205. As a parent, the simplest and most plain hope

Yesterday I read an article about a letter written by a father in Henan Province to his son who died suddenly of cardiac arrest. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

The 16-year-old child is in middle school and lives under heavy study pressure every day, and it breaks his heart to see this father's letter. He said that the children's childhood is spent in learning, there is no happiness, no relaxation, and there is not enough sleep, and the time at home is spent at the desk every day, thinking that there will be two or three years of hard work to get out, and I don't want the child to leave them suddenly.

The father regretted it a lot, thinking about the 16 years of his child's life, there was hardly much happy content that he could remember, and he was always doing his best for a so-called bright and glorious future, and there was no day that was a relaxed and happy child.

Now, standing in front of his son's grave, he brought all the toys that his son liked to play with but did not have time to play, but his son no longer responded to him. He said that if he wanted to know that it was the end of today, he would not pay so much attention to the child's grades and future, and would not deprive the child of the fun of childhood.

Think about it, before I had a child, I made up my mind not to change my child's life with my will, and only hoped that my child could grow up happy and healthy.

As parents, we don't have any regrets in life for our children to complete. also clearly knows that the child's life is her own, and she should not change the trajectory and content of her life for anyone, even her parents.

Since childhood, my father has been very lenient in his children's grades.

Our wish only lies in her earnest, sincere attitude towards the world.

Some of the face and vanity of being parents are rejected by us.

The child's life is her own, and we provide only all the supporting conditions she needs to grow.

As for her achievements in life, it depends on her own efforts and creation, in fact, it is not bad to be an ordinary, happy ordinary person.

Today, my simplest and most plain wish as a mother is that my children will grow up healthy, happy and safe, enjoy a relaxed life, and be able to support themselves.