"From the perspective of parents, we blame teachers and school education, from the perspective of teachers, blame parents and society, have you ever thought about how much our children have increased in the past ten years, but how much has the school increased, I remember when I was a child, there were only forty people in a class, and it was our city's experimental primary school, but now, the experimental class has 50 people, most of the families are only children, parents' expectations and teachers' energy are growing in inverse proportion, we blame the current educators, who should the educators blame? What is the proportion of education in the growth of our country's national income? Is it time to set a ratio of teachers to students, which has been practiced in the United States for several decades, why does China not set the rule, whether it is unwilling or unwilling, if a teacher only teaches 10 children, why should China's education not be able to improve, but is the state willing? Is the state willing to make such unprofitable expenditures? But the country is not an enterprise, it should not be based on profit and advertising as the mainstream, I hope our motherland will think about the flowers of our future motherland, after all, they are the future of the motherland. Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info "Friends" Late Dolphin "said!

My reply: Yes! What you are talking about is a problem that deserves the consideration of the authorities and the government, the value orientation of the whole society and the lack of investment in education, as well as the corruption of officials at all levels and the impetuous parents who are eager for quick success? But as parents, how much do we hope that the teachers we can meet can be more humane and have a long-term vision! After all, they are teaching and educating people! But how can we expect teachers who have grown up in such an educational and social environment? Therefore, I have always held the attitude of understanding the teacher and taught the children to understand and adapt!

Yes, the government's policy orientation is the most important, while shouting to reduce the burden of students, while doing all kinds of merit-based admissions, "excellent" means only the grades! The teacher's excellence and treatment are also directly linked to the student's grades, in such an environment, the teacher does not have much spare energy to pay attention to the all-round development of the students, and some even come up with all kinds of ways to harm the children's character in order to improve the grades. Can our educational philosophy be changed?

Although we have always hoped that children can grow up easily and freely, it is impossible to give children a good environment for growth!

Teachers have teachers' hardships, schools have schools' hardships, and the government has the government's hardships, so our children have been suppressed from generation to generation to hate learning and school? Alas!

As a parent, I feel a lot of pressure!

My Doudou has always been a lively and happy child, but now she is so oppressed by her homework every day that she doesn't even have time to smile and smile! Her hands are calloused! She even has to run to the toilet at night, and she doesn't have time to eat fruit and milk!

In this way of studying and working hard, the teacher is still not satisfied, and the dissatisfaction is not encouragement and teaching, but the cold eyes are relative! As a mother, I have an unspeakable distress! I can't let the child know, and keep persuading the child: understand the teacher's mood and practice, and don't treat the teacher with an antagonistic attitude, she is for your good! But in the face of the teacher's cold reception, how can I ask a child who is not yet ignorant to understand it and accept it?

Last night, it was 10:30 a.m. for Doudou to finish her homework, and she took out the teaching assistant to do it, and said, "I don't believe that I can't meet the teacher's requirements!

Alas! Without the joy of childhood, as long as an excellent grade is worth the joy of growing up? After all, life cannot be restarted! Every day is spent happily and joyfully, should childhood be spent in joy and happy learning?

I'm a little at a loss!But I still have to enlighten my children from time to time, don't be hurt by this distorted value orientation and perverted education!2013.4.12