202. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world
When I was a child, I was a very obedient child, and I would definitely listen to what I was told, and I never doubted or went against my will. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
After the third-grade dad had an accident and left, although I was actively adjusting the child's psychology and trying not to put pressure on the child, this incident and her slowly entering adolescence began to rebel, as if I wanted to taste everything that my mother had repeatedly forbidden to eat, and I was not allowed to do everything once. The result of this is to mess up the good body and good habits that my mother has carefully raised for many years.
Even if the first menstrual period comes, there is no physical discomfort with the careful care of my mother, two or three years are regular and healthy menstrual cycles, but in the last year or so, I began to have dysmenorrhea, the reasons for this, I have summarized a few:
1. Usually when I am at school, although I give enough money for food, the little guy does not go to the cafeteria to eat, and often eats outside. For example, all kinds of milk tea and other drinks, spicy strips, all kinds of noodles and fast food, and these are all I try to prevent children from eating, we all know that these things are extremely unclean and hygienic, are made of garbage, or add various illegal additives. But many children love to eat it, because these things are done to add a very attractive taste. I also eat all kinds of cold drinks, and I often eat cold things.
2. Sleep time, irregular work and rest time, when I was in junior high school, I always did homework until midnight, and I didn't go to bed in time after midnight, and I often had to play with my mobile phone for a while. Changes in the regularity of life also lead to physiological changes.
3. Do not pay attention to the maintenance of the menstrual period. I repeatedly told my child that he should not do strenuous exercise during his menstrual period, but this child did not take it seriously at all, and still participated in all the sports in physical education class.
Every time I have a period, it is extremely uncomfortable, but as long as this day passes, this child who lacks nerves will still go his own way, and every time I feel uncomfortable, I will explain the reason again, but with little effect.
This month, I have been extremely restricting her diet, and she should have a regular routine at school, and the situation has improved slightly. Yesterday I was uncomfortable again, I nagged again, worried that I would fall into such a problem, how would it be good to change it like this every month for the rest of my life?
I sent her to school in the evening, and I was very worried in my heart, telling her to put the mattress under the mattress, and that the weather would turn cold and she could no longer spread the mat, and that she should keep warm during her period. She was too lazy to talk about it, and she was worried that she would have to wash the dirty sheets.
The little pot friend sat in the back of the car and asked, "Why don't you make a sound?"
I said, "Since you don't listen to what your mother tells you, and you want to be uncomfortable, what else do I say? What's the point? You're not small anymore, so take care of a lot of things by yourself. Although my mother can't bear to suffer any sins from you, if you don't listen to me, I can't help it, I can't follow you all the time, even if I follow you, it's useless if you don't listen, and if you don't feel sick and uncomfortable, and are willing to try all kinds of discomfort and discomfort, I really can't help it. ”
"Mom, no, it's not that I don't listen to you, in fact, it's nothing, I'm not cold with a thick quilt. Bean Kid explained.
"It's good if it's not cold. "I'm too lazy to say anything more.
Along the way, the little pot friend chattered all the way.
Alas, it is very tiring to raise a child alone!