24. Be patient as a parent

The day before yesterday, my grandfather had a severe cold and a high fever at night, Doudou was clamoring to play games, and we didn't have time to pay attention to her, Doudou was very annoyed and angry. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info cried once, probably because they were not taken seriously.

When I went to bed at night, Doudou quietly asked me, "Mom, if Dad can't get a doctorate, Grandpa won't leave?"

Doudou said: "It's better for grandpa to go back and grandma to stay." "I told her that we had to take care of my grandfather when he was sick and that she should learn how to play the right time.

Doudou said: "Grandpa has a cold, you care, then I still have a cough, you don't care about me?"

I said, "Sickness is also abrupt, and a high fever is not the same as a cough. High fever is an acute illness that requires urgent treatment. Didn't your mother care about you every day when you were coughing, took care of you, and gave you medicine? Grandpa needs to be taken care of like a child when he is old, and he needs to be taken care of even more when he is sick. ”

Doudou seemed to understand and stopped making noise.

Later, Doudou said to his father, "You'd better send your grandfather home, otherwise I won't be able to play the game." ”2006/5/9

Doudou was beaten this morning!

Because I was unhappy and angry, I ran to school by myself, and I couldn't catch up with me because I ran so fast, and my father was so anxious that we chased back and forth before finding him at the gate. I was so anxious that I spanked her hard.

There are a lot of people going to work in the morning, and there are a lot of cars, which is very chaotic, which is really worrying! Doudou herself actually understands in her heart that she is walking the same way that her father usually sends her to school, and she also pulls aside, but we are very worried.

In the evening, you should discuss this matter with Doudou to prevent it from happening again in the future. 2006/5/22

Slapped Doudou's ass yesterday, and I actually regret it all the time.

In the evening, through Dad's reasoning, Doudou also figured it out by herself, and we were worried about her safety.

I should change my approach to Doudou, such as with patience and gentleness.

Doudou and Dad can get along more equally, the day before yesterday, Dad spoke in a bit of a heavy tone, Doudou immediately protested: How can Dad talk like a lesson?!

I told her to explain it to her father, and Doudou immediately went to get "justice". I should make myself an enlightened parent.

Doudou, mom will change slowly. 2006/5/23

Doudou is sick, maybe because I didn't dress her last Friday, or maybe it was because she didn't get dressed in time after I went to the exam on Saturday and got cold.

I was still very energetic after getting up yesterday morning, and I was dizzy at 9 o'clock in the morning. I started to have a fever in the afternoon, I took antipyretics, the fever subsided and burned again, last night I had a terrible fever, I took medicine twice, and I still burned, my little face burned red, even my ears were red, and Doudou's uncomfortable feeling was not very serious.

I watched on the side and felt distressed, and I was busy wiping my body with a basin of warm water, and after tossing for an hour, Doudou kept chatting with me, and my spirit seemed to be fine.

I remember when Doudou was more than a year old, I had a reaction to the diphtheria-tetanus-pertussis vaccine, and the fever reached 39, 5 °C, my father was doing the experiment, it was more than ten o'clock in the evening, and there was no phone at home at that time, I was holding Doudou alone and was anxious like an ant on a hot pot, Doudou was sleeping in a daze while trying to open his eyes and smile at me.

The smile of that little elven angel is etched in my heart.

Later, I borrowed a neighbor's phone to find my father, and my father hurriedly went to buy medicine and came back to cook it for Doudou to drink.

As soon as the medicine was consumed, Doudou began to sweat, and after sweating profusely, he was basically fine.

Doudou rarely gets sick, I am happy to be a mother, and Doudou has been very empathetic since he was a child, and he can especially understand the difficulties of his parents.

So, my daughter is a spirit sent by God and a source of happiness for my life.

Doudou has been getting angry more recently, and he was more naughty in the previous stage, but Doudou is just a person who doesn't make a sound, not noisy or noisy.

Yesterday, Dad helped her tidy up the desk, asked her to learn to tidy up the desk in the future, she found that Dad didn't put the watercolor pens in order after reading the desk that Dad helped to tidy up, so she started to put the watercolor pens in order, and she was going to eat, she said to eat after finishing, and I told her that the order of the head and tail of the pen was not important.

Doudou said with a sudden realization: "Oh, it doesn't matter if the order of the head and tail of the pen?!"

Doudou's tonsils have always been very large and affect breathing, and we as doctors know its disadvantages, and we also understand the dangers of surgery and the postoperative effects, so we have not been able to make up our minds to have surgery, and I have looked at it again in the past few days, and it seems that the tonsils have become smaller.

A few days ago, Doudou had a physical examination in kindergarten, and Doudou was 1.19M tall, weighed 23.8 kg, had a hemoglobin of 121, and his nutritional development was at the middle and upper level, and his weight was slightly high, but he had 6 caries.

Doudou grows up like this, and it doesn't need to be carefully cared for by Mom and Dad to thrive in natural conditions!2006, 6, 5