Dou Child's attitude towards learning is the same as always, although her mouth is saying that she wants to work hard and be admitted to a key high school, but she can't see her active efforts. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

I don't want to stare at her every day, I don't know what kind of children will become after such a method, and I don't want to bother too much.

Now that the children have grown up, they often disobey the yang and the yin, and my supervision and supervision basically have no effect. said bitterly that it basically had no effect, so I didn't bother to nag, I just hoped that she could grow up slowly.

I didn't want her to become a person who could get ahead and so on, so I wasn't too disappointed. As long as she is happy, grows up easily, and can support herself. But as far as the intellectual inheritance and mental cultivation we gave her, if we fail to achieve anything, I am really a little unwilling. But seeing her like this, I really don't want to be angry and nagging every day.

The third year of junior high school was supposed to be a very critical year, but I couldn't get her to give it her all out.

This week, I have to take classes for 9 consecutive days during the National Day holiday, and the bean child began to be hypocritical yesterday: I am not happy when I think of taking classes for 9 days in a row.

I said, "9 days can be exchanged for 7 days off, but it's just a change of time to go to school."

She was still muttering and not sleeping. I was so upset that I ordered her to "shut up."

It only occurred to me this morning that when I was her age, I was still living in the township middle school, because everyone was far away from home, and at that time, it was two weeks and three days off, and classes were held for 11 consecutive days. There are no vegetables, no fruits, and no meat to eat, and all I eat every day is steamed buns like cow in the school cafeteria.

Better families also have their own dry food, steamed buns or pancakes to eat. At that time, my mother always thought of a way to get me as much dry food as possible to bring with me.

The dormitory is a leaky house. Three years of junior high school passed like this.

Come to think of it, today's good life turned out to be the result of my hard work in the past.

But when such things are said to the children, they will say in unison: We are not like that now, don't talk about your things anymore.

But the children don't know that their current good life is the result of our hard work and strength at that time.

Adolescent children, who have not yet grown up, have an increased sense of self, and their desire to get rid of discipline is getting stronger and stronger, and it is difficult to listen to what they say.

And I am facing the child alone, the education and guidance are ineffective, and I often feel discouraged, so I am lazy, waiting, waiting for her to grow up, waiting for her to be sensible.

I have arranged the foundation of her life for her, as long as she realizes herself.

There is no pressure in life, and life is too short, so let her live happily and happily.

Besides, now I have six classes a week and five nights of self-study, which is quite hard. The grades are still in the middle and upper, so let her get away with it.

Sometimes I wonder if it will be irresponsible for me as a mother as long as I let it go?

Actually, what is the value of life? I'm still confused, and I really don't know how to teach my child, so I just let her grow up.

As long as you can grow up healthy, safe and happy, it's OK. 2014.9.22