In 16 years, Bean Child is 16 years old today. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Think about 16 years ago, when the bean child was poor, but the bean child came into this world tenaciously. Her arrival has brought endless joy to us in poverty. At that time, I made up my mind to raise my child and give her love and happiness without being worldly, not for utilitarianism.

At that time, my father was studying for a master's degree, and we had just gotten married, and our living resources were limited, and my grandfather's savings were deducted from my father's previous savings, so life was very poor, and the life pressure of the two of us was very high. But not long after the bean child was born, the nurse brought it to the father, and the father had already coaxed the bean child to be happy one by one.

Watching my dad clumsily feed the beans milk with a small spoon, the beans sucked the milk "squeak", and my dad was happy, and my soul, which was oppressed by the hardships of life, was happier than it had for a long time.

The growth of the bean child is smooth, and under the love of her father and mother, she is growing up very strongly.

The unsuppressed nature and bold feelings that have never been suppressed since childhood are released to the fullest. She has her own ideas and opinions and rarely follows the crowd. It is by no means an obedient child, nor is it a student who bows down to the teacher, therefore, some teachers appreciate the child's atmosphere, open-mindedness, and assertiveness, and some teachers do not like the child's unique personality.

The homeroom teacher who just graduated from college when Douzi was in junior high school was a girl from Liuzhou, who was very tough and very mean to Douzi, which caused a lot of harm to the child. I actually knew it, but I didn't theorize with the teacher about it. When I was a child, I also encountered such a paranoid teacher, and the coldness and deliberate neglect he gave me at that time not only did not suppress my talent, but aroused my infinite fighting spirit. Besides, the character of the bean child will never be destroyed.

I also intend to cultivate children's ability to resist stress and frustration. People live in the world, and there are too many unsatisfactory and bumpy situations. At this time, I can take care of her, protect her, and even dote on her, but if she doesn't have a strong heart and resilience, how will she live without me in the future?

16 years is actually a fleeting time, and it seems that Douzi has grown from an infant baby to a height of 170CM that is half a head taller than me. The twists and turns and disasters I experienced during this period changed the trajectory of my life and that of her.

If Dad is well, Dad is by his side, and he has the same support as Daddy's Mountain, we don't have to bear the hardships of life and the hardships of our souls.

The world is impermanent, so I began to teach my children to face misfortune and to be brave and strong.

Dad has been gone for more than five years, during this time, we have gone from the clear sky without wind and rain into the warm and cold world, although I am trying my best to maintain a way of life that seems to have not changed, but without the care and support of my father, without my father's love and guidance, the growth of the child has been affected.

However, life is like this, everyone has their own life trajectory, and it is really difficult for human power to change. Therefore, only a strong heart, a sound personality, and an open-minded soul can keep oneself from being destroyed by the storm of life.

I don't want my child to have a brilliant life, I just want her to live a healthy, safe, happy and happy life.

Sometimes it is inevitable that I will be a little harsh on my child due to the influence of the world, but this is just that I don't want her to be decadent in life, and I hope she has a serious and positive attitude towards life and learning.

Sometimes I don't want to nag more, I hope that she will grow up slowly, and she can stay one more day and be happy if she doesn't grow up and carefree.

It's been 16 years, for the healthy growth of bean children, what I've paid as a mother is not only about youth and future, but also about endless thinking and even exhaustive plans that only I know. Sometimes I blame myself for not being a perfect mother, but it's hard to think about being able to do my best and be worthy of my heart.

Do you remember that our cute, smart, and beautiful little bean has grown into a slim 16-year-old girl?

The 16-year-old bean child lives in high school, and his birthday can only be celebrated at school. In the evening, a few colleagues and friends brought beans out for a meal to celebrate, and I brought a cake for my children to share with my dormitory classmates. In the future, there will be fewer and fewer opportunities for me to accompany and participate in my children's birthdays. When the child grows up, the day of flying away is also close at hand. My responsibilities seem to be accomplished.

At the age of 16, my bean child, little hairy, mom wishes you a lifetime of health, a lifetime of peace, a lifetime of joy, a long life, and a life of worry-free.

Happy 16th birthday to my beloved daughter!