Yesterday, I saw a 35-year-old Beijing woman from the Central Radio Station killing her mother, handcuffed and shackled, sitting calmly in front of the interrogator, and when the interrogator asked her if she regretted killing her mother, she replied very indifferently: No regrets. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

She said calmly: This thought has been thought many times, either she dies or I die. I failed to kill myself several times, so I had to kill her.

The reason for the story is not to be said for the time being, but this incident has to make people think deeply, what makes a daughter kill her mother so cruelly without regret?

But to see her devastated and vulnerable in the face of her father is a very different performance.

Whatever the reason, it's a complete tragedy!

This incident made me think a lot more, and children in today's era of social change need more spiritual care.

Today's utilitarian society, schools, and parents' education of children will inevitably destroy children's fragile hearts even more.

Yesterday I watched "Family Humor Video", and I also saw a very cute little girl, born in a musical family, I like the piano very much, but the child is 7 years old, and her parents have not taught her piano, but she is growing up freely, and asked her mother why she has not learned piano at the age of 7.

I was very touched by my mother's answer: the child's happiness is very important, and now her personality is not very determined, I want her to play well first, and then learn after her personality is stable, so she is not in a hurry.

In the face of my child's high school entrance examination this year, I am somewhat worried and under some pressure, but the bean child is living a good life and is not nervous at all.

I haven't been too utilitarian about my child's education, and I've always hoped that my child will grow up freely and easily, but the reality should also be considered, and the future achievements and actions seem to teach children to think.

Because it is a person who grows up with a child, everything has to be faced, thought and dealt with by himself, and no one can bear and share it together, which is difficult!

Sometimes I am a little harsh on children who are slow and procrastinating, but yesterday I saw two very different extreme cases, which touched me a lot.

I began to think that it is best to give my child a feeling of mother's love and warmth, to express the love in my heart in a loving and gentle way, and to be less strict and less impatient.

Yesterday, the bean child came back from make-up class and shouted as usual: Mom, I'm back.

I replied: Oh, welcome, welcome, warm welcome!

Dou Kid was surprised: Mom, why are you different today?

I asked: How is it different?

Bean Kid: You usually just say oh, but today you have a lot of welcome.

Hehehe, you've made up for a day's lessons, you've worked hard, and your mother wants to welcome you.

The bean kid is very happy.

In fact, many times, as a parent's starting point and intentions, it is all good love for their children, but Chinese parents are mostly strict and restrained, so that children can not feel more love. So some children are prone to extremes.

From now on, I am committed to being a loving mother all my life.