We didn't drink much that night, but we were in a good mood. Lao Li is busy with the service for everyone, but after all, this time he came out with the boss, and of course he was in a good mood for both promotion and salary increase, and Zhao Hong, Li Gang, and Tian Feng were also at a class reunion, chatting about the former youth together, and they were naturally very happy.

Li Gang also took the opportunity to express his plan, "Working in the capital for a few years, the economy is good, and with your help, I also bought a house." The daughter-in-law basically went to have an approximate range. Even at work, I'm still a little unwilling, I want to go out and see what the scenery of foreign countries is like? Parents weren't very opposed either. ”

Zhao Hong also understood, saying, "Which country do you want to go to?" Do you want to stay out, or do we want to come back?"

Li Gang said with a smile. "If you want to go to the US imperialists, of course, to have a look. After all, it is the most technologically advanced and economically beautiful place in the world. What if there was any chance? I would swing my little hoe and dig into a corner. As for whether to come back or not, it depends on the future scenario. If you can get a foothold over there, you must first find a way to gain a foothold, and then if you have another chance, you can go back to China to work with an American salary, such as going to Haishi, it will be beautiful!"

Zhao Hong hurriedly answered. "Do you need help? If you need help with financial or job opportunities, you have to say, you're welcome. ”

Li Gang said proudly, "The work has been completed, and I was sent to work at the headquarters by the foreign company where I am now working." There is no problem with the economic aspect, after all, I came with a job. ”

But then he shook his head and said, "The question now is, I don't know whether I should get married in China first and then go over? Or should I look for it after I have passed? In China, if I get married first and then go over, I will have no worries about going public in life in the past, and if I look for it in the past, it may be more convenient in the future life circle." ”

Tian Feng also asked with a strange face, "Why do you want to look for it? Can't you find a better one here? After all, there are still very few Chinese abroad, and of course the opportunity for a suitable one is even smaller." ”

Li Gang also said helplessly, "Speaking of which, we work in the capital, and we have a very good income and a house in Beijing, which is already very good." However, in fact, we still have a lot of troubles when we start a family here. The old Beijingers don't look down on us, because after all, we are outsiders! They say that we are outsiders who have no foundation, and girls from other places want to marry locals in every possible way, so that they may have more advantages in life. ”

Zhao Hong also continued, "Actually, it's the same in Haishi. This is not only the case in the capital, but also in the sea market, where it is rumored that first-class girls marry Europe and the United States, second-class girls marry Hong Kong and Taiwan, and third-class girls marry compatriots. ”

Tian Feng said with a look of disgust, "If people can't do it, the shelf won't fall." In fact, there are many people in the old capital who are living an average life now. Not only do they not have a good job, but they also don't have a good academic background. And so awesome!"

Zhao Hong also said with some emotion, "This is the old capital people." I heard a joke. I have a friend who came to Beijing for a business trip, dressed well, after all, he was going to go out to work, and he lived in a high-end hotel, and he cleaned up neatly. When taking the bus, he habitually gave up a seat to an old lady, after all, it is to be civilized and polite. The old lady politely expressed her gratitude, and then chattered to him about all kinds of bad things after the arrival of outsiders, and the countrymen took the bus to grab seats everywhere and squeeze ....... The outsiders he talked about how bad they were had had an impact on their local lives. It has seriously affected local life and order. My friend just nodded in agreement at first. But then. The old lady asked about him again, and had to answer the old lady's question in Mandarin, but the old lady then asked if he was also a foreigner. I nodded helplessly. The old lady then snorted and turned her head to ignore him again, and my friend was also very helpless. ”

Tian Feng also had a deep understanding and said, "That's not it, in fact, I have been to Beijing before." Even people like us who wear military uniforms. Everywhere is also far away. The company commander of our company once talked about a girl from a local village, but she was still disliked for a long, long time. And he also asked to be a door-to-door son-in-law. In the end, their love affair was not negotiated, which is really a kind of sadness. ”

"That's what I'm facing right now. Actually, I wanted to find a local one, not because of economic reasons. I hope that I can have a parent in the capital, and I can take her back to visit her parents during the Chinese New Year, so that we don't have to go to another place to visit her parents for the New Year. ”

Li Gang also said a little tangled.

Zhao Hong thought for a while and said, "Then you actually have two ways, one is to take your parents over." Living with you in the capital, you can find someone from other places, usually live with your parents, go to see her parents during the New Year, and there is another way for you to find us there, and you can go back to a place for the New Year!"

Tian Feng also agreed, "Boss, this is a good idea." Actually, you can find our girls there, how good it is, take care of the family and keep the house, it is comfortable to look at, and it is very convenient to communicate. ”

Li Gang shook his head and said, "If that happens, our child will still be a foreigner in the future, and he will still not be able to become a native of the capital." After all, our lifestyle habits also affect our children. If I want to integrate into the local area and the capital, I still need to find a local in the capital who is the best. Such. Let's not talk about it, it is easy for children to integrate into the local living environment and atmosphere, especially in terms of living habits. ”

I have to say that he thinks very reasonably and comprehensively. Just like he is in country M, if there is no Xiao Wanting as an intermediary, it is difficult for him to integrate into the local society, with some help from Xiao Wanting's family, even if he can't integrate into the local circle, their children are no problem! This is why they left Hong Kong City. After all, he didn't have any foundation in Port City. Even if there is investment, the company has developed in size and has a certain scale, but it is still difficult to integrate into the local mainstream social group, and of course, it is difficult to have a voice. But that's the way in the world, where is the perfect solution?

Zhao Hong didn't know how to persuade him, after all, this was a very practical question! He was right, but there was no standard answer, so he could only judge for himself. Whether it is right or wrong is his own choice, even if Zhao Hong is a person who has been reborn for a lifetime, his life experience cannot be judged!

Li Gang smiled helplessly and said, "Do you think I'm too greedy?" I want to find both local and excellent ones. But where is it so suitable? It has to be specially prepared for me. Age, height, appearance, family, etc., must be suitable, I can look up to others, and key people have to look up to me. ”

Everyone is happy to listen to it, isn't it? Where is it so suitable?

Zhao Hong smiled and said, "Actually, it is appropriate to find someone who is stronger than yourself, and it is inappropriate to find someone who is worse than yourself." Of course, the best situation is that both parties feel that they have found the right person, and that the other party is better than themselves, so that both parties have the best mentality. ”

Tian Feng also nodded approvingly, "Isn't life a state of mind? If the mentality is good, all problems are floating clouds, and if the mentality is not good, everything will become a problem! When I was in the army, I just had a bad mentality, and I had no problems when it was difficult, and the conditions were too good, but I felt that I couldn't bear it." ”

Li Gang was also puzzled, "It's not that I thought it was very difficult to buy a house before, I am the eldest in the family, so I have always been in the circle of locals, and I don't know that Zhao Hong helped me later, and I thought that the highest of the three mountains would be solved immediately." The original expectations seemed to be set a little low, but my original girlfriend seemed to be unable to wait and occasionally lost her temper with me!"

Everyone was happy when they heard it, but didn't they, I thought that my boyfriend had become better in general, which girl wasn't in a hurry to settle down?

Tian Feng asked Zhao Hong a little ridiculously, "Old Zhao, what is this? What kind of beauty is Chen? haha......"

Zhao Hong also smiled and said, "We are not old bags, we are standard helpers and don't care! Besides, aren't we married yet? It's just that we are in love, and if the conditions are not good, she will be allowed to break up, and if the conditions are good, we will be allowed to break up! It depends on Li Gang's choice." ”

Lao Li also smiled and said, "Xiao Li." I'll just tell you what I think. In fact, you don't need to think so much at all, if you need it in the future, the boss is your biggest backing. Most of the problems in this world can still be solved with money! As for the others that cannot be solved with money, sometimes we can't change them. As for the relationship between you and your girlfriend. Choose or give up, in fact, you just need to follow your heart and consider your feelings for her, and there is no need to think about the rest. ”

Li Gang said helplessly, "Now I know." But it's a little late, after all, I've known this girlfriend for more than five years. It's been three years since the relationship was formalized. Maybe that's my life! ”

Everyone laughed out loud, isn't that what it is? In fact, sometimes, everyone knows that suffering losses is a blessing!