Chapter 60 Zhao Hong's love feelings
When Xiao Wanting's family was discussing Zhao Hong, Zhao Hong was also thinking about the gains and losses of this meeting.
It is almost certain that her parents will not be adamantly against it, because she is a girl.
Boys are at a relative disadvantage in the process of pursuing girls, so flowers, food, shopping, and proper servant status. When girls really enter the stage of love, they will become basically equal, and at this time girls will work hard to care about boys and maintain the hard-won feelings of both parties, because they prefer a relatively stable love life, and boys have more curiosity and adventure.
Of course, Zhao Hong's more self-confidence comes from the strength he has improved, after all, he is 20 years old, and there is still a lot of room for development in the future, which should be regarded as a potential stock!
It's just that from the communication, I can feel their sense of being on top, looking down on a lucky little people who have risen from the lower echelons of society. Zhao Hong was uncomfortable, but he had to admit that the middle class in society has always existed. You may be able to read well, but at most you can become a craftsman, a high-level craftsman, or a doctor, or a high-level craftsman in other technical jobs. It is almost impossible to really enter the elite management of society.
So, there is nothing wrong with her parents looking down. After experiencing more, they already know this internal law of society. But there is nothing to change, otherwise their son would not have left the country. The life of the domestic elite is no worse than that abroad, and in many respects even worse.
Even in the future, these so-called high-tech jobs will enter a relative solidification phenomenon. The most typical is a monopoly enterprise with good efficiency, where several generations of a family are in the same unit, and a certain common group of interests is formed through marriage with classmates and so on. It's almost hard for people from outside to get in.
In his previous life, Zhao Hong once looked at a unit, with a total of 23 independent departments. From top to bottom, most of them are people from the same place, whether it is management or technology, and the one who is not is still the daughter-in-law of the people of that place.
Therefore, many people are far away from their hometowns, not because they don't love their hometowns, but because they have no way to break the solidified social structure of the local area. It's a bit far.
Zhao Hong can understand the concerns of Xiao Wanting's parents, and Xiao Wanting's future life route is estimated to be to enter the university and continue to work as a teacher, although the income may not be very high, but the social status is indeed relatively high.
Housing is never a problem for the average person, so they don't care about it at all.
This also reminded Zhao Hong of the words of the old man he met by chance in the park, "The level is not enough." "It's true that only the poor think about things outside of the body, such as houses, but in fact, those are just things that come with you in the process of struggle. People who have a career really don't need to think about this.
Zhao Hong is a reborn person, with memory, and social and economic understanding and prediction, he can have a gradual development, otherwise you can succeed a few times as a normal person, but as long as you fail once, you will be beaten back. You can continue to sing "It's just all over again", but is it really that easy?
Zhao Hong has always insisted on pursuing reliable love, yes, it is reliable. You can get wealth by memorizing, but it will not change your fundamental quality, and re-working and studying will only improve, but there will be no essential change.
If you don't have the memory of your previous life, you're just an ordinary person, or a relatively good ordinary person. Even if you have a huge amount of wealth, it is just a child in colorful clothes, how can no one prying into the city, once it reaches a certain time or place, wealth is no longer a source of happiness, but a source of disaster.
And a reliable marriage and family is the last guarantee and the most reliable support. Otherwise, once there is a problem in the career, and the family has a problem, the consequences will be very serious, and Zhao Hong doesn't know if he can afford that kind of failure without failing.
Therefore, Zhao Hong is a very picky person about his other half, trying to find a suitable other half, sometimes he will feel a little too demanding of others, but this is the best way so far, after all, Zhao Hong still has time, 20 years old, his memory still has more than 20 years, there are many advantages that can be relied on, although some conditions cannot be greatly changed, but after all, some can be made up for with others......
In his thoughts, I don't know when, Zhao Hong has fallen asleep.
The next day, Zhao Hong and Xiao Wanting both got up very late, and they didn't start to get up until nearly nine o'clock. Zhao Hong waited until ten o'clock before he saw Xiao Wanting come to the guest house again.
Xiao Wanting put on makeup today, a light and new simple makeup, only the eye circles have been covered a lot by cosmetics, and you can still see the faint black when you get close.
Zhao Hong couldn't help but feel a little distressed, and said gently, "I didn't sleep well last night? I'm sorry, I put a lot of pressure on you." I will work hard to achieve certain results as soon as possible, so that your parents can recognize our love more. ”
Xiao Wanting raised her head and glanced at Zhao Hong, rubbed Zhao Hong's hair with her hand, and said in an exaggerated tone,
"It's okay! Sister's affairs are solved by herself, and my sister's happiness is in her own hands. My sister didn't have any big expectations, and simple happiness was enough. In a house, I cook, you wash the dishes, I do the laundry, you take the clothes, the rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, negotiate the price, all kinds of problems are actually some of the fun and happiness of life itself. As for your career, you should do it at your own pace, I don't know much about those, anyway, marry a chicken and a dog and marry a dog, as long as you can always be good to me, other things depend on the arrangement of fate! It's a big deal that my sister will raise you for a lifetime. ”
Zhao Hong felt that Xiao Wanting had begun to partially burden her thoughts, and hurriedly made a joke, "Sister, it can't be too cheap to support me, at least three meals a day, a two-foot bed, and at least a cute child who can play with me." A little pocket money, at least 2 yuan a day. ”
Xiao Wanting frowned arrogantly, and touched Zhao Hong's face with her little hand,
"Well, let's make up for it, it's not very demanding, but it depends on the service, whether it's good or not. Let's start by learning how to bark a puppy. ”
Zhao Hong hurriedly cooperated with the puppy, "Wang, Wang......"
Xiao Wanting happily touched Zhao Hong's face with one hand, hugged Zhao Hong's neck with the other hand, and kissed it affectionately, Zhao Hong also responded warmly, at this time he and she needed comfort and encouragement, but they couldn't say a lot of reasons and reasons.
Life is like this, love is like this, it has no fixed path, it does not have too much perfection, it is always moving forward in torment, and all the unknown may be tribulation or gain.
This is also the unique charm of the life course. The sense of accomplishment of overcoming difficulties and the sense of happiness of harvest.