089, love is just a mirage

Cheng Feng is about to be forced to go to Liangshan now, in this family, Tang Xiao and Cheng Meng can't speak, and the only one who can help him is Cheng Lie, who is the eldest brother.

But do you want to help him? What is the most correct way for Cheng Feng? Cheng Lie is not sure now. On the one hand, he is also the same as Cheng's mother, hoping that Cheng Feng will find a reliable girl to marry as soon as possible, on the other hand, he doesn't want Cheng Feng to be forced too much, or hopes that it is best for Cheng Feng to fall in love freely, so that the atmosphere at home will be better in the future, and Cheng Feng's life will be happier, but is it possible to expect Cheng Feng to find a good family by himself to meet Cheng's mother's wishes?

The celebrities in Chengbei have their eyes above the top, their identities are valuable, and they are not very good, and I am afraid that they are not very much regarded as the children of the game world like Cheng Feng.

Cheng Lie wrinkled his eyebrows and thought for a while, and said to Cheng Feng: "Don't compete with your mother, be polite to other girls at the dinner table later." ”

Cheng Feng said depressedly: "Brother...... I really don't want to accept this kind of arranged marriage. ”

Cheng Lie frowned: "No one said that you must be allowed to marry her, if you have a bad character and come from the wrong way, I won't let her enter the door." ”

Cheng Feng shouted: "Then what if there is no problem with one's character and family background?

Cheng Lie said: "There is no problem with character and family background, and it is not a loss for you to marry her." ”

Cheng Feng almost cried: "I thought brother, you were a strong supporter of the freedom of marriage, and you were also on our mother's side for a long time." There are more women with good character and good paths, and I have to marry any one I bring here?

Cheng Lie took a sip of tea and said, "Cheng Feng, you are not young, it's time to get married."

It's not young, it's time to get married - now I don't know how many people in society have found someone to pull a certificate because of this confusion.

When I was studying, my family was in charge of it, and I was not allowed to fall in love, and I was not allowed to fall in love, and love affected my studies, and bad students fell in love. Don't fall in love for the sake of your future.

As soon as you graduate and step into society, you will be urged to marry immediately.

It's time to get married. Other people's children are married, why don't you get married?

Don't pick and choose, no one else picks, why do you choose? Who do you live with for a lifetime? Just be right, no one in the past advocated any freedom of marriage and freedom of love, and the parents of both parties agreed to get married, and they didn't have children for a lifetime?

It seems to be reasonable, and no one can refute it, so there is really only one way to get married. After being unhappy in marriage, he was immediately forced to listen to new teachings.

Why is it that everyone else is doing well, and the children have been born and there is no divorce, why are you getting a divorce? With such a big person, what can't you bear? How big of a contradiction can there be between husband and wife, and how much contradiction can there be that you have to break up a marriage? How ugly is a divorce, how can you go out to meet people in the future?

So, it's better to make do with so-so. This is not necessarily a way to live.

The above can be summarized as most people's marriages, but as long as Cheng Feng makes up for himself to embark on this road in the future, he feels hairy.

It's terrible, if life can be improvised, what's the difference between being a pig and being a pig?

Cheng Feng said: "Big brother, I, Cheng Feng, will never marry someone I don't love in my life." ”

Cheng Feng, who has always been a hippie smile, is rarely serious, and his voice is not as high as usual, as if he is laughing at any time, these two sentences are really calm, not like Cheng Feng, but like Cheng Lie.

In fact, Cheng Feng has no object to refer to in terms of being a person, so he is very casual and has been an idler for more than 20 years. Then he has no choice other than Chenglie who can be used for reference in front of him.

Cheng Lie sat there and listened to Cheng Feng say such a sentence, and felt a little relieved, he could say this kind of thing, at least he looked like an adult. It's just that Cheng Feng can only talk about it at present, everything in the world is the same, it's easier said than done, and it's hard to do, he Cheng Lie married a person he loves, and his life can't be completely smooth, and he is always worried about losing Tang Xiao, let alone Cheng Feng.

In front of Cheng's mother, Cheng Feng had no strength to resist at all.

Cheng Lie was thinking about how to say it so that Cheng Feng would not be too disappointed, and Cheng Meng, who had been sitting on the side and playing with his mobile phone for a long time without saying a word, opened his mouth.

"Second brother, why did you tell me a few days ago? Cheng Meng said with a pair of big black and white eyes.

Cheng Feng was stunned: "What did I say?"

"Find the right person, otherwise, with your current consumption level, who can afford to support you? You find a poor boy, even if he struggles all his life, he can only buy a 120-square-meter house in Chengbei, but what about you, you were born to live in a villa, you have a driver when you go out, a row of cars in the garage for you to pick up, a good mood to change the color of a day and drive enough, can the poor boy afford a car in our garage? You can't endure hardship, don't struggle, find someone with the same conditions as our family, and I can take care of you for a lifetime in the future. ”

Cheng Meng imitated Cheng Feng's tone and said in one breath, and said to the stunned Cheng Feng, "Second brother, I will give you the same words, and ah, I am a girl, I can have my own job when I get married, but the burden on my body is not as heavy as that of men, after all, the mainstream values of society are still that men are responsible for making money to support their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers, but what about you, second brother? If you marry your girlfriend, do you still expect to rely on your family for the rest of your life?" If our mother doesn't beat you to death, forget it, if you don't say it, she will cut off your financial resources and sweep you out of the house, you won't just wait for the eldest brother to support you, right? Don't tease, second brother, you are a few years older than me, I am an adult this year, you will run for three years in a few years, right? But you ask yourself, can you make money to support your family? Second brother, you graduated from the history department of Chengbei University, what are you going to do?"

"Archaeology or museumkeepers? Well, even if you could do those jobs, would you make enough money a month to spend? Second brother, don't forget, you can eat a meal for thousands of yuan, you usually pick everything, food, clothing, housing and transportation, the cost is more than me and my sister-in-law combined, the clothes are not handmade by the famous Italian designer Fellaini, and the restaurants that eat are in Chengbei to queue up and have a membership card to enter, live in a villa that is more beautiful than the scenic area and has no haze or car exhaust pollution, and the car is basically changed on a whim, and the Lamborghini, Porsche, Lotus and so on in the garage are all bought by you. ”

"Second brother, do you dare to tell our mother that you don't want anything but freedom and love, can you leave all this and go to your girlfriend without hesitation? The character is simple, from a scholarly family, and she never cares about material life, but, second brother, can you bear to watch her live that kind of life with you?"

"If you don't use skin care products of the quality of La Mer, you can't wear clothes at the price of Chanel, you can't sit in a Lamborghini, you don't have anyone to pick you up and drop you off from work, you squeeze the bus and the subway to work every day, you have a face of domestic beauty on your face, you rub Maybelline on your lips all day long, and you are wearing Ayilian on your body, can she still be the same woman? Can you still be as beautiful as a flower in the eyes of the second brother and have an elegant little woman's breath? In other words, can you look at a woman with vulgar taste in the second brother? We always say that we don't have taste, but if we don't have money, can we still maintain that kind of petty bourgeois life?"

Cheng Feng was stunned when he heard this, he couldn't come back to his senses for a long time, he couldn't make a sound when he opened his mouth, he had to admit that he was shocked by this little sister Cheng Meng who he didn't know anything.

In his impression, he had never heard Cheng Meng say so many words at one time, he knew that Cheng Meng liked to sit in his room and read books when he was fine, and sometimes he would think about some problems silently by himself, but he didn't expect Cheng Meng to think so deeply.

And the words she used to educate her before were returned to her by her even more severely.

For a while, Cheng Feng's mood was very complicated, his brain was blank, and he completely lost the ability to organize language.

It's messy...... I wanted to say a lot of things, and I wanted to refute Cheng Meng and teach this little girl a lesson, but he sadly found that he didn't seem to have any position to argue with Cheng Meng.

He was a real failure. For more than 20 years, I have been living in a mess, and I have never thought about what kind of life I want, I only know how to enjoy life. He thought that life could be like this forever for him, let him do whatever he wanted, and as long as he wanted, he must get it. But when he was caught off guard, life slapped him hard.

Cheng Lie was also surprised that Cheng Meng would say these words, in his mind, Cheng Meng was still a very little girl, simple and straightforward, with clear love and hate.

didn't expect that she had reached the age of thinking about reality, and the issues she considered were even more comprehensive than Cheng Feng.

Cheng Lie knows that Cheng Meng's love affair was cut off by his mother, it seems that setbacks are indeed easy to make people grow, but if he can, he hopes that Cheng Meng doesn't have to go through those sad things, and can fall in love and get married smoothly, always under his protection.

He looked at the girl sitting on the sofa opposite, after she said those words in one breath, her fair cheeks were slightly red, and there was a look of confusion and excitement in her eyes, she didn't know what the consequences of what she said, but she didn't care to vent it, her performance, even she was surprised.

Cheng Lie comforted: "Mengmeng, you are right. Without enough economic foundation to support, love is just a mirage. ”

Suddenly affirmed, Cheng Meng's lips trembled slightly, and she suddenly lowered her head.

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