34. Teach children to be grateful

Doudou was playing at Qingqing's house last night and called back to say that he wanted to stay at Qingqing's house at night. I firmly disagree with the pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info.

When I went to pick her up, Doudou quickly carried her schoolbag and came out to follow me home.

On the way, I asked why I remembered to live at Qingqing's house again, and Doudou said that Qingqing wanted her to live.

I said, "Then you don't care about me?" Doudou was embarrassed to say that I would come back tomorrow. I said that she was too much, she didn't accompany me at night, and she couldn't even think about coming back at night, Doudou was very embarrassed, and she was sorry that adults didn't take good care of people.

It seems that I should be right to do this, my daughter is growing up day by day, I should let her know how to care about people, let her understand that her parents also need her love!2006/12/12

Saturday was my daughter's birthday, I bought a cake, and my dad sent a gift from Beijing (vision protector). I gave her a scarf of the animal she had taken a fancy to last time, and Doudou was very happy and invited a few children to celebrate together, and had a great time. Until more than nine o'clock in the evening.

A few children were noisy, jumping around, and having fun!

Yesterday the weather was very good, the sun was shining, Doudou and I played downstairs for a morning, and asked for two fast food at noon, and we had a very happy day.

In the evening, Doudou said that he wanted to do exercise, take out the exercise table, and make up for the exercise that fell in November, I said that I was afraid that she would be tired, besides, where can I make up for it after the time has passed, and the purpose of exercising is not so!

Doudou insisted on making it back, I reasoned that Doudou didn't listen, and then got angry, I compromised, Doudou was still unhappy, saying that if she didn't make it back, she wouldn't do exercise, and then she cried, and finally locked herself in the house and said that she wanted to be alone for a while.

I secretly watched the little guy reading a book, just acting angry to show me, and I took a shower and went to sleep.

Doudou came out slowly, and I told her to go to the shower, brush her teeth, and go to bed.

The little guy quickly changed his clothes, brushed his teeth and went to bed, and did not take a bath.

I slept and ignored her, Doudou asked, "Don't study today?" I said: "Don't study, I'm very angry with your performance today, why can't you even listen to the reason, my mother just told you the meaning of exercising, you simply don't listen and lose your temper, my mother is very sad." You see that your mother usually takes care of you from head to toe, in order to let you sleep a little longer, your mother even helps you dress every day, you get up not only don't want your mother to help you get dressed, happy but also lose your temper. You're 7 years old today, you should take care of your own affairs, and your mom won't help you anymore. ”

Doudou is listening without squeaking. Then he said, "Mom, I'm sorry, don't take it to heart if I don't behave well, I'm still a child, I haven't grown up yet, don't care, okay?" and then hugged my neck while crying.

"Mom, I've figured it out, you and my dad taught me to grow up, I should treat you well, Mom. I will repay you later. ”

Later, I repeated the events of the evening. It is also stipulated that Doudou will take the initiative to take care of everything by himself in the future. Doudou agreed. I washed her hair and took a shower and slept again.

In fact, the ancestors of the child to prevent old age has her own reason, although it should not be like doing business to calculate a cost recovery, but the younger generation to the elders to give the love feedback, one to the elders to be gratified, the two younger generations also feel the emotion of a good life.

This morning, I woke up Doudou without any incident, and she got dressed, washed, drank milk, and happily went to school.

It seems that it is not enough to blindly care, it is also important to teach children to be grateful, it is necessary to give children some psychological and mutual love from their parents, and to be grateful to their parents, teachers and all those who care about her.

We should not take everyone's love for granted.

The common problem exposed by the only child is that I am the only one, I don't know how to be grateful, the parents pour all their love and hard work into the child, and never ask for anything in return, the child has no sense of return while blindly asking for love, lacks a sense of responsibility, I must not let Doudou be so!

I have to change some ways and means to let Doudou understand that love is mutual, so that she can have a grateful heart, so that she will cherish love and return love more, love herself and others!2006/12/18

Doudou joined the first batch of Young Pioneers on January 31, not to mention how happy he was. He also said that he told his colleagues and aunts slowly, and they would be very happy!

A few days later, Doudou came back and disappeared the red scarf, saying that it was confiscated because of the self-study class.

Doudou doesn't seem to care too much. But I could feel the hurt on my child. After all, the red scarf is the result of the child's hard work this semester.

Teachers are only there to discipline children, but it seems that teachers pay little attention to children's mental development. I should discuss and communicate with the teacher about this issue!2007/1/15

Every day is like a war, Doudou wants to play with Qingqing, plus there is a lot of homework, and the time to chat with her daughter every night is very limited, often Doudou is still saying that I have pretended to be asleep, so it is 10:30 at the earliest, in order to give the child enough sleep time, there is less communication, and more I listen to the content of her day to understand her thoughts.

I just listen when it's okay, and I participate in discussions when there's a problem.

Yesterday, Doudou told her mother: "Mom, I have good news for you, I am the leader of the math group again. It seems that Doudou still likes to be a little "official" very much.

In the past few days, Doudou has been drinking ginger syrup in the morning, and his tonsils seem to be smaller. Breathing seems to have cleared a bit at night. Doudou has never wanted to have surgery, and has always insisted on drinking ginger syrup, hoping that if it can be effective, it will save the operation. I still can't make up my mind. 2007/1/23