Yesterday, Doudou raised a serious complaint against me:

Mom, do you think it's been a long time since we've really "heart-to-heart"?

Because you're so fierce, I can't find an outlet for my emotions!

Do you know how depressed and painful I am?

Because it was painful, I cried bitterly, but the more I cried, the more painful it became. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Can you think that I am such a happy person, and the only one who can cry unscrupulously in front of my mental tutor?

My heart is like a knife!

The child's adolescence has arrived, and everything likes to come to the opposite side, so I often can't listen to the reason, and I no longer talk hard to reason, I want to wait for her to grow up and be sensible, and there is also timely guidance, I don't know how to give her such a feeling?

Her procrastination still does not change, and I will no longer be harsh, I hope that under my tolerance, the child can grow up happily and carefree, and slowly understand.

I don't want to make her feel like I'm not paying attention to her anymore.

I was trying to communicate with her, and Doudou said, "So where is the mother who just wants her daughter to be happy and doesn't ask for grades?"

"The problem is that now is different, you have to have your own efforts and gains when you grow up, and you have to be responsible for your own future! I don't ask you for your grades, I am not responsible for you! I don't want you to work hard, but there is no way! If your father is here, I can relax my requirements for you, but now you can only rely on yourself!" I gave her the reason, Doudou got up and left, leaving a sentence: "Then we have nothing to say!"

Looking at the child's back, infinite hatred rose in my heart: If you are here, why are we so hard?

Fortunately, the child cried loudly for a while while in the bath, I didn't say anything more, and I didn't stop it, I hope she can vent her emotions and regulate herself.

I want to spend a peaceful way with my child through adolescence.

Sometimes because of her procrastination, she will also yell loudly, maybe the child thinks I am fierce, pay attention in the future!

Last Friday, because he didn't complete the teacher's homework, he was punished by the teacher for copying books 20 times, although he felt that the teacher was too much, but the child made a mistake first, and he didn't intercede with the teacher, and Doudou's stubborn personality came again: never copy!

Then use your own methods to escape punishment: wash your hair, turn the air conditioner to 18 degrees Celsius, and hope to freeze yourself and not have to go to school.

I didn't have a cold on Friday, I still went to school, I didn't want to get too involved in her studies, I wanted her to be able to handle it herself, so I never got involved, maybe the child wanted me to intercede for her. But I think it's a matter of principle, and you should be punished if you don't complete the homework that should be done, whether the punishment is reasonable or not, because you gave the teacher the opportunity to punish it!

Then I caught a cold on Saturday and threw up early in the morning, and as a doctor, I was already surprised, so I took appropriate measures and threw up until 9 a.m. and slept well.

Only then can I reason with her, and she will say, "I know that I am wrong, and I will not do it in the future." ”

Recently, I had contact with a person, many unsatisfactory, hesitating, seeing the other party's initiative and diligence, Doudou said: "People are sincere, what do you say?"

I'm noncommittal, I have to think about a lot, not just whether it's true or not.

I said, "It's really inconvenient to have someone in the house, and you can't do whatever you want." ”

Doudou answered: "That's because he hasn't become his own person yet!" This kid is often in one sentence!2013.7.1