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Being provoked many times by a colleague pushed my patience and endurance to the limit. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

At the beginning, when my unit participated in a sports competition in the city that year, she and I were in charge of the Tai Chi project, because I was also doing Tai Chi, and she and I were responsible for the specific work. The leader is the deputy secretary-general of the unit.

Not long after the death of my lover, I was working hard to buy a house, renovate and move while I was in pain, and I was moving for a few days during the training. I was so busy that I had to ask her to worry more and work harder. Because the relationship is usually not bad, my heart was also a mess at the time, so I didn't remember to ask too solemnly, and when I moved, many colleagues and friends came to help.

I didn't want her to sue me for this matter from the leader who just came, so that the leader thought that I was irresponsible and disrespectful, and when he saw me, he had a cold face. I can't explain it, so I have to believe that "I will see people's hearts over time", and I don't care too much.

After a while, the new leaders may have understood my personality, so they no longer looked at me coldly, and then they were very polite and respectful when they met each other.

Later, a colleague's wife was sick and hospitalized, and she asked me to visit with her, and I thought it would be good to buy a fruit basket to visit, and the unit has no precedent for visiting family members in hospital, so it doesn't matter if I buy a fruit basket for one or two hundred yuan. It was when I got home from work that day, and she called me, and I didn't think much about it, and I thought she was quite human, so I agreed to her. The next day, she said that she wanted to wrap a 1,000 yuan red envelope to visit, because I was a colleague I didn't know very well, and I couldn't afford to take out 1,000 yuan to visit, so I said that I wouldn't be able to accompany her in this case. She was very angry and unhappy, and in the blink of an eye, she went around saying that I lacked empathy, had no compassion, and that people were more ruthless.

I didn't care too much, let her say go, I believe that the clear is self-pure, and the turbidity is self-turbid. My personality and character are not what she says.

Once again, the child came to the unit to play during the summer vacation, and the little pot friend played with a colleague, and when she saw it, she asked the child to go to her office to get the "delicious", and the child went with her and took back a few glutinous rice candy sent by the unit during the New Year. When I came back, I asked where the candy came from? The child said that it was given by an aunt, and I also asked the child, "Did you say thank you?"

It's also a habit that every time someone helps or is kind to the child, I want the child to say thank you. The eldest brother and sister-in-law often bring delicious food to the children, and I always ask the children to go downstairs and bring them up by themselves, and every time I will ask the children thank their uncles and aunts.

However, the next day, I heard that she actually talked about my child in her QQ space: So old, I won't even say thank you for taking other people's things!

It makes me laugh and cry!

Whether a child says thank you or not, it's not a big thing for you to solemnly render behind your back.

First: You took the initiative to ask her to get it. It's not that she's looking for you.

Second, it's an old snack that you put on the summer vacation during the New Year, which is not a good thing. I took it back and threw it there, and I threw it in the trash later.

Third, if you really think that your child is not polite, you can tell me privately to strengthen education. Instead, you first induce your child to go to your place to get some garbage that you want to discard, and then you can't wait for the next day to make a big deal about the child's impoliteness, saying that the child is not sensible, saying that my tutoring is not good. Do I want to think: You are purely deliberately framing, and there is no excuse for the crime you want to add?

First of all, I'm not so poor that I can't get your ill-intentioned snacks, and my kid won't get carried away at the sight of a few pieces of candy and can't even remember "thank you".

I have every reason to doubt your intentions, your heart, and your character.

Yesterday's evaluation of "advanced individual", she actually openly embarrassed me on the premise that the leadership had made it clear, which made me very uncomfortable.

One: I didn't understand that this advanced was going to be selected for me.

I really didn't do anything about the prevention and treatment of dengue fever, I didn't care about it, I just would be grateful to the leaders for taking care of me.

Third, no matter how good I am, I won't let you be put in the position of cleaner to be judged, right? I did go to college, and I did work in the clinic for several years, and now I am doing my best for everyone's health in the unit, right? My work attitude and character style are also obvious to everyone, and I am not so slanderous by you, right?

You have repeatedly provoked and slandered, do you think that I am easy to bully when I am alone? I just think that it is a great fate for everyone to be destined to be colleagues in this life, and it is better to be able to make friends, and if you can't make friends, you will be in peace. I've never had the heart to hurt others, but I'm not so bad that I'm being bullied.

When the child was young, you gave me your child's old clothes, and I accepted your kindness. Later, because the child grew up, she couldn't wear the clothes you gave, so she was embarrassed to say it directly, so she politely declined, but I understand your kindness.

When my lover passed away and I returned to my hometown, you brought a 300 yuan laisee and a note of encouragement and comfort, I remember. I still have the note, I am very grateful, and I have sent you a text message to express my gratitude. I've been thanking Dade for your kindness in the days that followed, but after that, these things happened to hurt my heart every time. People's hearts are not warmed by money, if your 300 yuan can give you the right to wantonly hurt others, I am willing to pay back double! I just ask you to stop using me as the object of bullying and venting personal anger. There is no conflict of interest between you and me, whether you live well or not is your own business, and it has nothing to do with me.

I don't want to have festivals and have anything to do with anyone, everyone eats and washes the pot, no one owes anyone, and whoever leaves can live, so why do you deliberately hurt like this?

I don't want to have any conflict with you, please allow me to stop having any intersection with you, I can't afford to provoke it, so I have to hide. You no longer exist in my world, like air turning a blind eye.