Love marriage for women, is the opportunity to choose life again, choose the right person, the previous memories of struggle and hard work can be regarded as the accumulation of success, if unfortunately choose the wrong one, it will almost destroy all the beautiful illusions in the woman's heart for the future life, so that women are afraid of love and marriage.

Therefore, love marriage needs to be especially careful and cautious for women, and love marriage is a woman's choice for her second life.

Today, Li Xiaofang is going to discuss this issue with her sister, after all, there are some truths as a sister, she can understand her sister better than her aunt and uncle, the times are different, and some truths still need to be said well earlier, otherwise it is a fluke if you are right, and you will regret it for life if you are wrong or miss!

How to choose, how to fall in love, and finally find a suitable home, this is indeed a big problem, especially for her sister, who is eighteen or nineteen years old, studying alone.

Today, she mainly wants to talk about the unreliable men that she and her friends encountered when they were young. She wanted her to tell her sister all the lessons she had learned, and that was her own business!

"Most of my female classmates had their first love affair in less than half a year after they entered college! Suddenly they moved from the depressing life of high school to college, and they let go all of a sudden! Isn't it?"

Li Xiaofang narrated very patiently.

Song Yingzhuo also nodded no longer resistant, after all, this is all true, and my sister is still a teacher in college, of course, these situations are also very well understood.

"I once had a roommate's boyfriend, who was her brother when she first entered college, and she found it in a hurry when she didn't know her very well. In her boyfriend's heart, she thinks that as long as she goes to class on time every day, she will be responsible for the future, so they quarrel too many times. Every time he said that my roommate girl was unreasonable, and took his classmates as an example: You see that people are also in love like that, how can you toss, you want this and that every day, why didn't you find out that you were so vain before falling in love. ”

Song Yingzhuo objected a little unapprovingly, "Your roommates are indeed a little too comparable, people are different! It's good to live their own lives! Why compare with others?"

Li Xiaofang looked at her sister with some disappointment, shook her head, and said, "Of course, there are many differences between people and people, but there are also many similar needs! If you don't fight, how can you go to college and other classmates don't? Why can you go to the ideal university and many people don't? If you don't compete with the people in front of you, you have a wide horizon, and you are ready to fight with the whole world! There is no happiness in this world that can be easily obtained without fighting or grabbing!"

Song Yingzhuo was a little unconvinced, but she didn't know how to refute it, she did understand some truths, but if she was asked to admit defeat like this, she was still a little unwilling!

Li Xiaofang didn't say to teach her sister again, after all, some truths still hope that she can understand them by herself, but it is best not to comprehend them in practice, otherwise it will really become "what a painful comprehension"!

"My roommate's boyfriend is not motivated and blames her for her vanity? They are all classmates, some of them study hard to prepare for the graduate school entrance examination, some prepare other knowledge that may be needed in the future, or some classmates go to participate in social practice, and they can earn money and exercise their abilities. And what about her boyfriend? From the moment they realized that they had broken up, they didn't learn or do anything except for a fixed professional course, but just waited quietly and steadily for a job assignment after graduation. What does this look like a young man in his early twenties? It's clearly an old man who is about to retire!"

Song Yingzhuo said with some disapproval, "In fact, most of the students are not like this? No matter how toss they are in school, they still don't have to be teachers honestly after graduation?

Li Xiaofang said very seriously, "That's a big difference? If you don't work hard when you're young, what can you do if something happens in the future? For example, if you buy a house, your children go to school, or the elderly get sick, who can guarantee that you won't have any accidents in your life? When the time comes, let's talk about it again? It's too late! If a person doesn't accumulate in normal times, and he has something to do temporarily, who has how much he can do?"

"Well, these are indeed problems, but even if you think about how to solve them now, isn't it too early? After all, you have just entered college, and you still have a lot of time to think about these problems, and slowly accumulate experience, learn and grow!"

Song Yingzhuo has already agreed with her this time, after all, her family situation is not particularly good, although her parents also have jobs, but the income is not very good, not to mention in Chang'an, even in the county is average, thanks to the coal industry has begun to boom in recent years, their hometown has also begun to have a lot of coal mines, the benefits have gradually improved, and other industries have begun to rise. Their parents' salaries were not only paid on time, but also had a lot of bonuses! If it had been a few years ago, how could she have lived so chicly?

Seeing that her sister had gradually ceased to be resistant, Li Xiaofang was also a little happy. After all, she is her own sister, and she is of course very willing to help her! However, we also need to pay attention to ways and means for the education of young women and young men now! Just like our own students, the rebellious psychology is very serious, and if we don't pay attention to it, we may not only fail to achieve the effect, but also may stimulate them to act more irrationally!

The concept of rubbing against her sister has changed, and she needs to be given some more fierce medicine!

But boys of his type often lack a sense of responsibility, and their slogans are to live in the present! Get by, and be happy every day! They have little plan for their future, and they have no ideas. If you say it well, you will be at peace with what you encounter, and if you say it badly, you will be irresponsible to yourself! How can such a boy be responsible for the girl with whom he is in love?"

Song Yingzhuo's face was a little unsightly, she didn't have the ease she had before, obviously she really understood! Sitting on the sofa without saying a word, holding a cup of tea, her eyes were straight, some thinking, some tangled, a little hateful, and a little disappointed!

Li Xiaofang looked at her sister's face, it was like the weather in March, it changed when it was said, and it was sunny and cloudy, blowing a wind from time to time, and occasionally gloomy, like a storm was coming!

Although she didn't say it, Li Xiaofang understood that her vaccination was still late!

"Alas, what should come will come, and who can really stop it?"

Li Xiaofang sighed unconsciously in her heart!