classmates to be separated.
Zhao Hong also actively participated in the trend of graduation messages. No matter whether you are male or female, no matter how you study, no matter how beautiful or ugly, the conflicts and quarrels of the past are already a thing of the past, leaving only the naïve and lovely memories of teenagers.
Zhao Hong also went to ask for a message from Zhang Ya, the girl who used to feel the most beautiful, and sent a portrait of herself to her, quietly doing it, not wanting others to see it.
A girl who never forgot in her previous life, she will always keep her beautiful 16-year-old figure. Complete your obsession. There is no pursuit, just an appreciation of the most beautiful she once was.
There is no confession, and there is no standard rejection mode for girls who have studied well
"We're all young, we all have to study hard, let's be ordinary friends!"
There are some missed emotions, Zhao Hong has no intention of getting it back, there must be an inevitable reason for the failure in the previous life, not just economic reasons, since there is a chance to do it again, they will be fine, and they will not bother.
Zhao Hong himself believes that he will never embark on the life path of some failures in his previous life again. In this case, I have changed, and the people and things around me will also change.
The thinking of carving a boat to seek a sword will not only be in career, but also in life.
Zhao Hong is ready to welcome his new life, instead of repeating the past without falling in love.
The lively movement of '89 will never be forgotten by all who experienced it.
Zhao Hong experienced it again, and he could hear people talking about it every day. resented those unscrupulous few officials, it seems that as long as they are defeated, all problems will be solved.
The biggest change in Zhao Hong's family is that the brother who came back from the internship enthusiastically participates in it, and he is full of mission. But Zhao Hong knows that in fact, the biggest impact on his brother is the distribution, due to the movement, the distribution of college graduation this year is not very good, most of them went to the factory, and many years later they have become laid-off workers, and they are full of loss when they reach middle age. It has become a commentary on the uselessness of many people's reading.
Zhao Hong communicated with his elder brother once and raised several questions: The fate of the country should naturally be cared for, but what about oneself? Now is not the time to talk leisurely, some of Zhao Hong's classmates have begun to take on the responsibility of earning money to support their families. What about my elder brother in the future? Even if he graduates from college, what kind of ability will he have to support his family? If he has no strength and no material foundation, what will he do if he starts a family in the future? Can he rely on his parents? If not, he will go back to study. Perhaps a better answer can be found.
My brother had the heart to refute it, but if I think about it carefully, there are indeed many questions that have not been thought through, and at the age of 21, he is still full of dreams and ideals. But the skinny sense of reality will soon be educated, and it will slowly grow in frustration.
Zhao Hong later discussed with his brother the situation when he had just graduated. To sum up, some people will be able to make achievements if they can react in three to five years; it will not be too late to react in ten or eight years; and some people will not be able to come to their senses all their lives, and they will be full of failures and complaints, and this is how tragedy arises.
The elder brother has a cheerful personality and is smart and motivated, but he has some shortcomings like his father.
I don't have the courage to get out of my regular job. This is also the reason why my brother was very disappointed after the policy closure of the company, thanks to the good accumulation before. Basic financial freedom has been reached.
In this life, Zhao Hong hopes that his brother can give full play to his strengths, have the opportunity to study more or even all the way up, and stay in the university to be a teacher, which is more suitable for him. (In fact, Zhao Hong also has these problems) life is calm and calm, simple and happy.
I talked to my brother about the girl who was going to pursue again, and more than a month has passed, and my brother has calmly faced failure.
It's no surprise that my brother prepared too little. He is still looking for love, and they are already thinking about a real marriage. Boys of the same age always mature one or two years later than girls.
When faced with the loss of love from others, we always like to be emotional experts. The head is Taoist, telling people about sunshine and optimism.
What is luck? Luck is that when you fall in love with someone, the person opposite you also happens to love you. Luck is that when you're thirsty, someone will pour you a cup of tea. Luck is to have a playmate when you want to travel, a partner when you want to work, and a companion when you want to shed tears. In fact, luck does not need luxury and luxury, sometimes the more you want, the harder it is to be lucky. But luck is inherently a luxury, and it is only felt that it is easy to be satisfied, and the greedy are always troubled.
Don't blame life for letting you down. I just blame myself for expecting too much. Love is inherently rare to highlight its preciousness. I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life. The beginning of that hard pursuit, which is already the result of predestined existence, is enough to affirm that love lies in its absence.
Love is one's right, and being loved is the other person's choice.
We only think about each other's good, and never think about each other's differences and unsuitable sides.
Every day the world is wrong to part, and every day the world is starting over. Never believe that you are the luckiest one. When you finally meet someone who suits you, all the stumbles along the way are for the last time to appreciate all the beauty of the world together.
It's enough to love when you're young, and it's enough to love. It's normal to lose, and only in the pursuit of time and again can you let yourself grow. This process may be painful, but it is a transformation of life.
Zhao Hong and his brother have a lot of communication, Zhao Hong got married very late in his last life, fell in love more often, and the reasons for failure are also varied. There are many lessons to be learned.
The elder brother looked at Zhao Hong with some surprise, and Zhao Hong thought that he was still a 16-year-old little boy who was studying, not a middle-aged uncle who had been tested for a long time.
Zhao Hong himself looks good, and he takes the advantages of his parents in appearance, with a height of 1.77 meters, a delicate face, and a cheerful and kind personality, which are very liked by girls. But there is no mature masculinity, and there has not been much self-motivation. It wasn't until after the age of 25 that he began to struggle. Although there are no major achievements, Xiaofu's life is quite easy.
A certain amount of love experience can make people better understand the opposite sex, take better care of each other, communicate with each other much better, and better understand each other's real needs.
In fact, girls like to have boyfriends who have been in love several times later, and that's why.