In the 21st century, the information society has higher and higher requirements for the quality of people, and the speed of updating knowledge is also getting faster and faster, not only the knowledge learned by students may soon become obsolete, but also the skills of the personnel at work also need to be constantly updated, and any position requires training and assessment.

"It seems that in addition to giving birth to children and educating children, you don't need training, everything else needs training!"

"It's not that we don't work hard, it's just that the world is changing too fast!"

"Yesterday we were together and kissed me, and the next day we went our separate ways!"

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Marriage is even more so, no matter who it is, who doesn't know whether their marriage is right or wrong, good or bad! Although Zhao Hong has always been very confident in many aspects, but in the matter of marriage, he, like many people, can even be said to be more cautious after experiencing more than one life!

Love is a momentary passion that can not be found, and the love that stays together for a lifetime is just a dream for many people! Most ordinary people in their lives are just in the company of each other, no wind and no waves, that is the best, if there is any sad hurdle, how many people can persevere? And it is more and more difficult to get married in society, but there are more and more divorces and cheating, what will he encounter in his destined ups and downs in life? He himself does not know very well, because he is no longer the original self!

The day after returning from his parents, Zhao Hong and Lao Tian brought some gifts to see their relatives in the hospital. Although Lao Tian has already arranged the cost of the hospital, his cousin doesn't know him after all, and it is estimated that some things may be embarrassed to say. Of course, my brothers and sisters are not with my parents, and going to the hospital by myself actually represents them. If they really have any other needs, it may be better to solve them by themselves.

"I felt sorry for the girls who were lying on the hospital bed with sallow faces and enduring the pain of chemotherapy, and the father in his forties crying silently outside the hospital room. For the first time, I felt that I had been too indulgent before, was it enough to have a house and a little savings, what if I had such a situation in my own family, how much could I bear for my family, and how much pain would my family have if I couldn't hold up a piece of the sky......

This is a passage from Lao Tian's private chat with Zhao Hong ten years later. At that time, he had quit smoking and drinking, and rarely went out for entertainment except for work, and his income had become a thick accumulation, two houses in the sea market, a shop, and three million family financial assets.

When Zhao Hong and Lao Tian first arrived at the hospital, this was such a situation, which made him feel very uncomfortable.

After graduating from high school, my cousin Wang Hongbing became a private substitute teacher in the village, and his monthly salary also increased from a few yuan to more than 300 yuan the year before last, and after more than 20 years of private teachers, he did not become a regular teacher until last year, and his salary reached more than 700 yuan.

And his father Wang Laosan is a strong farmer, not afraid of hardship or tiredness, and his mother Li Junying (Zhao Hong's third aunt) brought up the four brothers and sisters in the family.

The brothers and sisters of the family used to study very hard, and they all hoped that they would be admitted to university in the future, go out of the village, and see the outside world. As the eldest looking at the difficulties and powerlessness of his parents, he took the initiative to give up, and his younger brother also took the initiative to give up, and finally sent his two younger sisters to college. He worked as a teacher in the village and cultivated the family's responsible fields by the way, and then took care of his parents, and his younger brother went out to work 20 years ago to earn money and stayed in other places to start a family. This is an ordinary family in the countryside of China, living a hard but still warm and hopeful life. But that all changed on February 3rd.

Daughter Wang Zhijun suddenly fainted, and after being transferred to the hospital for treatment, she was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia M4.

Wang Hongbing doesn't understand professional medical terms, but the three words "leukemia" are like a bolt from the blue to him. Everyone knows that suffering from this disease is not only life-threatening, but also cost-prohibitive.

On the day he learned of his daughter's condition, he immediately went home, took out all the savings in his passbook, and borrowed a lot from relatives and friends, but he only scraped together less than 100,000 yuan. However, the cost of leukemia treatment is too high, and the deposit is spent in less than half a month. The treatment plan came out, and the cost of a bone marrow transplant was 500,000. Since his daughter's illness, he has no heart to work anymore and is raising money everywhere.

Wang Hongbing didn't know how he got through that time, and there was only one word in his mind, that is, "money, more money!" If it weren't for his mother's sudden appearance of relatives, he honestly didn't know if he would be able to survive for a long time, and he felt that his psychology had collapsed in less than 20 days.

A good family of six, grandparents, parents, sons, and daughters, was completely torn apart just because of a serious illness! For a family with an ordinary income, a serious illness may exhaust all the family property. It means endless treatment and care, huge medical expenses, all the time invested and lost income, and it means huge mental stress.

An illness sometimes makes life as light as a feather, but it leaves the weight of Mount Tai in life!

On the morning of February 27, Wang Hongbing met his third uncle and third aunt who came to visit his house at home, and the third uncle saw that he looked lonely, so he was relieved: "Big dog, just rest for a while when you come back, go to work in the afternoon, don't think about it, you are not alone." How many uncles do you have?"

He really didn't expect that it was just his mother who recognized his own mother on a whim a year ago, which turned out to be his last straw!

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"What's wrong with my cousin?

Looking at his cousin squatting at the door of the ward, Zhao Hong took the initiative to say hello.

"Second son, you're here! It's okay, it's just that my chest is a little stuffy, and I'm here to catch my breath. ”

My cousin touched his face, although the corners of his eyes were still a little red, but there was already a smile on his face, but his smile was more ugly than crying!

Zhao Hong could only pat him on the shoulder and express his comfort, but he didn't know what to say to better comfort his cousin.

When I entered the ward, I saw Zhijun at a glance, because this is a double room, two patients and two attendants!

"Zhijun is good!"

"Hello cousin!"

Wang Zhijun carefully looked at her cousin, who was not much older than herself, she was quite tall, but she was more beautiful than herself, which made her a little psychologically unbalanced.

And Zhao Hong also looked at his cousin and niece, the age of twenty should have been the best time in her life, but now she is here, her face is very bad, but there is already some color in her eyes, it seems that she has regained her confidence a little, a good sign!

"Little girl, that's all there is to it. What do you want to eat, do it yourself!"

Lao Tian said a little jokingly.

"Don't worry, Uncle Tian! I know. ”

"Hmm, yesterday was Brother Tian, and today is Uncle Tian? This generation is growing up a little too fast!"

"I don't know? Uncle has been popular recently, and uncle has three good, rich and affectionate, and it's easy to coax! Big brother has fallen behind!"

"Hehe......"