You are hurt because of someone else's hurt because you love. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoIf you don't love, the hurt of others doesn't matter to you, it can only make you angry and fight back.

When a person is accustomed to distorting all good intentions and speculating on everyone's intentions, this person is basically hopeless.

The post-70s generation who are about to grow old (transferred from WeChat) hereby dedicates to our dear "1970~1979" born people

Okay, you can only watch, don't cry

。 When we look back...... I'm still imagining that I'm 18 years old, but I'm almost 40 years old!

Really? I don't want to think about it, but I have to face it.

The youthful frivolity of the past is long gone. The former years of love have long passed away. We of the post-70s generation have begun to stand on the tail of 30 years old, and in the face of forty are not confused, how many people can hold their heads high and swear that we are still young?

Yes, youth is capital, in the face of the sudden rise of the post-80s, are we still young after the 70s?

Once, we were proud of our lofty ideals and ran in strange cities, just to find the truest dreams in our hearts.

Once, no matter how difficult life was, I would think that as long as I worked hard, I would definitely succeed.

Once, I simply thought that even a very small room could manage my most beautiful love.

When career is still inactive, when love becomes ethereal, do we born in the 70s still say that we are young and not afraid of failure?

One day, I realized that we were all old in the 70s.

We are no longer frivolous, we are no longer chic, we are no longer open, we are no longer smiling, we have the pressure of life, we have the fear of marriage, we have the disappointment of the future, and we have the discouragement of difficulties.

Every day, the time to wake up has changed from 12 noon to 7 o'clock in the morning, and the time to go to bed has changed from 2 o'clock in the morning to 11 o'clock in the evening.

Our post-70s generation gradually hates bars and KTV, likes to be close to nature, and likes a healthy lifestyle;

Our post-70s generation will occasionally be lonely, and occasionally miss someone;

Our post-70s generation has no youthful frivolity, and regards the setbacks and difficulties encountered as a kind of life experience, trying to tolerate and endure it;

Our post-70s generation, recalling that in the past, we had done too many wrong things, taken too many detours, and we always regretted it, but we couldn't go back, and we couldn't go back to that once innocent era.

When we are overwhelmed by the invisible pressure of society, we long for the love we once had, longing for someone to eat with and watch a movie together after work every day, and we need someone to share something for us.

We are on a great voyage, we need someone to cheer us on, maybe we are occasionally tired and want to give up, but when we think of someone around us who makes us care, take a deep breath and continue to move forward, I believe that there is always a other shore that can dock.

After our 70s, we hid on QQ to see who was online, saw familiar people who wanted to say something, but didn't say anything, so entangled, we refreshed the space over and over again to see who updated their mood;

We are born in the 70s, and we no longer complain when we are troubled, we watch and listen quietly, quietly, this is a very realistic and hypocritical world;

Our post-70s generation in Bensi obviously wanted to cry, but he was still laughing.

I obviously care, but I pretend I don't care.

I really wanted to stay, but I firmly said I wanted to leave.

It's obviously painful, but he says that he is very happy.

I can't forget it, but I say I've forgotten it.

obviously can't let go, but he says that he is him and I am me.

I was reluctant, but I said I had had enough.

is clearly saying a lie against his will, but he says that it is his true words

。 Tears were about to overflow his eyes, but his head was held high.

It's irretrievable, but it's still persistent.

I know I'm hurt, but I say you don't have to feel like you owe me.

It's obviously very tiring to "disguise" like this, but you still have to ......

In order to hide his vulnerability, even if he is sad, he will pretend that he doesn't care, but he doesn't want others to see his wounds, he doesn't want the people around him to be heartbroken, he doesn't want others to sympathize with him, he just wants to bear it alone in the bottom of his heart, although he is distressed and hard to breathe, but he smiles and tells everyone "I'm fine!" and then when he calms down, he laughs at himself, why pretend to be so strong, as if he can bear all the suffering... Hehe, it's so tiring... Tired.........

Are you in a bad mood inexplicably, you don't want to talk to anyone, you just want to be alone in a quiet daze, thinking about the people and things that have passed away.

Have you ever felt irritable and uncomfortable looking at anything, and your heart was so stuffy that you were desperately trying to find an exit.

Have you ever found that the people around you don't understand you, and when you face the people around you, you suddenly feel speechless.

Have you ever felt like this all of a sudden, and suddenly you felt out of place in the world, and what you had been holding on to was unrecognizable overnight.

Have you ever had a time when you suddenly wanted to escape from your current life, and wanted to pack your simple belongings and wander desperately.

Have you ever had such a time? Someone suddenly said to you, "I think you've changed." Then, I began to have mixed feelings.

Have you ever had such a time? suddenly wished that time would stop for you, and just keep living with the people you like. Have you ever had such a time? When you are vulnerable, you want to hide alone, and you don't want others to see your wounds.

Have you ever had such a time? Suddenly I want to cry, but I am so sad that I can't cry.

Have you ever had such a time? In the dead of night, you suddenly feel loneliness deep in your bones.

Have you ever walked through a familiar street corner, saw a familiar back, and suddenly remembered a person's face.

Have you ever had such a time? You have a lot of things in your heart that you want to say, but you don't know how to express them.

Have you ever had such a time? There is a nameless fire in your heart, and you really want to find someone to vent to, and you want to shout it out.

Have you ever felt like you had nothing, as if you had been abandoned by the world.

Have you ever had a time when you have a lot of friends around you, but you still feel lonely.

Have you ever had such a time? You have a lot of dreams, but you can't do it.

Have you ever had such a time? Suddenly you can't find yourself, you lose yourself.

Have you ever had such a time?