21. The spirit of Ah Q

Today is my daughter's fifth birthday, and five years ago today, I gave birth to my daughter in an embarrassing and helpless living situation. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

It's been five years, life is getting better day by day, and my daughter has grown up.

But in the past five years, my mental journey has been unbearable to look back on - very difficult and difficult!

Now, my daughter is sensible, and she goes to school with a schoolbag on her back, and she announces early in the morning: "Today I am five years old!"

How did I know this birthday in my little heart, maybe it is a kind of expectation for growing up and growing up!

With the growth of my daughter, I also transitioned from an angular person to today's "burnout", and I don't know whether it is progress or regression.

Anyway, the days are spent in peace, and when I think about the future days and the education of my daughter's growth, I will be very calm, and I am destined to change things in my life, and I don't allow you to change, "Everyone has a life, everyone has a life!"

The "quietness" and "determination" in her daughter's personality may be an innate foundation for her future success in life, and it cannot but be said to be a good quality.

Although in the eyes of ordinary people, sometimes she doesn't get along with some specific things, but I don't force her to change much, so that her nature will not be changed by the world.

Physical and mental health is sufficient! We must not let her grow up in youth and old age, and she must not be dogmatic and mechanical!

I try my best to let her live her own childhood according to her own ideas, not to suppress her passion, not to follow the crowd, not to be "popularized", to appreciate her personality, and to encourage her to have self-knowledge and self-literacy.

Hold up a free sky and give a bright and relaxed environment for Doudou to grow freely!

I hope that my five-year-old daughter will have her own happy life even more!2004, 12, 16 Thursday cloudy

Yesterday I made dumplings, and my daughter was on the side to help.

It used to be "elephant ears", but now she has started to pack "ingots", her daughter is very smart, she can learn as soon as she teaches, but she doesn't look very good-looking, and she also "laughs at herself": "Hey, it's a mess." ”

My daughter suddenly said to me seriously, "Mom, what a bad dumpling wrapper you rolled!" I said, "Why?" "Look at none of them are round, all of them are square and long......"

I said, "You're too faceless, aren't you?" It doesn't matter if it's square or round, you can make dumplings and eat them!"

My daughter didn't "criticize" me anymore, she made 12 dumplings for herself, and when she ate them, she said that they were delicious!

It's a new year, and my daughter is looking forward to the publication she ordered to be sent out as soon as possible, and she has been talking about it for a few days, and I don't know if it will be sent today.

If you don't send it, your daughter should be disappointed. However, the daughter is very good at adjusting her emotions, rarely depressed, and will find reasons and justifications for all kinds of bad things in a few minutes. This is very good, and life will be more relieved. 2005、1、4

Last night was terrible, because of a kindergarten teacher's stiff complaint, then Doudou Laba into his pants, and then I poured out the water from the electric hot water bottle and replaced it with new water, which broke the hot water bottle.

2005, 1, 18

On April 16th, Doudou lost her first baby tooth, which fell out when her daughter was gnawing on an orange, it had been loose for a few days, and Doudou threw it in the trash, and I picked it up again, put it together with her fetal hair, and handed it to her as a souvenir when she grew up.

Daughter's lost teeth left a gap, she doesn't want people to say, she doesn't think it's beautiful, when others say, she will put her small mouth high, squint her eyes, express her displeasure, her hands on her waist, look angry, it's cute!

Since the first 2 weeks, I have formulated a physical activity program and amount for Doudou, hoping that the child will strengthen his physical fitness in sports and prepare for elementary school.

Because of the "little angel" as a cover, the daughter still actively and conscientiously completed it.

The "little angel" gives Doudou a gift every day, one is to give her a little encouragement, and the other is to give the child a space for imagination.

She will be full of imagination for beautiful things!

My daughter said that the little red flag rewarded by the teacher fell from 10 to 5, I expressed surprise, but my daughter said calmly: "I don't perform well, I don't have good discipline in class, and I always speak." ”

It's like talking about someone else. I'm very surprised about the performance of children: when they are 10 sides, they are the first place, and they are very excited, but when they are 5 sides, they don't really care, only a little bit of unhappiness. Maybe you've adjusted it in private?

Hehe. 2005、4、19