I happened to see a colleague's talk: after being busy, I will occasionally flip through WeChat to see the classic sharing of my relatives, and today I see "four friends who must make in my life" / make a friend who appreciates you, comfort you and help you when you are poor, make a friend with positive energy, accompany you and encourage you when you are down, make a friend who leads the way for you, volunteer to be your stepping stone, take you through the mud and fog, make a friend who is willing to criticize you, always remind you, supervise you / can't help but live most of your life, as if you can't make one。 Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

Then I thought of dealing with the world, and wrote about this person's talent, but he was not liked by others, and even hated by others.

Usually she is very self-righteous and self-righteous in what she does and speaks. Many people stayed away, not only because they had no friends, but also because they didn't even have anyone willing to talk to her.

Think about it, a person who is almost 50 years old, living to this point, still hasn't lived to understand, is also a cup.

I also remembered one thing, in the previous stage of unit garage planning, there were more cars than parking spaces, but the usual old parking spaces were still put in their own places, and everyone seemed to have achieved a tacit understanding and were courteous to each other.

One day, she asked a colleague who was putting the car in the parking space next to her, and when she learned that it was a low-level staff member, she threw a sentence: Ignore her! I asked the leader to put the car here. Later, the leader's car, abandoned and a broken car that died there occupied that parking space and would never move.

She herself is a section-level, and in this department-level unit, she is not a leader.

This incident has provoked many people, mainly because she has no one in her eyes and upset the balance that has been formed.

As a result, many people began to deliberately grab her parking space. It's terrible now, she can't do it, and she goes everywhere to find leaders to complain and avenge her grievances.

Everyone responded: Why can she do things that others can't?

This has been going on in a state of chaos. I'm not involved, so I don't think I need to wade into this troubled water.

But not long ago, when her old man saw that I was silent, she might be a bully. So I put a relative's newly bought car in the parking space I often park. He also announced loudly in the cafeteria: It was my nephew's new car, and it would be left here for a month, and I would drive away after completing the formalities and getting the license plate.

I don't eat breakfast in the cafeteria, I didn't hear. I wonder whose new car is in my parking space? I don't want to be annoyed that someone came to tell me what she said to the office just after I put it in the office: you can put it away, and announced that you were going to leave it for a month, and announced that the car belonged to a relative. Why?!

On the one hand, the General Office has long issued a notice that foreign vehicles are not allowed to enter the underground garage; and furthermore, aren't you openly trying to bully people? If you act quietly and secretly, I won't bother with you, and it doesn't matter if you leave me in a month's time. In this case, I have to maintain my face. Isn't it?

The eldest brother of the car class couldn't see it, so he said to her: You can see if you can move out of that parking space, the doctor often parks the one, she is not good at technology, and that parking space is a little better.

She immediately angrily asked: Who assigned that parking space to her?

The eldest brother said: It's not that you can't stop, everyone is a colleague, isn't it good to get along with each other?

She didn't say anything more and turned away.

Later, after I heard my eldest brother talk about this, I was also very annoyed, usually I was polite and treated her well, and when she became the target of the public, I didn't participate, I didn't fall into the well, why did you suddenly find me and start to fight against me?

I didn't reason with her, I made a phone call directly to the administrative department, asked about parking spaces and foreign vehicles, and after a few minutes, her car had to drive out of the garage and drive out of the unit in the afternoon to find a place to park. Later, when she came back to her usual place, I could have told her to fuck off, but I didn't say anything.

This morning, I heard the eldest brother of the car class say that since he told me about moving the parking space, people have ignored him, and when he talks to others, they turn their heads and ignore them. I am very puzzled, how can you be like this? Such a large unit is not your home, people just adjust the use of the garage, kindly adjust the relationship between colleagues, in order for you not to offend one more person again, do not appreciate and do not say but resentment, I am really speechless.

I've always been respectful of her, but now I'm walking around even more, and I have to turn a deaf ear when I see her, so I can't afford to provoke her, and I don't care about it, and hide quietly.

In the previous stage, the office was adjusted, and there was an office for two people at the section level, and there was no one in an office with her, and she would rather be squeezed into an office with three people than share a room with her, and she was still an old man and a lonely person.

Seeing her talk, I was also quite sympathetic, and I didn't have a friend in my life. But she never reflected on herself and criticized, nor did she want to improve her relationship with people.

I am a humble and tolerant person in everything, and my colleagues get along in harmony, and I don't have festivals and estrangements with anyone, but I don't want to get close to her, but I don't want to be embarrassed for her.