Baby, time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle. The babbling of the pen and the www.biquge.info in the swaddling clothes, and the toddlers in the courtyard have long been a long time ago. Before you know it, you've grown up, and you're going to college in the blink of an eye. It stands to reason that 18 is an adult, and I shouldn't have had anything to worry about. It's just that you've never left home since you were born, and I'm always worried that you won't be able to take care of yourself outside. You said that you don't want to go to university locally, and I understand and support it. Outside, the sea and the sky are wide, and you can fly as much as you want. You hate preaching, but I'm still going to say a few words when you're away studying. It may not work for you, but it is a comfort to me.

▲ Regarding morality, being a moral person, this statement is not new, I mainly want to talk about how to do it. Morality is first and foremost a practice, and goodness cannot exist only in the heart. I remember one time on the bus, I offered to give up my seat to an elderly man. At that time, you and Sister Jun both said that I didn't expect me to give up my seat. I ask you, isn't that how the teacher taught you? You say yes, but you feel a little embarrassed to do it. I understand this mentality of young people, and when I first helped others, I also cared about what others were looking for. Now that I think about it, I don't have to. There are many small things in life, as long as they are readily available, they are a kind of good deed. Don't be stingy when you can help others. The world will be a better place because of your efforts.

▲The quality of the profession is relative and dialectical. Today's good profession is not the same as forever a good profession. When everyone thinks that a major is good, the major is not far from destruction. Don't measure the quality of your profession by the standard of interest. Picking a major is picking an interest, no matter how hot the major is, no matter how strong the discipline is, if you don't like it, it makes no sense. The criterion of interest is more stable, and the criterion of interest is not long-lasting. Doing what you like and reading your favorite books is a great pleasure in life. Pick what you like, learn what you love, work should be more happy, and life will be of higher quality. With the continuous development of human society, the professional division of labor has become more refined, but the professional division of labor cannot divide the well water and not the river water. All kinds of majors are ways of interpreting the world, and if you dabble widely, you will be wiser.

▲ Regarding the knowledge of "the uselessness of reading" exists, and there are also people who make a windfall without reading. However, individual cases do not tell the story, and general phenomena are convincing. Those who know a little bit of common sense know that even if it is measured by money, the role of knowledge cannot be ignored. Otherwise, the high importance that prominent multinational corporations attach to the intellectual factor cannot be explained. A simple statistic shows a positive correlation between knowledge and income. Whether reading is useful or not, the key is how to treat usefulness, and we can't just use "money" as a standard knowledge to make life more possible. Knowledge determines a person's temperament, taste, vision, appreciation level, and values...... These are all key factors that affect the quality of life. These are the result of intellectual imaging, not the product of the exchange of money. If you graduate from college and realize that there are many more meaningful ways to live, then this university is not in vain.

▲The biggest difference between reading university and high school is that there is a lot of freedom, and there are many people who squander their freedom. I hope you can take advantage of this rare freedom and read more books. Nowadays, many young people don't like to read, and they can spend a lot of time shopping, Taobao, playing games, and chatting online...... I just don't want to take the time to read quietly. I once wrote a reading message to my students: "While you are young, take it seriously and have a love affair with good books." "I emphasize that when you are young and go into society, you will know how difficult it is to find time to study. I also emphasize reading good books, some of which are really harmful, poor in thought, and mediocre in content. Reading is like making friends, you must carefully screen it, and don't get close to it. An easy way to do this is to read the classics, which are the product of the choice of time, the result of the reader's discernment. There must be a reason why a book has become a classic. As long as it's a classic, you can read it as long as you want to.

▲ Regarding competition in today's era, we need to speak with strength. The rules should be fairer and fairer, and the competition will definitely be more and more brutal. Dad is a stubborn person, he doesn't like to ask for help, and he rarely asks others. When I first transferred from elementary school to junior high school, the principal thought I had the level to teach junior high school. Later, the county school recruited 6 teachers, and I took the third place, but I was not admitted, it doesn't matter, I don't ask for others. The next year I got into graduate school and left that place. Don't rely on personal relationships, rely on ability to compete. Although this is a difficult task, it is good to be able to win the respect of others on the outside and to gain peace of mind on the inside! You must know that if a person does not want to live a lowly life, he must have the capital to be able to hold his head high. You have to seize the opportunity and improve yourself. Face the wind and rain of life and meet the challenges of the times.

▲ About beautyThis is an era that pays attention to sensory stimulation, and the visual experience is very important. Everyone has a love for beauty, and this is especially true for girls. People rely on clothing, Buddha relies on gold, and people must know how to groom themselves. Unfortunately, I don't have much experience to pass on to you. When you're not studying, take a look at a book or fashion magazine on grooming. It's okay to buy some new clothes, wear jewelry to embellish, and add color with makeup. Of course, being beautiful and attractive isn't just about looks. Speech and demeanor will convey a person's demeanor, and dealing with others can reveal a person's cultivation. It's important to do both inside and out, and I don't want you to be beautiful in a vase. Besides, none of us in our family has the capital to be a vase. Knowledge is the best cosmetics, and good literacy will make people more attractive, which is an attraction that cannot be taken away by the years.

▲ About love, love is beautiful, Dad hopes you can find the right person. Child, as long as you are happy, my life will be complete. Love is very serious, and it must be taken seriously. Feelings are not for play, and affection is not for show. True love is deep and not shallow, and true is selfless and not greedy. Your lover is not your private property. You can think of him, but don't bother him easily, you can love him, but don't limit him firmly. Falling in love will make people do all kinds of stupid things without knowing it, you are a girl, you must know how to clean yourself, what you can do and what you can't do, and you have to think clearly on the way to dating. If the relationship fails, the woman always has to hurt deeply. Boys chase girls, there are many tricks, the offensive is fierce, and some are very moving. The decision to love should be based on the usual meticulous investigation, not on the spur of the moment. I hope your future boyfriend is honest and self-contained. If you are serious, I will bless you.

▲About making friends: University is a place to study and a place to make friends. A person must have several friends in his life. A happy life does not depend on money and wealth, but on social relationships. Friends are one of a wide range of social relationships. If you share your happiness, you will be happier, and if you share your sorrow, you won't be too sad. There are people everywhere who are worthy of your concern, and there are people everywhere who care about you, and you will feel that the world is full of sunshine and your heart is like a spring breeze. There is no love without a reason in the world, and there is no hate without a reason. If you want others to be kind to you, you must first be kind to others. The university dormitory, four people in one bedroom, everyone came from afar, it was an encounter in the previous life. In case of trouble, let it go, and help if there is a difficulty. With people roses, there is a lingering fragrance in the hand.

▲ Regarding the fairest time and time, everyone's day is 24 hours. Time is the easiest to get, but it is also the least cherished. I often hear people say in life that you have to make up for the time. Time can't be made up, and wasting it is wasting. Don't always feel like you're young and too early to do anything. There is a saying that "I remember that the boy rode a wooden horse, and in a blink of an eye, he was already a white-headed man". College students' time is often wasted in two ways, one is club activities, and the other is surfing the Internet. It is indeed a good thing to participate in club activities appropriately, make friends, and increase knowledge. But too many extracurricular activities will cause time to be wasted in the name of all kinds of justice. The network is very convenient, and the network is also very wrong. Computers and mobile phones keep you in touch with the outside world at all times, and they also keep you distracted by the outside world at all times. When appropriate, turn off the internet and let the time be spent on more meaningful things.

Baby, if you say a thousand things and ten thousand, it's better for you to practice it yourself. Dad can't teach you everything, and he can't accompany you for the rest of your life. Time passes, life will not last, one day, parting will become forever. Hopefully, these suggestions will be beneficial to you.

Be happy and happy whenever and wherever you are. If you are well, I will be happy.