When you were young, who didn't be fooled?

"We are the successors of ✘ism......"

When he grew up healthy and happy and was ready to take over, he found that the "cause of ism" was no longer what it used to be, the whole society was full of the pursuit of personal wealth, and the common prosperity of all people was just a dream that could not be realized, but "a small number of people who got rich first" had become the so-called social "elite", and those who worked hard for the country in obscurity had been eliminated and "laid off".

"Learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well, and you won't be afraid to go all over the world"

It turns out that most of the people who studied mathematics, physics and chemistry and then went to the factories were later laid off and re-employed, because most of the factories closed down or were converted into private enterprises.

And because most of the students who have not learned mathematics, physics and chemistry well have entered the so-called "drought and flood income" unit!

And the quality of the unit has nothing to do with whether the study is good or not!

When he was young, he really doubted that if he failed a lot, he had to gain something, right?

It wasn't until he became an "exploiting class" that he gradually understood what was most important, how to participate in society, and what was his position in it.

Even now, in the eyes of others, he is a so-called "entrepreneur", "big money", "rich man", in fact, he knows that these are "fooling people", don't think too highly of yourself, if there is really something to do, you may be beaten into the dust immediately!

The more you know, the more you may feel that you are still far behind!

Zhao Zhi is very busy now, the projects of the group company are everywhere in China, and he is also forced to become a trapeze, but he has also begun to gradually decentralize his power.

Because he also began to find that he was really middle-aged, and his uncle's troubles were getting more and more.

First of all, it's a matter of eating!

I didn't eat much for lunch and too much for dinner at night!

He didn't eat too much at noon, which directly caused him to be hungry early in the afternoon. But eating too much will make you have a stomach ache from time to time!

The same is true at night, and he also finds that he sleeps less and less, and more seriously, it is becoming more and more difficult to fall asleep, and often it is still "on the verge"!

What to do?

Alas, it's tears to think too much!

When I get together with other friends, in addition to bragging, I start to complain more and more often!

"Lao Zhao, when are you going to lose weight together?"

There are more and more middle-aged friends with fat heads and big bellies, not only that others look unpleasant, but also that they are uncomfortable!

The blood pressure is a little high, the blood lipids are a little high, I have become a pot-bellied poop, and there is no way for my daughter-in-law to escape, who looks at the husband and wife and who has no original so-called heartbeat, what is love?

Who remembers?

It's weird!

The son is becoming more and more uncute, and he is being urged to study all day long, not only the child feels too tired, but he also looks the same, but the daughter-in-law explained that many of the children's classmates and friends are like this, do they dare to let the child lose at the "starting line"?

Well, it seems like it can't be!

The daughter-in-law would talk to him every day about irrelevant trivial things and complain, and the children would also complain to him every day about the "intrigues" with his classmates at school, and his parents also needed him to care about them from time to time.

But to whom should he talk about his own troubles?

Even the very young and beautiful beauties on the street are really just a picturesque scenery, and he really has no other ideas!

When people are young, they always like to go out into the world to look around, and they will be filled with a certain kind of pride in anything new, even if it is just an inconsequential discovery.

While thinking about his life, he pursued the so-called poetry and distance, but at Zhao Zhi's age, no matter how sentimental the poems in the distance were, no matter how beautiful the scenery was, it was far from the familiar taste of his own home that made him feel at ease.

It turned out that every time he went out, he felt like a hero who was about to go on a campaign, his heart was full of all kinds of ideas, and he was also proud to prepare to achieve it.

But now?

Every time he goes out, he begins to want to go home, if it weren't for the needs of work, he would rather go home and drink a mouthful of porridge, eat a little pickles, eat a little steamed buns, than never accompany the so-called "friends" and eat the so-called food in the palatial hotel!

A friend said, "That's because no matter how simple the food at home is, there is the love of the family inside, and no matter how simple the home is, there is also an atmosphere that makes you feel at ease!"

Zhao Zhishen thought so, and also knew that in fact, everyone was the same, but it was ......

Just like the nagging of parents nowadays, why does it feel more and more pleasing to the ear?

Is it the level of nagging that has increased in parents?

Or is your psychological receptivity getting stronger and stronger?

……

"Lao Zhao, you are still happy! You have everything, you have a career, the house is still allocated by the state, even if the house you bought later, it is very cheap, and there is no loan, how can it be like us!

The house I bought relied on loans, and the money I earned was repaid to the bank, and I couldn't eat well or sleep well!

If you eat well, you are afraid that you will not be able to repay the loan if you spend too much, and if you don't sleep well, you are worried that you will face unemployment from time to time.

The boss's latest slogan is spreading everywhere in the unit: We must train young people well and gradually replace those older middle-level people! At least we can save a lot of money!

Alas, I really want to talk to the boss, please give me a lower salary! I want to breathe with the company, share the same fate, and be heart-to-heart, as long as you don't need me!

But I'm worried that other people's bosses will despise me!"

Zhao Zhi listened to his old classmate's drunken "complaint", looked at him with some sideburns and white hair, drinking while talking, with a slight smile on his face, but tears were left on his cheeks.

Old classmate, nearly forty years old, you know that you are not so happy when you look at it!

For the sake of the family, who is not doing their best

Whose father is this, and whose husband is this?

A middle-aged man, who did not cry without scruples, how much life pressure he was carrying, so that he could not suddenly collapse under the support of hard work!

As a man, he can afford to take everything and let it go, but his family can make him cry.

In fact, there are a lot of middle-aged people like this, but they usually pretend to be doing well, and try to show the good side to others, for fear that others will underestimate themselves because of something.

Only occasionally when you drink too much will you complain like crazy, who is not the same?

Maybe life is like this, prosperity is a place of chicken feathers, not only high-rise buildings under the neon lights, but also small black rental houses in the shadow of buildings.

Even in Haishi, there are many frustrated people in the international metropolis where the domestic income is relatively high and the living environment is relatively good!

How many people are in tears in the songs and laughter of the windy and snowy night?

The old classmate came here to see his unconscious younger brother, because the younger brother asked the whole family to borrow money everywhere to help him buy a house in Haishi and start a family!

He was angry because his parents had already raised his younger brother to graduate school, how could he still make such a request?

It's so ignorant!

However, after his field trip, his brother is actually very good among his peers here in Haishi!

Diligent, hardworking, and thrifty, and this is why the girl in the sea market can take a fancy to him, and urge his brother to get married as soon as possible.

It's just that the house here in Haishi is indeed too expensive, so expensive that even the whole family can't afford to buy it with all the money, and can only pay a down payment!

But in this case, the married life of the young couple will be tense in the future, and most of the income will need to be used to pay off the mortgage.

However, I can't complain about the girl's family for making such a request, because this girl is not only relatively beautiful, but also a graduate student with a good job.

But who can blame this?

Alas, drink bars!

How to solve your worries, only a little wine!