Chapter 695: Ten Years of Trials and Hardships (2)
Zhao Hong and his wife have been in a threesome for more than two years, and at first only Xiao Wanting was willing to accompany him to wander around.
From time to time, you can see her > in the small family
"Today we saw a middle-aged man carrying a burden to sell flowers at the intersection, stopped and looked, although there were only two colors of forget-me-not, but in a trance I felt like I was in the market of the ancient city of Dali [rose]
By the way, does anyone know what kind of flower the photo below is?
Later, she followed a number of photos, and she stood happily in the sea of flowers.
Every now and then, the children will give a thumbs up and say that they are too lazy to post again. Otherwise, their mother Xiao will have to talk to you endlessly about her various experiences, without taking into account that the children are studying hard!
At this time, Guo Yi often stayed in the company alone to work overtime, or stayed at home alone.
Their five children have gradually begun to grow up, and they usually live on campus and only come back on weekends.
And like the boss Jack, he has even been working for several years, busy with his work and career every day, even if he is in love, he needs to find time to find opportunities.
Jack lived up to everyone's expectations of him, graduating from college before the age of twenty-one, and then rotated through various branches within the Zhao Song Group of Companies.
He used to have a lot of girlfriends with whom he had a good relationship when he was in college, but in the end, none of them stayed.
"There are regrets, but isn't this a normal experience in life?"
The biggest reason for the girls to leave is economic reasons, because Jack has always been a child of an ordinary Chinese family and interacted with people, although he has a lot of friends he really likes, but he also lost the girls' final choice.
After all, love is love, if you want to consider marriage, how many girls will not consider family factors?
In particular, many girls who are also of Chinese descent! Many of them are from wealthy families, and while enjoying a rich life, they have an instinctive rejection of ordinary families.
Not to mention the intervention of their parents and family?
Today's Jack still has a lot of girls who like it, and even because Jack is becoming more and more mature, he has more charm, but after dating, most of them are not his ideal marriage partners.
Smart and capable girls are a bit feminine. Although Jack is not very macho, he still can't accept that he has to accept a "big feminine" girlfriend who is called around every day to do things.
Those simple and beautiful girls, he also felt that it was not suitable, because he felt that there was not much common language and concepts!
And if he is allowed to slowly cultivate a girlfriend who is more in line with his ideas in all aspects, he doesn't seem to have much time......
Some people envy and hate some second generations, but he himself is more envious of their freedom and freedom, as long as they work hard, and they can enjoy the happiness of adolescence more.
But he can't! Because he has his responsibility! Responsibility to himself! Expectations for his family, the expectations of his brothers and sisters, only if he can take responsibility, the whole family can live a simple and happy life!
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The sea is not so busy, and there is still plenty of time to enjoy life every day.
After graduating from university, he chose to stay and work in the public welfare foundation set up by Zhao Song Group Company, on the one hand, so that he could see all aspects of the world by himself, not only the beauty of flowers, but also a lot of disgusting darkness and helplessness.
There is no hope and sunshine in the news, and there is no darkness that is unbearable.
Condolences to poor families can let the sea know what the so-called poor families are poor for, is it because of laziness?
Admittedly, there are some, but most of the poverty is due to knowledge and culture and many other factors.
For example, the environment!
Whether the humanistic environment of the family is good or not can greatly affect the shaping of children's understanding of their own world in the future.
If there is a lot of hope and love in the home, then the children will naturally think that this is what the home should be when they grow up.
And if the family is full of selfishness, mutual calculations and quarrels, then the children will naturally think that the so-called family is like this!
People living in economically affluent areas will naturally think that eating enough is just a very natural thing, and reading is an inevitable experience for every school-age child, but when he goes to more poor mountainous areas, he will know.
Not all children have the opportunity to go to school, not all schools are clean, and recess meals are not taken for granted.
Many small things that he once ignored may be able to easily change the fate of a person, or even a family, in many cases!
In some families, if the eldest can be admitted to college and walk out of the mountains, then his younger siblings are likely to be able to come out too!
It's not because the younger siblings in the back have become smarter, but because with the example in front of them, no matter how hard the struggle is, doesn't there also a direction to work towards?
In many cases, it is not that people cannot endure hardships and suffer crimes, as long as there is hope and the direction of efforts, who can not have endless energy in their hearts?
And the most terrible thing is that you can't see a little hope, you can't see the direction, and you can't wait at a loss, that is, no matter how much you hold on, how long can you last?
The sea also sees that many people's success is actually quite accidental!
A small change that many people take for granted may lead to endless opportunities.
Sometimes it's a small food, sometimes it's a small item, and sometimes it's just a tiny little habit......
As long as you can find an opportunity, work hard to grasp it, and then persist in working hard and not giving up, many people can make a fortune in many cases.
In many cases, whether you can succeed has nothing to do with academic qualifications, but it is inseparable from whether you can continue to learn!
Only by constantly studying hard can we grasp the opportunity after discovering it, and continue to expand some advantages.
However, the sea has also found a particularly ridiculous phenomenon.
Most of the once brilliant "10,000 households" have disappeared, not because they don't work hard, but because after those people seize the opportunity to make a fortune, many people stop in place and do not progress, and with the development of the times, they are gradually eliminated.
It's like a joke that circulates in some small county town.
"For the first time in the year, we bought 20 motorcycles in the county, and it was very enviable and jealous to be able to afford them at that time, but in less than two years, no one would be envious and jealous anymore.
Because most of those people died because of traffic accidents.
Therefore, people must not get carried away with the momentary pride, because when a person gets carried away, it is often the time when the risk is greatest!
At worst, it will be ruined and avoid disasters, and at worst, the family will be ruined and people will die!"
Therefore, when there is another chance to meet the arrogance of the so-called "richest man" in a certain place, the sea no longer has the original tension, but feels particularly ridiculous!
"People are doing it, and the sky is watching! How long can people who have wealth but no virtue be happy?"
And his motivation to do public welfare activities is also more sufficient. Fupin Chinese