On June 7th, the Olympic torch came to Nanning, just a 3-day holiday for the Dragon Boat Festival, Doudou asked his father for advice to watch the torch relay, and his father said that it would be good to watch TV at home, and he could clearly see the overall situation.

I said, "It's good to see the audience, but it's not fun to see the audience's feet." Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ”

Doudou was surprised: "Why do you only see the audience's feet?"

I said, "I'm being squeezed down!"

Doudou laughed: "Mom, you are too humorous!"

Every morning, I tease Doudou to play.

Today, she got up in a daze and didn't wake up yet, and I said that her pigtails were facing the sky and the ground, which was really naughty. Doudou's little face was immediately full of smiles!

Last night she took it upon herself to go to Qingqing's house to play, I called to ask her when she would come home, she said that her father agreed to her go home at eight o'clock, I expressed surprise, Doudou immediately explained: "I played Laipi, Dad had no choice but to agree." I laughed.

In the morning, Doudou wanted to take the new book I bought for her yesterday, and she twisted her ass and pouted, and I said, "You're starting to play Laipi again, aren't you? She laughed herself!2008-6-11

A few nights before going to bed, Doudou's room came from a loud cry, I hurried over to ask the child what grievances he had suffered, Doudou said that it was because Niuniu and Qingqing together had to be a school announcer twice, and they had only been once, and their hearts were unbalanced and very sad, she said that she and Teacher Hou said that they wanted to be, and the teacher said that there would be a chance in the future.

Doudou is a very strong child, and her performance in the classroom can be seen, however, Doudou has no scheming, and she doesn't know how to observe words and feelings, and she doesn't know how to cater to others' psychology, her excellence is simple and natural, I have never taught children to please people, I want children to become an upright person, I put expectations very far!

I don't want my child to be an opportunistic and pleasing person, I expect her to have the best character and take the road of life step by step!

I began to reason with Doudou, and I compared the poplar trees in the north with the big banyan trees in the south: because the poplar trees in the north have survived the harsh climate in the north and can withstand the wind and rain, they have worked hard to climb and grow straight towards the blue sky, so that they can become pillars!

And the big banyan trees in the south because there is no bad weather, they do not go through the baptism of wind and rain, so they grow very fast and thick, but the more they grow, the more hollow they become, and they can only fall down later, which is useless!

People are the same, to withstand the wind and rain, that is, to withstand setbacks, you are not a big setback, but if you can't even face this small blow, this setback can't be overcome, then what can you become?

Doudou listened and thought.

She said, "Mom, I understand. ”

I also analyzed the situation to the children: There are 49 students in the class, how many have gone to be broadcasters? Not everyone has the opportunity, you have been there, you should be happy, and you should continue to work hard to improve, but if things can't go as you want, you should also think about it -- after all, if you work hard, everything is not something that you can completely grasp, and what you can do is just work hard and do what you should do well.

Doudou said: "Mom, I will try my best to do a good job, I want to be like a poplar tree, not a useless talent like a big banyan tree." ”

When she came back from school, Doudou said that she was "scolded" by Teacher Fang in front of the whole class because she made a mistake in a simple calculation problem in the math unit test, and she was very unhappy.

I enlightened you together, saying that because in Teacher Fang's opinion, you should be the most powerful child, and you should get 100 points in every exam, but if you lose half a point or a point with a little carelessness, the teacher will criticize you because she has high expectations for you!

Doudou thought about it like this, I asked her how many places she took the exam, Doudou said that it was the first place, I said that doesn't it show Teacher Fang's expectations of you? Next time, you must be careful not to make a mistake that both the teacher and myself think is "outrageous"!

Doudou nodded deeply!

I said, "Have you figured it out?" and went to sleep, and if you have any things or grievances in the future, tell your mother, and your mother will help you analyze and help you solve it, okay?"

Doudou said, "Okay. Good Mom!"

I touched her head and went back to sleep, and then Doudou said, "Mom, I see that you are not only a nutritionist but also a counselor!"

In the morning, Doudou said to me while drinking milk, "Mom, I think you are good in the hall and in the kitchen." ”

I was surprised, she said that she was watching Ma Xiaodian's "Innocent Mother" say this, and she thought her mother was like this.

Hehe, for Doudou's words, I was happy all day. 2008－6－26