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Beanie:

Mommy's cutie!

When my mother wrote this letter to you today, I felt very sad and heavy! Tears almost burst out of my eyes!

Why?

Mom sees you running around every day to go to school, every day she sees you hurrying to complete so many homework -- almost every day is a whole night of homework and you have to be constantly urged by your mother! I see your childish and innocent smile lost in the impatience and reproach of your mother; that day my mother saw you come home after being criticized by the teacher for your own mistakes, tired, gloomy, frightened, and sad...... Mom's heart is broken!

Because the person who feels sorry for you in the world and doesn't want you to suffer is your mother! Mother had a belief when you were not born: I want my child to be the happiest and happiest person in the world! As a mother, I will definitely make her a healthy, happy and happy child!

Mom was very touched when she saw the piece of paper you pasted on the door, "Forever and Forever, Be Happy"! How many times did a mother reflect on herself: How much happiness and happiness have I given my child? What kind of impact has my behavior had on my child? What feelings do I give her?...... Mom keeps thinking and groping, hoping to do what I have always believed: let my child become a happy, healthy and happy child!

Mom deeply understands and knows the rules of society: When you go to junior high school, when you enter adolescence and grow up, you have to face the pressure of studying and a lot of burdens and responsibilities! Mom always wants you to have a relaxed and happy childhood! So Mom didn't enroll you in an interest class like other parents.

Mom doesn't want you to be overweight at a young age! The only way to play table tennis is that Mom has carefully chosen for you for three reasons:

1. Your athletic ability needs to be improved, and your body's coordination and flexibility also need to be improved;

2. You are born a left-handed, and your mother allows you to practice with your right hand to develop your left brain, because left-handers have a developed right brain, and developing your left brain means that you have half more brains to think and solve problems.

3. Playing table tennis can not only improve your reflexes, but also make you keep your eyes on one goal - the ball!

Mom hopes that after reading this letter, you can understand the importance of playing ball and your mother's good intentions and no longer mention the topic of not wanting to play, so as to use your brain to find a way to play well!

Mom received complaints from teachers one after another, and Mom felt very sad - for you to not manage yourself well!

Children, people must live in society, you are now in school, as a member of the class this collective, all the discipline and rules of the class must be unconditionally observed!

In the future, it is the same to go to work after school, and you must abide by the rules and regulations of a collective.

Think about it, if all the students in a class play as they want, can they still go to class and learn?!If all the teachers and students in a school do not follow the discipline: late arrival, early departure, no class, no reasonable schedule... Can a school still be a school?

These mothers are not blaming you, I want you to understand a truth: no matter what kind of environment you are in, you must abide by its discipline!

My mother's mood is very bad these days, because my mother is a strong person, and she has never been criticized for her bad work.

Besides, my daughter, who has always been a proud mother -- because of your little fault! You yourself said that you can't "lose a big one because of a small thing", and my mother believes that you understand. The key is to strengthen your ability to control yourself.

Mom and Teacher Criticize YouMom wants you to understand - because we love you and want you to be better. Maybe sometimes the tone is a little heavier, but Mom also hopes that you will understand the good intentions of Mom and the teacher, and actively cooperate!

Your little problem is playing and talking in class. Then we will overcome it with a purpose.

1. Play things in class: If you don't have anything at hand during class, don't you stop playing? Before class, you clean up the desktop, only put the necessary textbooks and stationery, and limit the conditions for your own play.

2. Speech: The teacher asks the teacher to speak actively when speaking, and does not let the mouth be closed when speaking. Say it when you should say it, say it out loud, and don't say a word when you shouldn't!

Mom believes you can do it. You say, "You can't become a fat man by eating one bite," but you have to understand: A fat man eats one bite at a time! If you don't overcome these little problems, they will keep devouring you, a pillar of talent that could have become a great weapon, like termites! There is a proverb that says: A thousand-mile embankment collapses in an anthill, and this is the truth!

"Three Character Classic" says: People don't know righteousness if they don't learn, and jade can't be cut without a tool.

Mom hopes that you can understand the truth through the strict requirements of the teacher and the painstaking persuasion of your mother.

I can also experience the teacher's mood of "hating iron but not steel" and my mother's distress and love for you!

At home, your mother's yelling and reproaching you are all in preparation for you not to be criticized by outsiders, you must not only realize in your heart that you are a wise, successful, reasonable, and excellent child, but also to overcome all the problems that are not conducive to your own success in action, and strive to do your best!

Teachers don't ask too much of you, they just ask you to follow the discipline you should follow and the homework you should complete as a student.

You can cope with this more than enough! So why not do it well?

Mom actually knows that you are a strong, competitive child, sometimes you can't do well in the exam, Mom can see your sadness from your little face, but the key to the problem is to improve the cause of the problem!

Is it because you are not serious in the exam? You don't listen carefully in class? You talk too much in class with small movements? All these are the reasons for your bad grades, have you analyzed them? Have you corrected them? Be a person with ambition and backbone! Do your best to show your teachers and classmates! The key is that you have the ability to do a good job!

Last time's "Itchy Powder" and this time's "Little Sparrow" mother can understand your innocence and innocence. But you have to understand: when to do something, what to do and what not to do!

Although your mother can understand you, she still criticizes you if you do something you shouldn't do or do something inappropriate at the wrong time.

I hope you can understand: you have to adapt to your living and learning environment, and also understand your mother's sadness and helplessness.

Child, from now on, mom will work with you to overcome your little faults and make you a child with more than just excellent grades. All right?

Yesterday, Mom put a 57.5-point test paper on your door to see that you had answered half of the little sparrow, and Mom didn't see that you were ashamed of its existence! Why? Child, don't you feel anything about it, don't regret it, don't embarrass it, child, it's a shame mark on you!

Child, you have all the conditions to become a great tool, such as wisdom, such as calmness, such as generosity, such as hands-on ability, you have quick thinking, and a wide range of knowledge...... These are your big advantages! Mom doesn't want your little problems to stop you from becoming a talent! Son, let's work together! Start with specific little things:

1. Actively and conscientiously complete all homework assigned by the teacher. Don't play with things while doing homework.

2. Manage your own life and study, such as preparing clothes, school bags, and water for the next day.

3. Study, eat and sleep on time.

4. Play at least three days a week on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays, and you can play at will on Saturdays and Sundays.

5. Read a lot of books to expand your knowledge and exercise your thinking.

6. The most important thing: be strict with yourself when you go to school - do not play things in class, do not talk nonsense, do not talk to each other, actively participate in class activities, unite classmates, and respect teachers!

Your 10th birthday is approaching, and Mom has made your wish to go to KFC to celebrate.

Mom also bought a set of "Happy Growth" series of books for you, Mom hopes that you can study and be a down-to-earth person!

Mom doesn't want you to learn the vanity, impetuousness, and hippie of today's children! Because you are different from others, you were born in an intellectual family, your parents are well educated, we have excellent character, you have the genes and environment to become talented, you must be strict with yourself, and you must not be careless!

Mom has heard you say many times that you envy a classmate's talent.

In fact, children, everyone's innate quality and acquired conditions are different, some people have the talent of an artist, while some people are the minds of scientists! Do what you are good at, appreciate the strengths of others, why not?

Let a singer go on a scientific experiment -- is it possible? Let a scientist go on stage -- it's weird not to faint?!

Therefore, the ancients said: 360 lines, the line is the champion! What it says is: let the right person do what he is good at in order to get ahead!

Don't be arrogant for no reason, and don't be reckless and self-indulgent! As you grow up and overcome your own little faults, your academic superiority will be revealed! At that time, everyone will envy you! The key is -- you must not "lose the big because of a small thing"!

Doesn't Dad often say that "details determine success or failure"? Mom hopes that you can understand your parents' good intentions and grow up healthy and happy!

Mom

2009.12.10