14. Children can only meet their needs when they have them, and do not cramming education
My daughter has been able to express her thoughts and wishes accurately. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
At noon the day before yesterday, Doudou didn't sleep alone to play with Jizhu, and after being carried to bed by me, she was very bored, and threw her small pillow around, I said: "You don't sleep, what are you fanning around?"
It also included dissatisfaction with her father's request for her to take a nap.
Last night, when I put Doudou to sleep, she started talking again, telling stories for a while, singing for a while, and I pretended to be asleep.
She shouted, "Mom, why do you think Nanhu Park is smaller?" I just dealt with her in a daze, "um" and "oh", and my daughter suddenly said, "I ask you a question!
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Last night, Doudou dreamed and cried: "I don't want you! I don't want you!
She must have dreamed again that her mother had asked her to do something she didn't want to do. But every mother has to teach her children the rules of life, there are no rules!
It is best if the child's natural freedom is not harmed.
I remember that before Doudou was two years old, I would say every day when I went to bed: "Doudou is sleepy, I'm going to sleep, Doudou squints and sleeps, the little angel is coming!"
In the morning, Doudou said that the bag of "Shanghaojia" was potato chips, and told me while shaking: "Mom, listen to the sound of potato chips!"
I said, "I can't hear it, I can only eat it." β
She ignored me and said, "Mom, your ears are really hot!"
Hahaha - June 6, 2003
My daughter didn't eat well in kindergarten yesterday, but her stomach was swollen like a bulge, because she didn't have Laba the day before yesterday. I came back in the evening and ate something, drank milk and went to Lababa, and my stomach was much more relaxed. I rubbed her belly before going to bed at night, she said that her left lower abdomen hurt, I asked her to touch the baba in her small intestine by herself, she said, "Mom, so much baba!"
I told her, "You have to pull and pee in time, because it's all garbage, and if you accumulate too much, you'll have a stomachache, and it's bad for your body! You can see how bad it is when you look at the garbage in the bin! You have to be a clean, healthy child, don't you?"
Doudou replied, "Well, you see that I didn't have a stomachache today? β
The child should teach in time when she realizes mistakes and hurts, and give her the right concept guidance. So that the mistakes of the past are not repeated.
Doudou got up at six o'clock in the morning and shouted, "Mom and Dad, the sun is shining on the buttocks!"
After that, I went to the study to read by myself.
My daughter likes to learn, has a good memory, and can memorize the nursery rhymes taught by the teacher word for word. When I came back with the book on Sunday, the nursery rhymes that the teacher had not taught were also read by virtue of my ability to look at pictures and imagine and recognize some words. After I taught it once or twice, she memorized almost all the more than 30 children's songs.
I have never taught my daughter knowledge like cramming, I want her to learn naturally, and only teach her when she has such a need, and learn according to her interest, then learning is a kind of enjoyment, otherwise cramming education is a kind of torture for children, which will weaken children's enthusiasm for learning.
For Doudou's strong desire for knowledge, I systematically called my daughter some knowledge, such as: simple astronomy and geography, natural knowledge, fairy tales and fables, idiom stories, English stories, and some simple mathematical knowledge.
On Sundays, I go to the bookstore to buy books on this subject and teach my child if she is interested.
The idioms and stories that have been told are: the fox and the fake tiger, the poor skills of the donkey, the sheep and the sheep, the finishing touch, the snake is added, the north and the south, the boat is carved for the sword, the ears are covered and the bell is stolen, the seedlings are pulled, the rabbit is guarded, the horse is lost, the foolish man moves the mountain, the Jingwei reclamation, the Ye Gong is a good dragon, the contradiction is self-contradictory, the number is indiscriminate, and the crime of Jing is invited.
Every time I tell a story, Doudou will use my own thinking to analyze it, and ask what is going on.
For example, she was very strange: "Mom, the sheep are all lost, what are you doing if you don't have a sheepfold?"
I told her, "Is there anything left of the sheep that has been lost, and what has been lost cannot be recovered, so should the rest be protected?