It's also an attitude towards life.
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Originally, Henan as the source of the Central Plains culture, should be the most direct inheritor of the tradition, etiquette, righteousness and shame should be the national example, do not want some to go out to work all over the country, or study the dog and fly camp, drill camp and mercenary Henan people ruined Henan's reputation, it is a pity that the ancestors left the precious material cultural heritage. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 On the contrary, it is the remote southern border, and the northern border makes me feel the humility, etiquette and education of the Chinese.
This also brings to mind the criticism of the Han sheep nature in "Wolf Totem", and Lu Xun's criticism of the inferior roots of the Chinese who are selfish, numb, cowardly, and have nothing to do with themselves.
"There will be such a person in everyone's life: when he is by your side, your heart will be inexplicably quiet, he can let you let go of your pride, let go of your temper, learn to understand him, tolerate him, accompany him, go through ups and downs together, go through hardships together, and become better people for each other...... Love is understanding, tolerance, companionship, peace of mind, and plainness...... If you meet, please cherish it, happiness is not easy to come by. ”
What kind of person you are, what kind of songs you hear, what kind of writing you see, what kind of words you write, and what kind of people you meet. You can hear healing songs, see warm texts, write stubborn texts, and meet just the right people, and you will believe in the seemingly old-fashioned words such as "warmth", "faith", "dreams", and "persistence" because you are such a person. ――Lu Sihao, "May someone accompany you to wander away"
"If my life is destined to be difficult, then let me spend my life interpreting indomitable. ”
I've always had many, many thoughts, and I've always been afraid of trouble. Some things are different when we turn around, hesitate, and think "next time". When the sun goes down and rises again, some people, some things, will never come back. - "You should be gentle, but you have strength"
The land is desolate, and after the prosperity, sigh the remnants of the flowers. We are always accustomed to walking the path of the present with our memories, and then at some point inadvertently, we think of the bits and pieces of the past, and suddenly burst into tears.
The windows whimpered in the wind, the wind whistled and turned, the trees staggered and swayed, and the night came, but there was no peace.
Overnight, the wind howled, making people upset and out of body.
After looking at it for a few days, I learned a little about the shape, workmanship and buyer's evaluation of the piano, and I still maintained my consistent preference.
It was really a gust of wind and rain, and it was raining heavily just now, but in a blink of an eye, the sun was shining brightly in the sky.
It's raining again, it's fun!
Although most of the plans at the beginning of the year were not completed, it was comforting to go home to visit my parents and relatives. Recently, I framed the cross-stitch and hung it up, bought the guzheng back, practiced the piano and calligraphy well, took time to exercise at night, and lived positively and sunnyly.
No matter how you live, the days are fleeting like the wind, and in the morning a leading elder sister sighed at the fleeting years. Yes, watching myself slowly move from a young man full of vitality to old age, seize the days before I get old, do what I like, and fulfill my wish that I have never had the opportunity to fulfill. Grasp what you can grasp and live beautifully.
The days are rolling away in the wheels of the years, we are often sluggish in the past thoughts and do not look up, a little careless has long been things and people, and it is no longer your youth. I often look at the old people who are getting old, and I think: How did they spend this life? How did they grow old like that? I often feel sad, and the fresh life is losing its vitality and color day by day. In fact, in such a comfortable and comfortable day, the fastest thing is the passage of time, before you know it, everything has become the past, and you can never go back.
When I went back to my hometown, I saw an old photo, which was taken with a point-and-shoot camera when my husband and I had just met, and he accompanied me to visit my grandmother and grandfather during the summer vacation. The photo shows me and my mother, grandma, and grandpa, four people, but the second uncle also appeared in the background of the photo, counting the gentleman who helped us take pictures, there were six of us in total, but now four of them are gone, grandma, grandpa is dying, and the second uncle died of heart disease at the age of 50, but Mr. left me early at the age of his prime. Looking at that picture, my heart really hurts like a thousand arrows piercing my heart! These people have walked through my life like that, and they have left me, and I will never see them again.
Now, when I walk alone on the road of life, I am no longer afraid of losing this life, I am worried about all my relatives, I have always been weak and flexible, I can only choose to be strong, choose to live well, I have borne the most pain in life, what can I not bear? I have to live. Comforting all my loved ones who have passed away, and giving comfort to my parents who regard me as my life, I chose to be strong. No one knows how strong and tenacious they can be, and only when you do it do you realize that you can be so capable and so strong. As long as you don't give up on life and don't give up on life, you can have enough courage and ability to stand up and be a human being.
When I was in college, a professor of otolaryngology in the affiliated hospital went out to treat patients, sitting in the car, the driver braked suddenly, and the professor's cervical spine was dislocated. He immediately returned to the attached hospital for repositioning treatment, but he had caused irreparable contusion to the spinal cord and died suddenly. His lover completely collapsed, and people in their forties spent all day in mahjong parlors, and it is said that the child did not have to bother when he grew up, and the long death of his lover made her unacceptable, so she also gave up on herself. At that time, I was still young, and I didn't know how to be sympathetic, but I just watched the good professor die, and the good woman was stupid and crazy, and I was very sympathetic in my heart. Many outsiders will never be able to understand the pain and feelings of the person concerned. The disasters in everyone's life are unforgettable.
In fact, many times we are unwilling to try to change or face things that we are not sure of, and we dare not drive out at night after driving for so long. Believe in yourself, be patient, and be careful.
In the past, we all threw the leftover vegetable leaves into the trash, right? Now you can use the waste to bury these peel vegetable leaves in your flower pot, you don't need to buy flower fertilizer to put it, I am stunned to use these wastes to raise a few pots of flowers fat and strong, but also reduce environmental pollution, kill two birds with one stone!
There are many times in life when I can't follow my heart, and many times I will pity, scruple, and wronged myself. In fact, many times, it is not necessary, especially when spending money, if the conditions allow, it is still necessary to enjoy a quality of life, not to make up everything.
When life gets better and I don't have to stretch my back, I follow a principle: a lot of things are in place in one step, otherwise you will save neither money nor trouble. So, I bought a good piano anyway. (The novel "Self-Picking Residual Flowers and Inserting a Clean Bottle" will have more fresh content on the official WeChat platform, and there will also be a 100% lottery gift for everyone!Open WeChat now, click on the "+" sign in the upper right corner "Add Friends", search for the official account "qdread" and follow, hurry up!)