Fifty-three, mother and dog
In the past few days, Doudou has relied on me, slept with me, and kept saying that from Moore to every bit in school, endlessly, I was a little impatient, telling her to shut up and sleep, and she would answer me "You sleep with yours, I said mine, just treat me as if I hypnotized you". Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info listen, is there such hypnosis? I laughed to myself.
A few days ago, a child said that she and her father practiced table tennis, Doudou suggested that people go to the sports school for professional training, and they asked her: "Then how many years have you been training?" Doudou replied: "I can't say a few years, but there are still a few months." "This kid! that proud, sophisticated tone!2009-2-25
Doudou has a lot of homework, and I procrastinate myself, I always can't help but supervise, and I feel a little annoyed when I talk too much, I lose my patience, and sometimes I even have the urge to beat her. Alas, patience, patience!
Last night, when my father was rushing for his thesis, Doudou slept with me, and said, "Fortunately, my father is studying for a doctorate, otherwise I wouldn't have had the opportunity to sleep with my mother." "Actually, I often sleep with me.
Every time she said that she couldn't sleep, I held her little hand, and I used to fall asleep quickly, but now it doesn't work. I thought of another trick: I said that I would pass some sleepy bugs to her by holding her hand, and she soon fell asleep. The little guy actually fell asleep very quickly!haha!
Before going to bed, she slowly put on her autumn pants, I patted her leg with my hand, and she suddenly said: "Pleasemothernopiapia."" "piapia" is the sound of me slapping her leg. Fun!2009-3-9
Dad often collects Doudou's leftovers, Doudou thinks Dad is collecting garbage, one dinner, Doudou still has leftovers, and asks Dad, "Do you still collect garbage?" Dad was stunned!
Beanie: 1.40 m, 32.5 kg present. 2009-3-25
A few days ago, the family was chatting while eating, and my father said, "I'll go down and drive..."
We laughed dumbly! The kid reacted so fast! Dad choked!
I said, "Dad is going to open the bicycle lock, why do you think?" Doudou was embarrassed: "I just said, why does Dad still go to drive?"
I know that the child is a little envious when she sees that other people's families have cars and cars to and from school.
I explained the reason why we don't buy a car for the time being: "First, there is no great need, Doudou and Dad are a few minutes away from school and work, and Mom has to walk to exercise; the other requires a lot of money to buy a house and decorate something, and there are grandparents, grandparents and grandparents who have several old people to support, and we can't watch others buy them and just rush to buy a car, after all, buying a car is not a small expense, and there will be a lot of troubles to keep spending on maintaining a car, so there is no need for us to decide not to buy it for the time being." Doudou understood.
Yesterday, because of my father's rude education with me, Doudou actually "mapped" us with an article in "Inside and Outside the Classroom" and their teacher's rude practices, which shows the child's desire for respect and teaching!
Privately, we also talked about educating children: focus on guidance!
In fact, Doudou is outstanding and excellent in many aspects, but children are still far from the requirements of adults, and our lack of patience is the real reason. Reflect on my recent education has a lot of inappropriateness and needs to be improved!2009-4-27
Doudou was very round because of lying (secretly took his wallet to school, used the money to buy gifts for the class meeting, and then lied that it was sponsored by his classmates, and the lie was very round; I don't know how to lose more than 20 money. Got repaired by Dad.
Here's how it happened, two weeks ago, Doudou told the teacher that he would host the class meeting, so he began to think about buying gifts to reward the students who performed well, which seemed to be very important.
Saying that she wanted to take a few dozen yuan, her father and I said that this would be out of the original meaning of the class meeting, and the important thing was to let the students learn new knowledge and understand new principles in the class meeting, and appropriate rewards could be given, but not the main body! Doudou didn't seem to listen.
It happened that last week, my father sorted out the bookcase and took out the old books to buy scrap, and then I asked if I could let Doudou sell used books, Doudou was very happy to do it, and he got 67 yuan for selling books in one morning.
(Doudou's father said he did a good job in selling books.) But when I went home after selling the book, I didn't seem to be happy to get paid for my labor, but I seemed to be very aggrieved, and this exercise didn't seem to have any visible effect. I said that next time I would sell old books, Doudou refused! It seems that it is not easy to let children living in well-off families receive hard education and tempering! But it is very necessary!) With her original 20 yuan, there are more than 80 yuan.
Last Friday, Doudou wanted to preside over the class meeting, saying that the classmates wanted to support her part, and they could do it a little more, I also secretly admired the child's adaptability and problem-solving ability, in the morning, Dad said to take 5 yuan to buy gifts, Doudou said not to take it, if the mother gave it to her, I didn't want to take my own, I thought this child knew how to cherish the money he earned.
We repeatedly asked her to take it, saying that as long as the classmates sponsored it, it was not good, Doudou was very resolute, and I hurried out at seven o'clock.
After playing ball in the evening, I went to eat "Brother Haolun", I didn't have change when I paid, Doudou volunteered to say that she did, and I found out that this kid not only took the wallet, but also spent money without counting!
When she got home, Dad punished Doudou for the worst punishment she had ever had ever done for it!
I listened to the children crying and begging for mercy outside the door, and I was very distressed, but I still couldn't help but go to work, thinking that this kind of principled mistake must be stifled from the beginning, and it must not be tolerated and nurtured!
After that, Dad made a set of regular study and life schedules, and Doudou has been able to implement it these days, but he is still procrastinating and absent-minded when doing homework!
It seems that I still need to be patient to teach, Doudou is still a child, it seems that she has grown up, but in fact she is still young, I need to guide the child's interests and hobbies to the right path!
As a mother, there is still "a long way to go"!
Patience, perseverance, perseverance!
Dad often said: We can't cultivate a good seedling into a crooked melon and bad date! That is our sin! Yes!!2009-5-13
A few days ago, one morning, Doudou, Dad, and Wei Wei went out for a run together, and when the three of them came home after running, Doudou said to me: "Mom, we are a family of four, three of us went to run, only you didn't run, even the dog went to run, what does it mean? It means that you are not even as good as a dog!"
I was dumbfounded! It's disrespectful, but Coke! By the time I reacted and asked, "How can you compare me to a dog," Doudou had already gone to wash.
The next day, Doudou and his father went for a run, without taking Wei Wei, and when I came back, I said proudly: "I don't have to compete with the dog this time, right?" Doudou responded: "This time you are the same as the dog." "I'm like a chicken!
Dad went to Beijing to defend his doctoral dissertation, before leaving he had "repaired" Doudou, and strictly managed, Dad was not at home these days, Doudou was very conscious of taking the initiative to do everything for himself, I asked her why she is so well-behaved these days, Doudou replied: "I want you to see, without Dad management, I can still do well." ”
I asked, "That is, you have the ability to do well, but you don't usually want to do a good job?" I'm stunned again!2009-5-20