Doudou participated in the election for class president and was not elected. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

The teacher may want to be for her, and she has been acting as the class president a week ago, but Doudou is "immature".

She took back the small gifts she had given to the children, so fewer children chose her.

Doudou's strength may also be that he will not be able to observe words and feelings, and he will not please others.

Later, I chose a sports committee member, and I could see it myself, and it didn't matter.

It seems that Doudou's mentality is better than mine--things are done seriously, and the results are not too cared.

I am very happy to see her like this: my education is a success!2007/3/20

Doudou already knows how to care about people.

I had a cold on Friday, and on Saturday I asked her to go to Qingqing's house to find food.

I picked her up in the evening, and when I went upstairs, Doudou naturally asked, "Mom, are you feeling better?" I said better, but my head still hurts, and Doudou said, "Then let's see what kind of medicine to take." Maybe it's still a cold, and it doesn't matter. "She has begun to care about her mother in her heart!2007/3/26

Doudou has been dragging on lately, and my patience is not enough!

Sometimes I'm in a hurry, and Doudou will be coquettish: Mom, isn't she angry! Mom! Mom! I have to put down my angry face.

Later, I would think to myself that there was no need to ask her so much, how good it would be to let her spend her childhood freely, why should I make her so nervous? 2007－4－4

Yesterday, when I was about to get off work, the leader called a meeting and held it until after work.

I hurried home, and I actually forgot all about Doudou's interest class! I thought she had gone to Qingqing's house. I bought fruits and vegetables and went home, cooked and ate alone, and halfway through eating, the doorbell rang, and I was still thinking that it must be Doudou's classmates who came to ask for homework.

When I opened the door, I saw Doudou!

Mom forgot to pick up Doudou! The child waited for almost two hours at school.

Doudou said: "I waited for a long time at school, but I didn't see my mother come to pick me up, so I walked back by myself. ”

Doudou didn't feel aggrieved or afraid, he just wanted to cry a little, but it passed all of a sudden.

Thinking about the child waiting for so long at school alone and then walking back alone, it is very unbearable to be a mother.

It seems that Doudou is much more capable than I imagined! In the future, I will have to give Doudou more space and freedom to do things on his own.

I can no longer be protected under my wing, in fact, the child is capable!

Yesterday's grade performance, there were only 6 children in the Doudou class, and Doudou was one of them.

In contact with the teacher, I also learned that Doudou is more capable than I thought!

Perhaps, having a gentle lover who knows and cherishes each other, and having an excellent and capable daughter, is the greatest happiness in my life!

I called my dad and told him about it, he said: "Doudou is very capable, people have grown up, you have to look at people like a big child in the future, don't shout loudly, people already have their own ideas and practices." ”

Yes, the child is growing up, and it is time for me to do something on my own. 2007－4－12

Doudou went to participate in the English competition yesterday, the knowledge of first-grade students is too limited, basically they don't know anything, I asked her father about it, Doudou didn't want to mention it, maybe he also got acquainted.

Doudou has a bad habit that gives me a headache: procrastination and carelessness.

Now it seems that you said you, and she her, ignoring you at all.

I analyzed that the reason may be that I always help her do the things she doesn't do, and then at most she nagging and finishing.

In this way, the child is raised: you will do it for me anyway, as long as I don't do it, no matter how you nag, I don't listen.

From today onwards, I will gradually let go, not to care too much and not to limit too much, until the point is reached!

Let children learn to be independent and responsible!

It may be difficult at first, I have to reason with Dou first, let her demand herself, supervise herself!

When something happens, we should reason with her and let her "bear the consequences"! Slowly cultivate the child's self-reliance.

The overall quality of Doudou is completely self-reliant and self-reliant. I just need to help. I have to grasp my role and not dominate!2007-4-23

Since yesterday, I set out to let Doudou take care of herself, although it was not satisfactory, but after all, it was the beginning, and I always couldn't help but remind her that it was finally done at 11:00, and I turned off the lights and went to bed.

I couldn't help but shout twice when I couldn't get out of bed in the morning, and I wanted to wait until she was late and was criticized by the teacher to see if she would have a long memory.

But she got up at 7:30 to get dressed, wash her face and brush her teeth, finish it at 7:36, drink milk, go out at 7:40, and she wasn't late, it seems that I don't have to worry too much about her, the little guy has his own opinions, and he has his own arrangements!

Step by step, I want to let go and stop arranging, so that children can learn the ability to take care of themselves and survive. I can't deprive my children of their right to grow up with love!

Reducing her dependence is the premise of cultivating children's independent thinking, the main thing is that I have to hold back and persevere, guide her, and strengthen patience without worry. 2007－4－25

Yesterday, Doudou's father came back in the evening, and I never told Doudou that her father came back yesterday.

I want to see how Bean behaves against Daddy's sudden return. When Dou learns that his father will be home soon, he is very happy. She also said to pick it up, but she said that the train was late.

Anxious to give her dad a gift, it's rare to see her so anxious! and wrote a text message to dad:

Dad: I'm so glad you're back so soon! Don't forget to pick me up from school at 4:00 p.m. tomorrow and take the quilt home.

Beanie

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