Chapter 479: Embarrassing Others to Fulfill Themselves
In a trance, Liang Baoshun agreed to all her conditions, and to be honest, he was really shocked! There are even more difficult college students in this world than him! Born in a rural family where his father is frail and sick, and his mother has a sad face all day long, he already feels that he is very unlucky, but compared to her, he seems to be living in a honey pot!
When he was in school, he often worried about money, and he had passed several years of pickled cabbage and steamed buns! Especially before graduating from high school, when he didn't go out of the mountains! At that time, his greatest wish was to be able to eat a delicious meal with meat! Although some of his classmates invited him to eat some good dishes, he still refused, and the problem was easy to solve, but what could he do about long-term problems? Later, when I thought back, in fact, he was both inferior and proud at that time, inferior was in the present, and proud of the future!
His mother was always optimistic when she was with him, and although his father was often sick, at least his father could encourage and support him spiritually! Moreover, because of his father's illness, his children were among the few families in the countryside, only him and his sister! There was no big problem with eating at home, and if it weren't for the fact that he had sold part of his rations while studying, their family would have at least been able to live like most people's families. A capable mother, a hard-working mother, seems to always have inexhaustible strength, and there are countless joys at all times.
Occasionally, he heard his father and mother apologize, but his mother always smiled and said.
"Don't think about it too much, you stayed here for me, and I just like you who are educated! In my eyes, you are a good man! There are a few men in the village who don't beat and scold their wives, and you are the only one; how many educated men are there in the village? You are the only one; which of the children in the village can have my baby and cherry sensible? Who sees my baby is not praised, and who sees cherry is not said to be water spirit?"
"But I haven't done much farm work for many years, and the subsidy for private teachers is not enough, not to mention that I haven't even had this in the past few years!"
"Hehe, don't care! Am I just tall and strong? Those jobs are not a problem......! Tap, is the child asleep?"
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Many years ago, because he insisted on going all out to help his father's deteriorating condition, he did not hesitate to borrow tens of thousands of yuan for this. His wife separated from him because she complained that he didn't take his little home to heart, and she felt that she was tired!
He didn't complain, and he didn't ask his ex-wife to stay and bear this extra huge burden with himself! Today he actually met her who was even heavier than his own burden, and he not only did not be afraid, but had a feeling of finding a soulmate.
Geng Yanqiu finally chose to marry Lao Liang, not only because Lao Liang finally accepted the precondition of marrying him, but also accepted it very understandingly, which shows that he married himself not because of conditions, but just because he fell in love with someone! She has reached her thirties, and she is no longer the age when she is desperate for the so-called love! How many joys and sorrows have been staged in front of her, what is love, and what is marriage, of course, she has clearly distinguished. She is no longer young, and she knows very well what men value.
There are few men left in the big cities, because they can look down and outward, and the girls in the cities can find those in the countryside if they don't marry, and those in the countryside who don't marry can find those in Vietnam and Laos.
There are many leftover women in big cities, and no woman is willing to marry someone who is not as good as herself, and at the same time, few women are willing to marry a younger than their own age, which leads to less and less selective range, and boys with higher income, higher status than themselves, and a few years older than themselves, as women grow older, they are occupied by other girls, so there are more and more leftover women.
It just so happens that there are a few examples around her that meet the needs of older leftover men, and they use their personal demonstrations to profoundly show her the ups and downs of contemporary older single men.
Male A is her neighbor across the door, he is a Chinese teacher in a junior high school, he is Chinese New Year's Eve three years old today, and he has not found a partner.
In fact, just looking at his external conditions, it seems that he does not meet the mate selection standards of the majority of women, his height is close to 170, his appearance is at most 5 points, his undergraduate is an ordinary 985, and he is still squeezed into a 90-square-meter old-fashioned apartment building with his old mother.
He may have a bit of an inferiority complex himself, because he had a girlfriend before, and finally fell out because of his family background.
So he kept teasing himself that he didn't dare to talk to the object, for fear that the other party would not look down on him, and his own conditions were indeed not good.
His old mother has also asked her to help him introduce him many times, and he can feel that not only his mother, but even he himself is very eager to fall in love and get married, and end his singleness as soon as possible to find a home.
But the cruel reality is always merciless, although he runs between the school and various private tutoring institutions all day long, and sometimes he is so busy that he doesn't even eat breakfast and lunch, but he is still alone in the stars and moon.
Male B is a friend of her boss (principal), and because of business dealings, she occasionally intersects, and in the process of dealing with him, she finds that he is in a completely different situation from Male A.
Compared with the former, who is eager to get married and start a family, man B is obviously willing to be single, even if he has passed the age of establishment, he is still happy to enjoy a person's free time.
He can be called a rare young talent of our time, he studied for MBA in the United States, his appearance is at least 7 points and he has abdominal muscles, and he is burly and indifferent.
I heard that he had a fiancée during his time in the United States, but later broke up because of career differences, and after returning to China, he devoted himself to his career and seemed to be no longer interested in his feelings.
However, although he does not seem to want to get married, his fanatical pursuit of sex has not diminished, and perhaps because of the constraints of family and partner, he will meet up in times of need.
In his spare time, he learned that he would meet girls of various temperaments and types from time to time, including immature schoolgirls and mature young women, and he clearly expressed his appreciation for those women who "live beautifully and do not entangle", and felt that they met their needs well without affecting their private life.
The remaining older leftover men, no matter how subdivided, can only be divided into the above two types: those who want to get married but have no power, and those who don't want to get married and enjoy it.
Therefore, every so-called older leftover man, they are always single for a reason, and different reasons just create their ending at this time.
Some people say that a 30-year-old single man only deserves to have the most mediocre love, or even to have love, and only deserves to make do with his wife.
After all, the words "older" and "single" are too ridiculous and harsh for both men and women, and their lives are too bizarre and even weird.
If you want to get married but can't find a suitable partner, this kind of man is generally not outstanding enough in his own hardware, financial ability and personality and temper are not good enough, or even if he misses the best time to get married, he still sticks to his bottom line and waits for unknown fate.
And the men who could have gotten married but always played with life, they have enough strength to crush a lot of opponents, but they have not really established the consciousness of getting married and starting a family from the bottom of their hearts. So instead of calling such men "older leftover men", it is better to call them "celibates" with dashing personalities.
This is what most of the remaining men here in Haishi look like, not that she can find a better man by working hard, love and marriage sometimes not only depend on the conditions, but also on age and time, and what she lacks the most is time!
Geng Yanqiu chose Lao Liang actually feels good, Lao Liang graduated from regular university, dignified and upright, tall, 1.8 meters, which is rare in the sea market, and there is even a house, although it is in the suburbs; as for the divorced, there is also a daughter, but in terms of age, he is still his own age, and it is precisely because he has been divorced that he is more tolerant of his attitude, tolerant of his own unreasonable requirements, as for his daughter, there is no problem! Children are very eager for maternal love, and smart and sensible, in fact, it is not bad to have one more such daughter! In the future, there can be two children in the family, and the life of a family of four, I feel happy when I think about it! 2k reading web