One, two, one, the girl in the flower season
Doudou's second year of junior high school has started again, and I asked her to sort out the textbooks and learning materials for the first year of junior high school before the start of school, and sort out the materials and utensils needed for the new school year, and put them away separately. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 Although it took two days of hard work, I still did it according to my instructions.
I should let her take care of her own affairs and let her walk on her own. She has the ability to take care of herself, and it has always been my big bag that has hindered her growth.
Although I want to dot on her all the time, I think about the most carefree in life, and in childhood, I deserve to be cared for by my parents without having to carry heavy burdens. If the child is young and bears a lot of life, I am reluctant!
I remember that my childhood was also raised under the meticulous care of my mother, and my friends said that I would spoil bad children, but I was not spoiled badly, and my children of course became sensible when they changed their sensibility, and her generosity and kindness were innate, and I couldn't overdo it.
Some necessary exercise was still needed, and this morning I forced her to drag the quilt to school on her bicycle. Although she repeatedly resisted and made many excuses, and begged me to bring it for her, I did not agree. Although I was worried that she would be criticized by the teacher because the quilt there would affect the class appearance, I still believe that she has the ability to deal with such a thing.
Doudou's ability to do things and communicate with people is still very strong, and his personality is also very strong.
I've been seldom blaming her lately, and I've basically taken a sheep-herding approach. One is that Doudou is in adolescence now, and no amount of reasoning and preaching is useless, I just do what I should do well, slowly lead by example, and slowly accompany and wait for her to pass this period safely.
Last week, she was angry because she went to meet some netizens privately to buy and sell some anime products. I was worried about her safety, but she still didn't care. I can't reach a consensus on such a thing, so I can only remind and analyze the risk factors, and I have no other way to stop her behavior, but to tell her to think more about everything. This child has been very sensitive to business and money since she was a child, and may be a business material in the future, but I have never encouraged or deliberately indifferent her budding interest, I think that no matter what professional career she will be in the future, a considerable cultural foundation and cultural accomplishment are necessary. Otherwise, if there is only money left in life, what is the meaning of life?
In the past few days, I have been watching Chi Li's "Li", in which the concept of parenting is what I have always adhered to, but now without the support of my father, I dare not relax too much on the requirements for children's grades. Although success in life is not determined by academic performance, today's education cannot be completely abandoned. And take your time, and don't become its slave.
Doudou is now 166 tall, and he is simply a big man compared to me! Big head, strong body, tall man, thick eyebrows and big eyes, happy all day long, everything does not stay in his heart for a long time, sometimes I really envy this heartless child.
When I reached the age of "worrying about the new words", I began the time of the girl in the flower season, and I hope that the children will come beautifully!2013.9.3