"Miss is right, for the real lady in charge, handling things is the most critical, a grandmother in charge must first be able to support the family, handle the affairs of the family, and usher in the send-off, the so-called talent in the eyes of everyone is the end. You must know that if you need to be in charge of the grandmother to sing and dance for the guests, it is not a proud thing, it is purely a big joke, you must know that these things are usually raised by the family singing and dancing, if you want to be the grandmother to do it, it is purely humiliating, it is a slap in the face. As for those Rausch needlework and embroidery, as long as you know how to do it, if you like it, you can learn it, but it's not essential, why don't you feed those people in the needlework room?"

"Now the slave family will give the young lady a good analysis of the questions asked by the slave family before. With a straightened waist and a pair of hands slightly around the waist, Lu Wang's whole person's momentum changed, which made Jian Er feel full of pressure.

"Generally, the marriage of daughters of big families, especially the daughters of concubines, is mainly for the sake of 'marrying two surnames', and most of them are married to be the wives of the family. In other words, the daughter who marries is responsible for maintaining the alliance between the two families, or for building bridges between the two sides. Therefore, when she was still a young lady at home, she had to learn some rules and etiquette and the means of being in charge of the house, so as not to make jokes at her in-law's house and be underestimated. Although the rules of each family may be different, after marrying into the mother-in-law's family, the mother-in-law will still make some adjustments according to the specific situation, but the big score will not change. ”

In addition to their own talents, they also have to learn to run the house, and even help the husband to get around in the future, listen to useful letters from the circle of noblewomen, and even say an unlucky word, once something happens at home, the grandmother has to afford to be alone, and even for her husband. All aspects, covering a myriad. But in the final analysis, it is for the same, in order to prepare for marrying her husband's family in the future, you have to be able to hold up the momentum. ”

Speaking of this, Lu Wangshi paused slightly, and then continued, "So, what this real lady requires is to stand up and sit, every move must be decent, receive people and things must be in accordance with the rules and etiquette, and the head of the house must be thorough in everything. Because what a woman learns is usually to prepare for marriage in the future, not to mention the rest now, but the most basic standing and sitting must be learned first. ”

"Because Miss is not from elementary school, many habits and actions have been formed, to correct it requires greater efforts, although the slave family and Miss are different from the master and servant, but if Miss follows the slave family to learn this etiquette rules, then during the teaching period, the slave also has the identity of 'teacher', and will also make stricter requirements for Miss to make up for the past, so Miss has to work harder. Lu Wang stood solemnly, demanding Jian'er's assurance.

The implication is very clear: I will not treat you as a master when teaching, but only as a student, and I must respect the teacher.

Jian Er straightened her chest and listened carefully. It seems that this time, Lu Wang's family is going to start teaching her. To be honest, Jian Er has always felt that this Lu Wang's posture is very beautiful, even if the rich yin qi when the ghost qi was heavier before, it can't stop her from the elegance that seems to be revealed from her bones, not to mention the state that the ghost qi is almost completely eliminated now, and the Lu Wang clan just goes to that station, and it looks so different. If you can do the same yourself...... , Thinking about it, Jian'er felt that her heart was so beautiful.

Nodding vigorously, Jian Er said that she understood the meaning of Lu Wang's words, in fact, according to Jian Er's temperament, either don't do it, or do it well, this is Jian Er's consistent practice. Since you have decided to learn, you will learn the best you can do: "Please also ask Aunt Lu for more advice, I will definitely do my best." ”

Nodding with satisfaction, Lu Wang's attitude towards Jian'er's learning was quite appreciative.

Lu Wangshi paused slightly, so that Jian Er could digest what he said before, and then continued: "This standing is the most basic manners, and whether a woman's standing posture is beautiful or not is directly related to a woman's own image and first impression. Therefore, the woman's standing posture must be beautiful, elegant, and slim. It's like this. After speaking, Lu Wangshi personally made a demonstration.

"The chin is slightly raised, the chest is straightened and the abdomen is closed, the shoulders are relaxed, the heels are together, the legs are close together into a small figure of eight or a small T, and the center of gravity of the body falls on the forefoot. You can fold your hands together and gently place them in front of your body against your abdomen," and after making sure Jian'er understood, she continued, "You can also put your arms down slowly like this, so that your arms will hang down naturally, and so on." After speaking, he motioned for Jian'er to follow suit.

Jian'er followed what Lu Wang's taught just now and stood up. Lu Wang stepped forward and made some minor adjustments to Jian'er's standing posture.

When helping Jian'er adjust her standing posture, she said, "When standing here, you should pay special attention not to do some small actions that damage your image, such as fiddling with the corners of your clothes, the tips of your hair, etc., this posture looks childish and restrained, giving people a feeling of timidity." And it is not advisable to put your hands on your chest, as it will give the impression of arrogance and unapproachability. Postures that are too casual are also not allowed: for example, leaning on other objects like this, stretching your neck, slumping over, tilting your body, or spreading your legs too far apart, crossing your arms or crossing your hands on your waist. ”

"There is a saying called 'stand like a pine,' and the Lord means that you must have your head straight, your eyes at eye level, your back straight, your chin slightly tucked in, and you have to feel as if there is a thread running from the top of your head to the soles of your feet, and you have to feel someone lifting up on the top of your head, so that you stand up straight. The movements must be peaceful and natural, and such a stance is a sign of full confidence and can give the impression of "being optimistic and happy". So, many times what kind of posture you make, what kind of mental state you will have, pay attention to your standing posture will not only leave an elegant impression on others, but also become radiant. A well-cultivated standing posture should not only be upright, but also graceful and elegant. ”

In other words, it is required to raise your head, raise your chest, and tuck your abdomen, right? Jian'er once again raised her chest higher, this is not simple? I just didn't expect to change the comment "No!"

Lu Wang's gentle tone sounded again: "Looking up means asking the young lady to stretch her head up, at this time, be careful not to lift your chin and raise your face, but to look straight ahead." After speaking, Jian'er's head was put in the right position.

"When you want to straighten your chest, you don't just stiffen it, but start at the waist, along with the backbone to the neck bone, and try to stretch it upwards. By doing so, you'll naturally get a flat belly and a relatively wide chest. Posture beauty is very important because posture beauty has a special charm. Even if it is a mediocre-looking woman, the quality of this whole body will add a few points to you.

Lu Wangshi corrected the shortcomings of Jian Er's standing posture while talking, and after a series of things were done, Jian Er felt that she was about to turn into a zombie, and finally heard Lu Wang's voice "Okay!". Jian Er was about to relax her stiff body, and her words almost made Jian Er burst into tears, "Okay, hold on until I say it's okay." "Can you stop gasping when you talk all the time, and finish talking all at once?

Time passed minute by minute, although it was just an ordinary action of standing, Jian Er only felt that beads of sweat began to fall down her forehead, her hands and feet began to become sore because she had maintained a fixed posture for a long time, and her movements began to slowly lose shape.

A thin whip gently struck Jian Er's shoulder: "Shoulder outstretched, straight!" Jian Er's body stiffened, and she immediately stood up straight,

Nodding with satisfaction, "Okay, hold on, let's move on." Then he easily put a small bowl on the side and put half of the bowl on top of Jian'er's head. stopped looking at Jian Er's expression and continued.

"This station is the most basic, you must learn it well, let alone the others if you don't have a solid foundation for this station. Let's talk about ...... let's go," the small whip in his hand tapped lightly again, and slapped his slightly bent foot straight, "Miss just needs to listen now, because our practice these days is just standing and walking." ”

Jane wanted to cry, for the first time she realized that just standing was such a difficult thing, and she could even feel that her kneecaps were about to flutter. But the bright little whip made her dare not move even a single move.

Lu continued: "Speaking of walking, it can be said that it is the continuation of the station, the dynamic beauty displayed on the basis of the station, and this walking is often the most eye-catching body language, and it can also best express a person's demeanor and vitality. This walk is to achieve three words 'walking like the wind', which means that when people walk, they should be like the wind on the water, light and natural. Especially for women, they must show their demeanor and demeanor when walking, and they should be like weak willows supporting the wind. ”

Jian'er only felt like she was convulsing now. She already felt that she was about to lose her support, and for the first time, Jian'er realized how easy and comfortable the difficult posture of standing in the military during military training was. This lady standing method is really unbearable! It is enough to make it one of the top ten tortures of the Manchu Qing Dynasty. But if Jian Er moves a little, a few small bamboo strips will follow. Now I listen to what hell to go, like a weak willow supporting the wind, this ancient lady is really not a human life.

"Alright, just hold on a little longer, Miss. "Do you want to hold on a little longer?" said Jane, "and we continued. If you want to say that this walk can be divided into many kinds, a discerning person can guess his identity when he sees someone walking. ”

Look at people walking to guess their identity? I've never heard of it, Jane is interested. RS