Chapter Ninety-Six: Summer Night Talks (2) About Love
Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families.
On the radio, the host talked about the purity of love with ideals and a marriage certificate from his parents. Denounce love and marriage that are increasingly materialistic.
The eldest Sun Lin and the second Zhang Weiwu both said loudly, and they really said their hearts. Zhou Limin first nodded, then shook his head, and the rest, including Zhao Hong, were a little unimpressed.
The second child looked at a few disapproving roommates and asked, "Do you think what she said is wrong? Isn't love supposed to be like this, isn't pure love supposed to be like this?"
Zhou Limin said, "Love should have nothing to do with material conditions, but if there is no certain material basis for marriage, it is likely to be a tragedy." If you can't afford to build a new house in the village, where will someone marry their daughter to you? Most people who don't have anything are very lazy, and whoever lacks the heart and vision will marry into such a family. ”
The boss muttered, "It seems to be the same." However, there are also accidents, such as families who are sick, and the burden is too great and leads to poverty. ”
Jiang Zuowei said angrily, "Diseases may also be hereditary." How dare you marry your daughter into a family of sick people? I don't know if I should admire your courage or ......."
Zhao Hong also added a knife, "If a young man doesn't even have the idea and courage to buy a house, let's not talk about whether he has the ability or not, at least he doesn't have much responsibility." If you complain and complain that girls are ignorant because of this, is it that you are asking too much, and how eager other girls must be to marry without thinking about anything, right?"
Zhou Limin also said, "If the house is a little bigger, the old man can also come to live for a period of time, not to mention how filial to his parents, that is, the child needs the help of the old man when he is still young." It is money-saving and reassuring, and has the warmth of family. ”
Li Weidong also sighed and said, "That's it, her two girls, sooner or later, their parents will have to live with one of their children, so they need a big house, at least three bedrooms and two living rooms, about 100 square meters, 200,000 yuan!
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I don't know when, the topic has shifted to girls again, and the house is not an easy topic in the first place. It's better to talk about girls.
Everyone has always agreed to talk about their real love experiences one by one, from oldest to smallest.
The eldest Sun Lin said indifferently, "The first girlfriend talked earlier, in the second grade of junior high school, there was a more delicate girl in the class and I were good, at that time, it was very pure, I had to be happy to talk to her for a long time, tall, 165, looking about the same height as me, just studying." When it comes to graduating from junior high school, I went to high school, so I didn't have the opportunity to meet each other. As a result, when I was tutoring in high school, I heard that she was married, and we got married early in our village, and I also understood that she didn't dare to continue talking to me, for fear of being flashed. The second one is now. You all know that. The boss said it lightly, but it was still a little regretful to look at his expression.
The second child was a little embarrassed and said, "Actually, I was engaged before I came, and we got engaged very early, and there will be no good women when we are late." It was only when I was admitted to university that I was pushed again. The woman's family was reasonable, and she didn't say much, and my family's engagement money was lost in vain, several thousand. ”
"Let you be Chen Shimei!" everyone criticized.
"The rest of the matter, you all know, I found a girl from northern Sichuan and was kicked, and there is still a southern Fujian girl, I don't know if it can be done. Why?" Zhang Weiwu sighed a little puzzled.
Zhao Hong said, "Your machismo habit is still too strong." And so far they haven't seen your sparkle!"
Zhang Weiwu was also embarrassed to say, "I have developed a habit at home, and I have been trying to change." But the women in the city are good, but they demand equality between men and women too much. This argument ushered in everyone's long-standing contempt.
Zhao Hong also briefly explained, "I had a girlfriend for more than half a year in high school, and then my girlfriend's family immigrated and broke up." Later, the first one you have all seen, it is a good person, but her mother is firmly against it, and she is not very insistent, so I gave up. The second is Xiao Wanting, you all know each other, it's been almost two years, it's been good, and now I'm studying in country M. I'm going to chase her there, too. At present, the relationship is very good!" Zhao Hong's introduction made everyone a little envious.
"Third brother, the girl in front of me is a school bully and a beauty, and now this one is also a big beauty, with a cheerful and caring personality. How did you find it? Why can't I find a beautiful woman?"
The fifth Jiang Zuowei said in a somewhat envious tone. The others also had curious baby expressions.
Zhao Hong said with a lonely face, "There is no way, it is difficult to give up on the natural beauty, and you can't stop it if you are charming." Don't be obsessed with brother, brother is a legend. ”
Everyone looked disgusted.
The boss said sourly, "Isn't it just a little taller, those girls are shallow guys, don't you know that the condensed ones are the essence?"
The second child also objected, "Isn't it just that you love stinky beauty?
The fifth child is also very disappointed, "Today's girls have no vision so much? they can only pursue the glamour on the surface, isn't it difficult to see the connotation inside? The future rich are in front of them, giving them opportunities, and they don't know how to cherish them." Alas, superficial people!"
The sixth brother said with some resentment, "Fifth brother, isn't it the second generation of a small factory owner? Is it interesting to brag about yourself in the face of the masses? Not to mention that it is not just your family." Otherwise, one day I will make a sign for you to hang around your neck, and please pursue a book for the future rich second generation. ”
The fifth brother hurriedly explained, "Don't you see that the fifth brother has always been the original girlfriend?
Yes, who doesn't love beautiful women?
Li Weidong continued, "My girlfriend and I are childhood sweethearts, the home of world friends. It was only when I went to college that the relationship became clear. I guess that's it for the future, it's good and happy. ”
Lao Liu said, "My girlfriend and I have been slowly stabilizing recently. I didn't have time to think about this in high school before, but now it's fine. It is estimated that there is no change, and she will go back to work and live near her home. ”
The second child suddenly said, "Don't you have any other time to pick wild flowers once in a while? After all, domestic flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers!"
Everyone was happy, but no one answered, after all, this is a careful thought that can only be understood and cannot be spoken......