Once again, a dilemma!

Comrade Jia Yuhao:

Your mother is sick, and your father says it's serious: common bile duct cancer. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info My heart is like a knife again! Why?! It's your mother?

I immediately contacted my classmates in my hometown to inquire about the treatment plan and cost, and I also told my younger brother that I would send 10,000 yuan or 20,000 yuan to send back in time.

Don't want to: I've been deceived by your family again!

First of all, your father came to ask me to make an idea for them, I thought they thought that I was a more professional doctor, so they asked for my opinion, and I was very anxious, and after discussing with my classmates, I gave a treatment plan for surgery.

Then your eldest brother called and said that it would cost about 100,000 yuan, and my classmate said that it might cost about 50,000 yuan. He doubled it, it was 50,000 yuan, not 5 yuan! But I don't think it matters, it's important to treat the old man first when he is sick.

Later, your father said that he would ask for about 50,000 yuan, and I think that your father may change after so many things, and no longer do whatever it takes to achieve the goal, which may be true. Because of the impact of what has been happening to me, I didn't rush to send the money, I was waiting for the results of the surgery to decide how much to send.

On the day of the operation, I sent a text message in the afternoon to inquire about the situation, and in the evening I called again to ask, but it was your sister who answered the phone, and only then did she tell the truth: "It's okay! It's good!" When I found out that it was my phone, I immediately said viciously: "Good people have good rewards,......

I was dumbfounded again, it turns out that I have tried my best to be good to your family for so many years, and I have always been a bad person! Alas! I was afraid that you would be wronged when you were there, and I was wronged, and now I send your mother's medicine back every year for you to feel at ease, and they received it without saying a word, I just thought that I had done my filial piety for you, and now I was ruthlessly hurt again! In their eyes, I was a fool!

The senior brother who witnessed everything that helped me through that dark period was right: "If you don't eat or drink, you give them all the money, and they won't say hello, I have seen the events and results from beginning to end, and I advise you to cherish yourself." ”

I didn't want to tell them to say that I was good, I just wanted to do my best for you, but their cold and even resentful attitude as always made me have the idea of never touching them again.

But my brother advised me: "What the old man does is their business, you just do what you should do." ”

Sometimes I think so, but now I'm dealing with an adolescent rebellious child, lonely and unsupported, and suffering from these injuries all the time, and I can't hold on anymore.

Your father called again and said, "The operation was expected to be over in half an hour, but later it was found that the duodenal perforation had been added to the operation, so the cost increased, and the doctor said that it would cost a lot of money to transfuse human blood albumin, so you can help raise some money." The tone changed from the tough and domineering of the past, and there was a sense of negotiation and request.

I study medicine! Can an operation for choledochiocarcinoma be done in half an hour? That's an appendicitis operation? Why do they always make such nonsense? Why do they always lie about everything to achieve their goals?

Alas, it seems that your mother is not seriously ill, this is my wish to pray for Guanyin Bodhisattva every day! I will bless good people with a safe life! I also pray for you to protect your relatives!

I didn't send money and didn't plan to send it, think about it, 10,000 yuan is also my salary for half a year, the children are growing up day by day, and the places where money needs are increasing day by day, I have to save some money, don't give the children too many grievances and restrictions, as for the old people, let the other children take care of it, I don't think any one will give hundreds of thousands of filial piety to them, but they are all good people!

I have spent all the money you left behind, and bought a house for Doudou, although I don't need it now, but I can maintain or increase my value, and when Doudou needs money, I can cash it out, and I don't have a lot of trouble, and I have money in my hands when my relatives don't have money to borrow it, I am worried that it may be your intentions to lose this little money. Now that I don't have your income, I will shrink my hands and feet when I spend money, and I dare not spend a penny indiscriminately, worried that Doudou will be restricted when he grows up and needs money to study. Although my brother said that he would look for him if he had no money, he had his life, so I should be more frugal myself.

I dreamed of you for a few days, and I wanted to get your opinion, but you didn't express anything, so I no longer hope for it, I just hope that you can understand my difficulties, understand my suffering, and bless our relatives with good health and peace.

Doudou has been obedient a lot lately, I didn't want to tell her about these messy things, but her rebellion made me anxious, so I had to tell her about my difficulties, although there may be emotional damage to the child, but I also want her to understand me, understand life, and grow up slowly and sensibly.

If you have a future, go away, and I will cherish it alone.

But please bless your fellow relatives with health and safety, so that you can relieve me of some of my burdens.

Recently, my heart has started to feel uncomfortable again, it seems that it is time to exercise, my energy and physical strength are far less than before, and my memory is even more messy, alas!

I've nagged you so much, I hope you understand.

So be it.

XW

2013.3.11