228. Is it worth it?
The child's father is a doctor, and we have been working hard from nothing, so we have been trying our best, and life seems to be pinning hope on tomorrow. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
has been in love for four years and married for 11 years, all of them are getting together and leaving more, they are all getting together to get by, and they are all waiting for the day when everything is fine. I don't care about stopping to look at life itself, I don't care about thinking that life should actually be lived every day, and I shouldn't accompany today for the unknown future.
Until all the books that should be read have been read, and everything should be settled down and live in peace, he is gone.
And we have never enjoyed the market life like normal people, as if we have not lived a fireworks life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and have been like clockwork full of clockwork, constantly walking. Even my small wish that we would walk along the South Lake together when we had time didn't come true.
Therefore, I don't think life should be accompanied by any period of life for an unknown future, for example, parents sign up for countless interest classes and cram schools for their children, so that children have no time to play, and their childhood fun is deprived. I don't think it's worth it.
As long as the child is not decadent, has a normal outlook, has a sound personality and personality, and can grow up healthily and happily is the most important thing.
In addition, it is uncertain what kind of human resources will be needed in the future world.
I also believe that a healthy mind and body is always more important.
As a person, I feel that at any stage in life, one should be at ease with the nature of that stage, and any act of depriving oneself of one, for whatever purpose and for whatever reason, is inhumane.
This is especially true for Chinese, the destruction of children's extermination and humanity caused by survival pressure, I believe every parent can feel the same, but they have also become their own hated accomplices.
Many times, the child's seemingly non-"regular" requirements, although I will not meet them in time, I will delay trying to meet them, I think that she should enjoy whatever she desires at this stage of her growth that does not violate human nature and morality.
After this stage, you give it to her, and she doesn't need it. Like, we were obsessed with snacks when we were children, but when we grew up, we turned our noses up at snacks. And the deficit in my heart that was not satisfied at that time has been with me for a lifetime.
When Dou Kid was in elementary school, he was obsessed with comics, bought a bookcase of comics, and saved them as treasures.
When I was in junior high school, I was obsessed with fantasy novels, and I bought a lot of books.
When I was in high school, I started playing cosplay again, and it cost more, and I supported her openly and secretly, hoping that she could do what she loved at every stage of her life.
As long as she is not decadent and does not take a crooked path, she should be serious about her studies and have the upbringing she should have, and her interests and hobbies should not be sacrificed for the sake of learning.
When Dou Kid said that he was so naïve when he was obsessed with comics and fantasy as a teenager, I smiled.