"Listen, it's just not bad! It seems that you are quite feudal too. It's such an old-fashioned feudal idea at a young age, alas, where is my bosom friend?"

Xie Ruizhen said a little depressed.

Everyone is happy to listen to it, in fact, there are many girls in China who think like her, after all, this is a generation that has gone through many years of equal education between men and women, but most men still hope to have a son of their own. Although the daughter is caring, the boy is still relatively capable. Moreover, it is easier for you to rely on him in life. And girls generally need to be attached to others. This is the social reality, and no one can change it. In fact, it is not only at home, but also abroad.

"Hurry up and find one! Actually, there are a lot of good boys. Even if you only have one child and you are a girl, you are actually living a good life. A friend once noticed that all families with girls seemed to be doing well, while families with boys generally seemed to be having a better time. ”

Zhao Hong then persuaded.

"It's hard to find! Almost all the boys have already had a partner, and they are all chased by the girls. Tell me, it's too early for little girls to be sensible! When we were their age, we were all serious about reading. How did they know so early?"

Next to her, Wang Ling said with some disapproval, "Sister! We also found that if we can't find a suitable object when we are studying, and we want to find a more suitable person in the future, the chances are really very small. So when I was studying, I really picked up, especially some good ones! If you don't look for them today, someone will chase you tomorrow. That's a hot item!"

Lao Li also said next to him, "In fact, it's the same everywhere, and boys with good conditions in Hong Kong City are also very sought-after." Whether it is a good family condition or a strong personal ability. Actually, it's all good. If you have both, there are a lot of girls to rob. After all, what girl doesn't want to have a better life in the future?"

Xie Ruizhen said a little depressed, "It's late! All the years of my youth are spent studying! It's so easy to graduate from graduate school." Only to find out that I didn't seem to be doing anything except studying and working. Compared to those young and beautiful little girls. Sister, I already seem a little old. ”

"That's not old, that's mature! In fact, many boys still like you very much. Just don't be too picky. Most of the boys who like you are still growing. Their abilities and careers are progressively developing without requiring full blame. Maybe in the future, they will gradually become the one you want. In fact, the husband who has been slowly cultivated is actually not bad. ”

Lao Li said with an expression of a passer-by.

Wang Ling said disapprerovingly, "Can it be cultivated? That's just a possibility." What if it can't be cultivated? Isn't that more troublesome? And the youth of girls is only a few short years. Even if he is cultivated, who can guarantee that he will not be the next Chen Shimei?"

Xie Ruizhen said indifferently, "I don't want to find any boys who are too capable, or I can't do it if I don't worry about it." And it's better not to be too handsome, I can look pleasing to the eye. The income from work should not be too high, not too much lower than mine. As for the house and car, there is no need for it. With better. It doesn't matter if you don't have it, just buy it slowly. ”

Zhao Hong smiled and said, "For you, such a boy is indeed not too good." But for ordinary girls, such a boy is actually quite good. If you have a good income, and you have a good look, a good family background and education, what more do you want?"

Sometimes people fall into the cage they make for themselves, fix their careers within certain frameworks, and take the initiative to live in the world they imagine.

The waiters have begun to serve the food step by step, the first to come is a few side dishes that look relatively simple, but the colors and shapes are more beautiful, and when the staple food is served, it is their first to come, because they order the most people's choice of pasta.

"Does this count as the latecomer?" Xie Ruizhen said with a slight smug smile.

Zhao Hong joked, "This is the benefit of ordinary." Because most people choose this one because it is more, not because it is the best, although Lao Li and I did not order, but they are the most distinctive here, and I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. What's the hurry?"

They are also happy to listen to it, and there are so many reasons for ordering food.

"Zhao Hong, you guy has so many reasons for eating, and he is very reasonable than us as teachers. ”

Lao Li nodded in agreement, while Zhao Hong smiled. In my last life, I graduated from a teacher's college, although I didn't become a teacher for some reason, but chose other jobs, but this problem of being reasonable still remained.

"I'm sorry, it's an old problem, I must pay attention to it in the future. ”

After a while, all the meals came up, after all, this is a "big canteen", there are a lot of ready-made dishes here, and the price is not expensive, and most of the people who come here to eat are office workers, just like Xie Ruizhen and her colleagues, time is also very limited.

Everyone chatted about their own life situation while eating together, most of them were picked, and occasionally some were not very satisfied, and they were more self-ridiculing.

"Xie Ruizhen, why did you remember to go to graduate school, why didn't you join the job earlier?"

Zhao Hong asked a little curiously, after all, this seemed to be different from the previous life.

She said helplessly, "Actually, I was also forced! My dream was to be a librarian, where I could stay quietly every day, work simply, and have time to read my favorite books at will." But the job of librarian is not so easy to find. I didn't have to graduate from a bachelor's degree to become a teacher. It's just that I was assigned to the far suburbs, the conditions are not good, and the salary efficiency is still a lot worse than other schools. After graduating, I returned to the urban middle school, and I just started to work for two or three months, and the situation is okay. ”

Zhao Hong also nodded and said, "Actually, you're not bad." After graduating from graduate school, you can be transferred back to the city, which is much better than our students who study medicine, and it is useless to look at those students who study medicine, and they have to go to study for a doctorate. Postdoctoral. Even after graduation, I still have to be a resident doctor for several years, and my work is busy and tiring, and although my income is very high, my youth has passed in the inadvertent busyness!