Be a warm, modest, and self-sustaining person, do not like things, do not feel sad about yourself, do not be confused in your heart, do not be trapped in love, do not fear the future, do not think of the past, have to be better than your own time, with the passage of time, keep worthy of the sediment of the past, so that the richer self is no longer worried about loneliness and loneliness. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

"Standing in the vortex of the city, seeing all kinds of colors, hearing a hundred voices, making a living, and maintaining a pure state of mind and simple nature is not an easy thing for anyone to do."

If a person can go from not working in calculation to working in not calculating, he will be wise and foolish, and then he will be wise.

"Marriage is not the same as happiness,

Being single doesn't mean being unfortunate either,

Because we were born alone,

In the end, it is impossible to leave at the same time,

Alone,

As long as you are calm,

That's a kind of happiness,

It's as simple as that. ”

In my opinion, it is better for people who do things rightly or wrongly than people who do nothing. However, in reality, it is often the people who do things who complain, and those who do not do things sit upside down and enjoy the blessings.

Autumn is dry, and diet and rest should be adjusted appropriately. Food should be fresh and moisturizing, such as fresh vegetables, fruits, moisturizing foods are: Huaishan, lotus root, lotus seeds, lilies, white fungus, etc., you can make soup, you can also make porridge. The best way to rest is to get enough sleep, a glass of warm milk before going to bed can provide certain nutrients, and it can also moisten and promote sleep.

When it rains, the dry and dirty air will also be cleaned, but an autumn rain and a cold will cause a bunch of people to catch a cold and cough and fever. Pay attention to cold protection, keep warm, eat lightly, sleep moderately, and prevent colds.

I know a lot of long-lived old people, most of them are in their eighties and nineties, most of them are calm, open-minded, and indifferent old people, with a quiet face like a baby, which makes people feel good. But there are also a few very extreme personalities, a ninety-year-old grandmother, extremely drilled, strong personality, such an age is the same calculating, materialistic and strong, mainly because she is not confused at this age, as small as a piece of soap can be remembered clearly, if you don't get it, she will scold people in a hurry, and often sue the colleagues who are in charge of the old cadres to the leader. There is also an eighty-year-old grandmother who is also very powerful, the ability to scold people is the most terrible I have ever seen, and the body is good, I will participate in every event, and every time I meet, there will be people she scolds, either current affairs and politics, or party and government leaders, or someone in the family, full of momentum and neutrality. It is often said that open-minded people live longer, but with a few exceptions, it seems that there is no accuracy in saying longevity.

When I was studying, I was also a very strong child, although I didn't cause trouble, but I couldn't suffer losses or grievances, once anyone provoked me, I must seek justice. After getting married and having children, I don't have to support my life and future, I slowly began to become quiet and indisputable, I was a little woman with peace of mind, I experienced some things and gradually understood the world better, no longer competitive, no longer higher than the sky, but slowly faced the arrangement of life calmly. Many people think that I will collapse or go crazy, but after more than ten years of married life and love, people have already become peaceful, quiet, grateful, contented, and tranquil in the atmosphere of love.

Confused, I forgot to bring my mobile phone to work, and I have something particularly important today, but fortunately I didn't delay anything. When I brought my mobile phone, there were not many people calling, and there were more than a dozen missed calls and five text messages a day without a mobile phone. Things are often like this: the bus you are waiting for just doesn't come, when you take a taxi, there are always customers, when you go to dinner, there are always a lot of people, if you are in a hurry, it rains, and if you occasionally don't bring your mobile phone, countless people look for you......

The so-called wasteland is like this, one tea, one meal, one porridge, one dish, and one person is enough.

"The vicissitudes of life, I am not frightened, natural stability, free of fate, not sad or happy, it is a sunny day. ”

Cherish life, cherish health, a few days ago, a colleague also sang a song "Northern Scenery", and today he was in a car accident and was unconscious in the ICU, and he was not out of danger. Amitabha!

Life comes first, health comes first, and everything else is dispensable, but it's just icing on the cake. If you exchange the first thing for the dispensable thing, you will put the cart before the horse and the gain will outweigh the loss.

A few days ago, I found that a moth laid more than 100 eggs on the tiles in the bathroom of the unit, and I was very sympathetic to her hard work. Today, I found that the larvae like small ants were born, and the black pressure was overwhelming, but unfortunately it was destined to be a dead end. Such a result should also occur due to the destruction of the environment leading to the disorder and loss of the original biological nature of the moth. It also shows that some lives are destined to be fleeting like meteors.

A person of faith must be a person who has reverence, self-discipline, something to do and something not to do, and a person who has a bottom line.

"Everyone has lonely moments. A lot of people aren't the drunken money fans you remember. Be cynical. You don't see their unknown loneliness. Don't let the emptiness of the moment distract you from holding on to your thoughts. We're all the same. Learn to endure the inevitable loneliness of life. ”

Everything should be done today, enjoyed today, said what you want to say today, and don't postpone everything until tomorrow, because we don't know if tomorrow is still there.

When you find that the original smooth skin has pores and fine lines, the tight cheeks begin to show sagging, the nasolabial folds are obvious, the long jet-black hair that has always liked to be proud has a dotted white hair, the memory is far less than before, there is no previous vitality and agile skills, there is no mental strength to deal with others, and you no longer want to quarrel with others, even if the other party understands that it is wrong, you would rather give in...... Is this a step by step towards aging? What a frustrating and frightening thing it is?!

When I often see old people who are old, I will have some uncertain questions: have they all gone through the youthful moments of vitality and prosperity? How can they be so old? And the subtle changes in my body and the imperceptible changes in my mentality, thinking, and way of doing things in the past two years have made me slowly realize that life has actually begun to decline, and this journey is slowly approaching the end. I will inevitably lose my face, be sick and grow old, and it is terrible to think about it, and the sun and the moon are constantly rotating, and life will inevitably grow old all the time.

Seeing that many old people who are not rich are still reluctant to eat, wear, and spend a penny, their hearts are full of sympathy, and they are saving money for their old age. I was preparing for that sudden illness, but I didn't know how much I had gained more than I had gained by treating myself so badly! The wealth I had accumulated in my hard work and life was far from enough to pay for the treatment of a serious illness, but in fact, I left a maximum of 100,000 yuan to treat a disease that could be cured by medicine, and the rest of the money was used to enjoy it, so that I could find a little more fun in my life, and not treat myself harshly, so that I would not regret my life when the time came. Doctors can cure diseases, but they can't cure lives. Rather than a lifetime of harshness and decay, it is better to broadband yourself. But it's really hard to say such things to the elderly, and many people think that as long as they live, it is better to live no matter what, than to die.